Being honest with children is a good way to enhance feelings and an excellent educational opportunity, especially through the precious time of "taking a bath with children", which is the most direct and natural way! But can it continue like this? With the growth of age, children will be curious or discerning about gender. Will it cause them embarrassment or even influence? When should parents stop being naked in front of their children?
Before the age of four
This is the most embarrassing and rare stage, please enjoy your parent-child time! Although children before the age of four have gradually got to know the gender, and understand that "* * * light" and "shame face" are conscious, the concept is still in the ignorant stage, and nudity is still natural and normal for them.
So parents can make good use of this time and take a bath with their children. They will feel very happy, willing to face their parents naked and have close skin contact. However, if parents feel uncomfortable, they don't have to be honest with their children.
Four to eight years old
At this stage, children will begin to truly realize gender differences and feel shy about being naked in front of the opposite sex. At this time, parents had better start to accept their children's feelings. Although adults think it doesn't matter, parents are advised to keep an appropriate distance from their children. This change in contact is a good opportunity to teach children the concept of gender.
Eight to twelve years old
At this time, I have a clear sense of my own growth, and sometimes I feel that I am still a child and need the company of my parents; Sometimes I want to get rid of my parents' independence and spend more time with myself. I don't like to have too much intimate interaction with my parents, and I don't like to be honest with them. At this time, parents should know how to respect their children's feelings and know the distance.
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After the age of twelve
Children have entered adolescence, especially the influence of social environment. In recent years, the age of puberty has been lowered. So parents should try to avoid their nude photos. Please put this part in your room! In addition, children's underwear and rooms are private, so please respect the scope of their own personal clothes, because these items may not be shared with their parents.
Children will have different psychological changes at different stages of growth. Maybe parents don't care about "nudity", or maybe they think that being honest with each other means growing up.