I remember that in ancient times, people were more proud of having children, especially boys. The ancient concept that men are superior to women is only one aspect, followed by boys who can do manual labor and gravity labor. Bridal gifts for daughters who mainly marry others are also part of family income. Because of physical reasons, this daughter can't do manual labor like her son. In the 1970s and 1980s, our country advocated family planning, with the slogan of "having fewer children and having good children". After all, with the intensification of China's reform and opening up, people's lives gradually improved. But in modern times, with the gradual aging of China's population, the country now advocates having a second child. As for some people who are happy and others who are worried about me, I think it is nothing more than the following:

First, ideological awareness

Nowadays, most young people advocate freedom, freedom and personal consciousness. Some young people think that they are not old enough to be handsome for a few years. I'm thinking about men getting married and women getting married. I don't want to play the role of parents in advance, nor do I want to have my own dreams and pursuits. The issue of fertility was put on hold for the time being. Up to now, divorce big data is increasing year by year. Many people divorce for some reasons, which leads to the lack of warmth in their children's families. So some people think that marriage is not necessarily happy, and at least not unhappy if you don't get married.

Second, economic awareness.

Nowadays, social and economic changes are rapid. If there are no good economic conditions to raise children, some people simply choose not to have children. On the contrary, some people want to have children but dare not. Faced with increasing economic pressure, some people dare not have children rashly even if all the conditions are met. After all, children's expenses account for a large part of family expenses. Now, it is more important to pay attention to children's education and other aspects. Even if they have nothing, they should try their best to fight for their children.

Third, treat it flatly.

For those who want to have children or don't want to have children for various reasons, every family has a hard book to read. Timely delivery should be considered comprehensively according to one's physical condition, family situation and economic factors.