First, cheating
After marriage, the passion receded, and there was no chic romance of chess, calligraphy and painting, only chicken feathers of rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea were left, so some people succumbed to the temptation of the outside world, betrayed the other half of their marriage, or cheated emotionally or physically.
When things go wrong, a dull marriage will bring complications and put a sharp knife in the other half's heart. Every day is like a sore throat, so we quarrel endlessly, resentment breeds, and even find a third party to intervene, and the three parties are humiliated. The relationship between husband and wife broke down and the marriage ended because of infidelity.
Second, domestic violence.
Domestic violence includes verbal violence, cold violence, and domestic violence with fists and feet. If you face verbal violence every day in your marriage, you will quarrel every day for three days, mixed with personal attacks, sarcasm, or curses, and even scold your ancestors for eighteen generations. If you live in such an environment for a long time, no one can stand such noisy days. It's natural to be separated from each other.
On the other hand, if one partner in a couple's life starts to be cold and violent because of a trivial matter, does not communicate with the other partner, even ignores the other partner for ten days, and even tells the other partner what to do when going out for the minimum daily life, over time, the other partner will be indifferent, and the marriage will be dissolved sooner or later.
As for married life, just like in Don't Talk to Strangers, either party is always faced with fists and fists, beaten black and blue, and there is no guarantee for personal safety. Anyone will break through the cage of marriage and get out of the clutches as soon as possible!
Third, form bad habits.
When one party in a marriage is infected with bad habits, such as drinking, gambling and taking drugs, it is like planting an invisible bomb in family life, which will detonate carelessly and make the family step into an invincible position.
An alcoholic is not only harmful to health, but also ignores his family. Another person should be responsible for all the housework and serve him when he gets home.
Gamblers are even more guilty, spending all their savings and paying off their debts, leaving their families in dire straits. People with this bad habit really can't live under the same roof.
Fourth, the intervention of husband-in-law and family.
The young couple quarreled at the end of the bed, and once the husband's family and her family intervened, it added fuel to the fire. They each said their own truth, and the argument was still chaotic, and even developed into a quarrel between two big families, which became a pain that could never be stitched up. The more they intervene, the greater the damage. The longer they intervene, the more difficult it will be to stay married.
Verb (abbreviation of verb) economic problems
But unlike those who used to be poor together, when a husband and wife quarrel over economic issues, the marriage will soon end. Some women pursue material life, want to lead a drunken life, eat delicious food, wear famous brands, take luxury cars, live in villas and do beauty, but their husbands are incompetent and can't afford princess disease, so they move on and walk out of the besieged city of marriage.
Six, addicted to online games
Playing online games has become a major feature of modern people. Many people play mobile phones, computers and IPAD day and night, leaving behind their families, children, quitting housework, letting their families do things, and making promises in their mouths, but they never leave the game and are completely addicted to it.
There is a guy next door who is addicted to playing online games. One day, his wife worked overtime at night and asked him to watch the children while playing games at home. Three-year-old children clamored for food. He actually gave the child five dollars to buy it in the supermarket downstairs. He still plays games on the computer, but when his wife comes home from work, the children are gone.
The family searched for three days and nights. Three days later, they found the children by the pond, but left them forever. His family also broke up because he was addicted to games.
The above six murderers are only the main murderers of the dissolution of marriage, and factors such as personality disagreement, three views disagreement, bad temper and willfulness may also lead to the dissolution of marriage. A hundred years by boat, a thousand years by pillow. Husband and wife are predestined friends, do it and cherish it!