Compared with the previous "stocking" parenting, raising a child now requires the energy of a family of six. With the increasing input cost, the cute baby who went to kindergarten has become a veritable "golden beast".
Please let go of the slogan that has become the post-80 s and post-90 s. I can't afford to raise a child, let alone three. There are old people and young people in the world, as well as husband and wife's living expenses, mortgages and car loans. Do you want to eat dirt together after giving birth to your third child?
The older generation and the post-80s and post-90s have different ideas and life times. I used to be punished for having more children, but now I encourage having two children and three children. However, young people have many concerns about their children's problems.
For college students, employment has become the first obstacle to get out of school. However, due to the influence of environment and various factors, the first child often relies on luck, and the second child often loses his temper with the elderly. Many people regret it and have no courage to have a third child.
Take an ordinary city as an example, the cost of a kindergarten for one month is about 1500 yuan. If you sign up for other interest classes, the monthly expenditure cost will increase. In order to prevent children from losing at the starting line, parents will not be poor in their children's education even if they scrimp and save.
When I was in a small class, I just wanted to have fun and sleep soundly in kindergarten because I was young. However, after attending the middle and large classes, students began to participate in the enlightenment of various training courses. Looking at the envious eyes of the children, parents had to follow the crowd.
In addition to interest classes, parents have to take their children to the playground and have a picnic with friends from time to time. Every family always makes ends meet. I have to say, the post-90 s generation is too difficult now. This account is really difficult to calculate.
After reading the payment bill of kindergarten, the old man who has given birth gradually became silent. The current employment situation is very severe, and it is even more difficult to find a decent job. With such a large expenditure on education, where can we have the courage to regenerate?
It is really a big expense for an ordinary working family to support two "gold-swallowing beasts". Although in the eyes of many people, they think that high schools and universities except compulsory education are the most expensive, they don't know that the current enlightenment education is economic difficulties.
I need to say something to you.
Although parents attach importance to their children's enlightenment education, don't let the advanced education in kindergartens and training institutions hurt their baby's future. The disadvantages of advanced education are not obvious in kindergartens. After primary school, primary school students will be tired of learning.
In order to ensure students' freshness and interest in learning, parents should also think more ways. And parents should pay more attention to the choice of kindergartens and training institutions. For the better development of children, this is the only way.
First, the environment, facilities and expenses are different.
Everyone must know something about public kindergartens. In addition to the limited enrollment quota, the commission fee and meal fee are relatively low. Although they are with most migrant workers, they are not necessarily so lucky to have a place to go in.
Private kindergartens are relatively expensive, but they have advantages over public kindergartens in terms of teachers, facilities and environment. For ordinary working families, an economical and practical private kindergarten is the best choice.
Second, the teaching methods and contents are different.
Teachers in public kindergartens are very disciplined and usually teach in strict accordance with standards. Private kindergartens are more flexible and more conducive to the development of children's thinking logic. And there are more opportunities to enrich your experience and broaden your horizons.
When choosing a kindergarten, parents will compare it from many aspects and choose the kindergarten that is most suitable for their convenient transportation. There are also some private kindergartens that offer their own interest courses, which are relatively expensive, but do not need additional registration.
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Education begins with the enlightenment of kindergarten. Many times, parents always try their best to give their children the best education in order not to let their children fall behind others. With the improvement of living standards, the economic pressure is increasing day by day. Whether it is the third child or the third child, as long as conditions permit, you have your own wishes, and other people's suggestions and ideas are secondary. But everyone's ideas are different, and the education they want to give their children is different. There is no need to compare too much.
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