First, the people of China attach great importance to raising children for old age. I don't agree with people living in cities, at least I think people living in rural areas do.
I have lived in the countryside since I was a child. I also know more about family planning in rural areas for more than 30 years. When I was a confused teenager, my parents gave birth to six children of our sister one after another. My elder sister was born in May1year, and I was born in 54 years, 58 years, elder sister, second sister, 62 years, younger brother, 64 years and younger sister, 68 years. My parents basically have a child every three years. In fact, in our countryside, like my parents having six children, it's not too much. There are seven, eight, nine and more than ten. I first heard about family planning after 1976. Once, my uncle was working in a foreign country, and I heard him talk about family planning. I guess he heard the government propaganda. He said, "Did you hear that the government will also follow the plan of having children?" At this time, a member interrupted, "I've never heard of Pangu, and I'm going to have a baby." So he said to the people next to him, if you want to be born, you should be born early, so as not to be born if you want to be born. "
It took about a year or two before the family planning policy was really implemented in rural areas. At first, family planning was relatively loose, and then it became tighter every year. The sky was overcast first, then the wind blew hard, then the thunder and lightning, and then the storm. Family planning in our town should have officially started from 1983. Because my child was born in September 1982. When we are ready to have a second child, there are family planning women who specialize in ideological work at home to encourage and mobilize us to receive the honor certificate of the only child. So I remember it very clearly. Life is hard because parents have many children. When someone came to encourage me to get the one-child certificate, I agreed cleanly. Then I took my wife to Matan Hospital for an abortion and gave up having two children automatically. Parents are also very supportive. At that time, the idea of son preference was more common in rural areas. For example, in the house next to my house, a family named Chen gave birth to four girls in succession, and the fifth child was a boy, the same age as my child. Compared with me, he has to undertake the cultivation of five children, while I only need to undertake one child. The burden of one child is obviously much lighter than that of a family with five children.
Second, it is a common phenomenon that there are many children in rural areas. It wasn't until around 1985 that our town imposed a large fine on the extra children. A couple had two children, at that time, it was not super-life. Encourage a couple to have only one good child. If a couple already has two children, if they have another child, even if it is a super-born household, according to the local regulations at that time, the production team does not divide the responsibility field for the super-born child. There is a couple in our town who gave birth to nine girls and finally gave birth to a boy. According to the policy, boys do not divide land. Since then, family planning in rural areas has been tightened year by year, and it is basically impossible to have a second child or more. In 2000, the country began to implement a one-vote veto system at the rural grassroots level. Under the implementation of this system, grassroots cadres go to the village every day, and the phenomenon of super-life is becoming less and less. However, the phenomenon of super-life is still very rare. If this happens, the cadres in charge should be dismissed and recorded. In short, someone must carry the pot of backward family planning. In fact, the government's family planning at this stage is basically a storm. Even if there is a superorganism, I basically dare not stay at home at this time. Once a cadre discovers or suspects that a couple is suspected of super-life, the staff will concentrate on targeting the target family. Induced labor and induced abortion will not get you born. For the super-born women of childbearing age, ligation and ring are essential. Anyone who wants to live beyond life is impossible at this stage.
Third, the sudden change of rural fertility concept, the sudden change of rural fertility concept, mainly because rural people began to dilute the concept of fertility. Voluntary, do not want to have more children. There is no longer the choice of having boys and girls, and the number of one-woman households or two-woman households is gradually increasing. As soon as people looked up, they saw the slogan "Girls are descendants" written on the wall. Many people really don't care about having boys, but having girls is just as good. Promoting its transformation is divided into the following stages. First, a large number of rural women of childbearing age have flowed into cities. In this case, the number of left-behind children and the elderly in rural areas has increased, which directly brings many unexpected difficulties to the life and work of family planning objects. Second, it is inconvenient for children to go to school, and the admission procedures are quite troublesome. If children are left at home, the safety of children cared for by the elderly will not be guaranteed. If you bring children, the tuition fee is several times that of the family, and the money for parents to work is not enough for the whole family. Third, some women of childbearing age run between urban and rural areas, especially for routine urine tests, which are basically once a month. If they don't go back to the village, they will have a urine test locally and send the urine test form back to their village. Nowadays, many people talk about family planning in those days, and they are all miserable. At that time, women of childbearing age after 50, 60 and 70 became grandmothers in succession. Fourth, these generations, after nearly 40 years of family planning test, naturally require their children not to have more children. And they also witnessed their previous generation, who worked hard because they had many children. Now it's my turn. Facing the reality, I finally got over it and didn't want to take the old road of the previous generation. They don't ask for gender on the issue of children, but instead focus on themselves, how to make money and how to make themselves better, so that when they get old, they are not afraid of anything with money in their hands. My child has a classmate, and the couple gave birth to a girl. Parents said that this was the job of the young couple, and they wanted to have a grandson to carry on the family line, but the young couple resolutely refused. Tell my parents clearly that I don't want a second child even if someone gives me 300 thousand. I'm afraid this is the first time I've heard that people in rural areas are voluntary, and no man or woman just wants one child. The great man said well, "the change of world outlook is the most fundamental change of a person." It has been nearly forty years since family planning was carried out, and people's traditional concept of fertility is changing step by step.
Forty or thirty years in Hedong, forty years now in Hexi, and thirty or forty years in Hedong and Hexi. In less than ten years, the population problem appeared. In order to solve this problem realistically. Starting from 20 13, the country began to try to let go of the second child, and the effect was not very good. Recently, we have started to let go of our three children. There are signs that having four children may not be fined. If so, the family planning style of heavy wind and rain has basically come to an end. For example, in Anqing, I read a piece of information on the Internet that the population in 10 recently decreased by at least 300,000 compared with that before 10. Where have all these 300,000 people gone? Some of them have settled in other cities, while others have fewer children. Before long, the population began to show negative growth. I don't know whether the first-tier cities pay in advance.
The government reversed the momentum of rapid population growth through family planning. The next problem is that the degree of population aging has obviously increased. The educational platform has also changed. Before 1978, elementary schools, junior high schools, high schools and universities were basically the burden of the state. I remember I went to Anqing Normal University in the second half of 1976. After graduating from high school, I jumped the queue in the countryside for two years and entered the normal major. During the two-year study period, my family gave 5 yuan pocket money every month. Forty years have passed, and now a child has to spend at least 300,000 yuan from kindergarten, primary school, junior high school and university. This is still a conservative estimate. In fact, the number of middle-income families in rural areas is more than this. Of course, the economic conditions are incomparable with those in the 1960s and 1970s. There are also children who get married and buy a house after graduating from college, which are basically borne by their parents. After careful calculation, let alone two children and three children, even one child is enough for parents to bear.
In short, it is affordable now, and the hospital should make a profit. In recent years, some teachers in schools have focused on extracurricular training and counseling, and the extra burden on parents has increased. What parents have to do now is to passively put money into these counseling and training institutions for their children, and there is no choice. For parents who work in the city, the school district is a hurdle. If they cross this hurdle, their children will not be able to take them to school. Now it really confirms what people said when they first implemented family planning. It is easier to have one less child than one more. The more serious problem now is that many post-90s people have delayed their marriage age, some have no plans to get married at all, and those who are married still want to be "dinks". This is nonsense that I have never heard.