I remember when I was seventeen, I never heard the song "The Rainy Season of Seventeen" written by Jimmy Lin, an old male god, because I was not an adult at that time, so I was mentally naive in some behaviors. I remember fighting at school before my bar mitzvah. Basically, all my classmates and teachers in a school know me, because I am often criticized by the Academic Affairs Office for fighting, and even named at the conference and stood on the podium. But at the same time, I studied very well at that time. The results of the top three in the whole school are really not to boast about, so I am often taken care of by teachers. Otherwise, I think I might have been expelled, let alone admitted to today's hard-won university.

However, after the bar mitzvah, my classmates all said that I seemed to be a different person. I don't fight, I don't brag, I don't burn some scars that I think are cool. But I didn't leave anything behind, and my study was still so good. Maybe it's because my father said a lot of meaningful words to me on the day of the bar mitzvah, or maybe it's because I think I really grew up and should live in this world as a man.

When it comes to how I spent my bar mitzvah, I feel "helpless" but also "lucky". It's a pity that my bar mitzvah was instilled by my parents. I dare ask that child not to go out and "indulge" on the day of his bar mitzvah! At the same time, I was lucky because my father said a lot to me that day. He seldom talks to me. I belong to the kind of boy who has a very good relationship with his mother. I tell my mother everything but my father. But on the day of my bar mitzvah, my father said to me: Son, although I don't talk to you much at ordinary times, I don't show mercy when I see you make mistakes, but then again, that parent doesn't want to make a difference for his son and daughter. There are only two children at home, you and your sister. You are the elder brother and the oldest child in the family. Today, you celebrated your eighteenth birthday, and you officially became an adult, and you will be an adult in the future. I hope you will be responsible for everything you say to yourself, everything you do and every step you take in the future, because your parents can't be with you forever. You always have to learn to grow up by yourself, and today is the first day you learn to grow up. I'm also teaching you the first lesson of adult society. When you are an adult, it means that you did something wrong, not as simple as your father hitting you. Just like you used to fight at school and beat others to the hospital, you will be taken away by the police and put in prison, and you will bear legal responsibility. Moreover, the world of adults is very complicated. You have to remember: you can't hurt people, but you can't prevent them!

It was such a "lecture" day that I spent my adult ceremony (of course, the food prepared for me at the adult ceremony was good, and my parents also gave me gifts, which basically made me very happy that day), but after I deeply understood what my father said at night, I suddenly had an epiphany and became an adult at once. I spent the whole evening planning my future. Me? So when I went to school the next day, I cut off my long hair that I had left for two years (at that time, my hair was long and yellow, and the whole hair was in the style of washing, cutting and blowing Matt), and I changed my hair to short hair, and I suddenly felt a lot refreshed. Maybe God arranged for me to mature step by step. In the future, I was cautious in my words and deeds, even afraid of stepping on other people's feet when I walked (I was very noisy because of stepping on other people's feet before), and became the "pure color schoolmaster" in my classmates' hearts. ?

I am proud that I have a great father, and my father should also be proud that he has a son who has made a mistake and returned to the prodigal son. My bar mitzvah is very meaningful. Although only my parents and sister spent it with me, I gained a lot that day. Thanks to my parents, I had an unforgettable 18 birthday!