Round-table schools have become popular again recently. "I don't care what men think of me," said Xu Jinglei. Many people say that her lifestyle is like a new China woman. However, Jiang said that she is still in the selected position in the gender market, so she is considered to be living in a difficult situation, suffering from "ancestral things" and becoming the negative example of "new women".

Rather than making many new women speak, Xu's slogan provides a clear "feminist slogan" for a group of new women who are eager to establish values, and successfully realizes the value output.

"I don't care what men think of me", and the slogan goes straight to the core of the problem: female values. She advocates that in self-cognition, women should completely get rid of men's scrutiny and standards, and get rid of the value measurement system centered on male-dominated culture. This marks the freedom, independence, self-esteem and strength of new women.

Therefore, in Xu's case, the factors used to measure women's value or charm in patriarchal culture, such as youth, beauty, talent, purity, marriage attitude, fertility willingness, etc., are not important. She even called it an "absurd question" to discuss whether women should get married and have children. She insists on the principle of not getting married, saying that she has frozen her eggs, and even if she wants to have children in the future, she will find a surrogate, which reflects her high insistence on "body autonomy".

This position, while confronting the central value of male chauvinism, is also a difficulty between Xu's power words-the written description of famous entertainment critics, as a whole, "free and easy, confident and positive personality", won Xu's praise and display, and was also labeled as the ideal label of "new woman" by many women.

Jiang said that he is still in the patriarchal ideology and is in the position of being chosen.

This still points to a central proposition: should the ultimate value of women be affirmed by men according to their standards? Jiang was demoted, or she gave up because of her power transfer on this key issue.

She said that "talented women" have long been the object of men's "sexual psychology", and many men are "proud of conquering talented women". In her case, the issue of "talented women" is very important, because it is an important factor for men to judge the charm of women. Feminine charm marked by youth, beauty and sex hormones also occupies a very important proportion in the evaluation system of female charm held by Jiang, or the female charm inherited from the patriarchal culture. For her, women's sexual behavior is no longer "terrible". At the age of 28, she admits that she really wants to get married and likes blind date. Just like a real woman forced to date.