? Committed to intimate relationship, parenting education and personal growth, it has created an independent and complete three-parent education system, which runs through the compulsory subjects in the whole life course from birth to old age.
? Every student can experience the happiness and richness of physical and mental growth from the course, and learn to easily handle the relationship with others, the world and the self, so as to achieve harmonious and happy relationship, sincere and consistent self-words and deeds, and comfortable and rich body and mind.
? Dolphins are the cleverest animals in the beautiful marine world. Full of vitality, cheerful and lovely, the most spiritual, caring, family-oriented and team-oriented animal in the animal kingdom.
? Dolphins' nature of loving children. Dolphins are desperate to protect their young and rescue their victims.
? Dolphins are both idealists and realists. Dolphins believe that love and wealth exist.
Dolphin College is committed to the love, family affiliation and self-growth of dolphins, and to parenting education, intimate relationship and self-growth in the family.
? We regard the family as the origin of human beings, reshape the family, generate love from family relations, and establish the three-parent education system of Dolphin College.
Sanqin education
Family relationship is the most complicated interpersonal relationship in the world, and there is no one.
China's family, after thousands of years of feudal rule, combines the warmest love, the cruelest beating and cursing, the most intimate contact, the most hurtful verbal violence, the most thorough understanding, the most speechless misunderstanding, the most complicated relationship handling, the most direct personality presentation, the greatest tolerance, the most selfless dedication, the highest expectation, the most bottomless requirement, the most helpless compromise and the strongest disappointment.
Therefore, this is a worldwide problem, the biggest puzzle, which has not been solved for thousands of years at home and abroad. The repetition from generation to generation shows one family tragedy and comedy after another, and it will never stop.
In the past 30 years, the economic tide in China has brought unprecedented impact to China families. Almost all families are faced with emotional dependence, care, interests and entanglements, sacrifice, manipulation and deception, injury and betrayal. Form an extremely complicated and tangled love-hate relationship, and even develop into a situation where the wife and son are separated.
In today's China, there are countless families with three people living in three cities, countless strangers living under the same roof, countless wanderers who can't go home, countless ronin who don't want to go home, and countless single-parent families struggling with complaints and resentment, year after year, day after day.
Seeing this situation, we have always hidden a dream in our hearts, which has been burning with flames:
I hope that one day, an ecosystem can be established and all families in China can return to a harmonious, beautiful and natural state. Everyone misses home, everyone loves home, everyone has a home, and everyone is looking forward to going home.
Men are pillars, women are tiles, men rely on their careers to connect with the world and women rely on raising children to support their families.
Our greatest wish: to make every family laugh.
Making every family laugh is easier said than done. Every family has its own problems, and it is difficult for an honest official to do housework. Family is the cornerstone of society, and it is more like a complicated purgatory on earth. Many powerful people have unlimited scenery outside, but they can't handle family relationships and things well. The real practice is not in the temple, not in the clouds, not in the political and business arena, not in fame and fortune, not in the workplace, but in the small snail Dojo at home.
Therefore, we decided that the ultimate life is to find a solution to parenting education and intimate relationship.
For many years, we have been searching hard, asking questions everywhere, analyzing life, seeing all kinds of situations in the world, and experiencing all kinds of troubles, problems, mentality and stages experienced by intimate relationships. Finally, we found the life code of intimacy and the core essence of intimacy. On this basis, it integrates Yin and Yang Yijing theory, nlp theory, gestalt therapy, spiritual communication, Heininger family arrangement, pet efficiency communication, non-violent communication and collection.
First of all, we developed and summarized a systematic course "Love Reunion", which belongs to China people.
Intimacy-love reunion
Love reunion is a complete curriculum system about intimate relationship.
This system covers almost all the problems, appearances, development stages, solutions and essence of intimate marriage.
Our relationship with everyone cannot escape from these circles. Each period has its distinctive characteristics, and some evolutionary conditions are needed to transform each period into another. When you fully understand the mystery of intimacy, you will suddenly realize, oh, I always thought these were our husband and wife's problems, either she had problems or I had problems. Actually, it's not. These are all phenomena that all couples have to face. You have to go through a journey before you can rest assured.
Moreover, there are many subversive ideas and unheard-of relationship handling methods in this curriculum system. After learning, you will feel the unprecedented energy impact brought by love, just like you broke into a treasure house, except screaming. Wow, wow, it turns out that there are such courses in this world, such effective ways of communication in this world, and the origin of this world is so beautiful and peaceful.
Therefore, Dolphin College hopes that every couple in China can be educated in love and influenced by the reunion of love. We are practitioners, beneficiaries and disseminators of this educational system. Too many couples in China, because they don't understand the nature of marriage, have hastily embarked on a road that should be happy but so miserable. A family that should be harmonious and happy just doesn't understand some basic common sense of managing marriage and intimate relationship, which leads to many tragedies repeated. This is a very regrettable and sad thing.
After so many years of family observation and treatment, we have come to a conclusion: happy families are so different, but unfortunate families are so similar. Unhappy families have too much sex life, endless quarrels, endless cold wars and endless struggles. When you finish learning this system, you will be enlightened. It turns out that these things can be completely avoided and solved, and each of us has to experience and face them. In the end, you may be unable to conceal your inner joy and laugh heartily, and you will be surprised to find that whoever you marry is the same.
A home should make you eager to go home after work, eager to get together and share with your partner, and miss the warm feeling of getting along with your family when you leave home. Having family members who accompany you to laugh and grow up together can let you express your sadness, vulnerability and release your emotions safely. If a family can't possess these qualities, it will lose its essence.
Family is created by marriage. If this family gradually loses its function as a family, of course, this marriage will gradually lose the quality of meeting each other's spiritual needs and being willing to cherish each other. The end or collapse of this marriage is also foreseeable.
What we need to learn is how to find inner strength, how to deepen feelings, how to make the commitment of marriage return to the level of love, no longer rely on legal protection and moral constraints, or just barely maintain the integrity of a family for children. We really should try our best to create a feeling of home. Only by the strength of heart and love can marriage last long and be more creative and enthusiastic.
Children who grow up in such an environment with incomplete family functions certainly don't know how to run a warm and warm family after marriage. Many young men and women seldom consider how two people run a home. They lack long-term planning for their future families, and even less pay attention to the feeling of home. Ignoring the importance of family warmth and warm atmosphere to a family. Things that truly belong to nature, such as love, care, warmth, support, understanding and sharing, have never been managed with heart.
Parent-child relationship-love magic
The same is true for the upbringing and education of children, which is also a very big topic.
Over the years, we have been doing psychological counseling and offering open classes on self-growth. While seeing that students and counselors have solved some psychological problems, growth confusion and relationship problems, we are willing to explore the root of their problems and discover an amazing secret: almost everyone has so many psychological problems, which have nothing to do with education, ability, identity, personality and wealth. There is only one factor * * *: that is, in the child's growth stage, good and healthy psychology has not been cultivated!
We finally understand that no matter how effective our psychological counseling work is, it is only a symptom. A newborn baby will still come to us for self-growth or psychotherapy after 2 or 30 years. Unless children can receive a good mental health education when they grow up. With this in mind, we can't help feeling a sense of responsibility and strength. We build a real love education system for children's psychological healthy growth and family education-love magic.
Love magic is a complete parent-child relationship education system.
The systematic course Magic of Love integrates the essence of Satya family therapy, humanistic psychology, Gordon's efficacy training, NLP parent-child interaction, Gandhi's nonviolent communication, Montessori and Waldorf of Dolphin College, deeply interprets family interaction, makes it live, simplify and apply, and finally presents the complete significance of family education in the relationship. Through the systematic study of this course, you can easily and comprehensively master all kinds of problems encountered in parenting education.
The future society is a world dominated by spiritual civilization in the Internet age and spiritual age. Whoever can play is the master of this world. Now the focus of children's education has changed greatly. Whether the way we educate a child is suitable for him depends on whether what he is learning now is suitable for the society in 20 years. Therefore, we must systematically learn how to educate children in order to raise them well. Children's education is related to the happiness of a family's descendants.
Since 20 16, human beings have entered the era of spiritual civilization from a high level of material civilization. The nature, vitality, creativity and compassion of human nature will shine all over the world. With the arrival of the spiritual era, we will open a new way of life and life experience for every free soul, and also open a new evolutionary model and a new opportunity for the existing organizations of the family, and open a new miracle for every organization, every family and everyone: the dolphin world.
Grow up by yourself-love will wake up
At present, our biggest problem as parents is: worrying and worrying about the future of our children. Worried that children's current living habits will affect the future, worried that their academic performance is not good, worried that children are not as good as others, worried that children will be rejected by others without interpersonal relationships, etc., worried that children will be hurt outside if they are not disciplined by their parents, and worried that children will not manage themselves and lead a bad life!
In fact, all this is because parents have no self-awareness, can't tell each other's lives clearly, and have their own homework. Everyone has their own boundaries in life. Returning to the inside is the only way for us to wake up. The entanglement of our relationships with others comes from our inner independence, and all our pains come from our dependence and expectation on these relationships-because our sense of security comes from controlling these relationships. If we can get rid of these relationships at any time, then we won't be obsessed with the present situation and future of others-no matter who his mother marries.
If you have no dependence and expectation on your children, then your relationship is free. He has his own way. You should go your own way, but only accompany him in stages when his body and mind are immature.
At this point, you will find that any intimate relationship, parent-child relationship, and all the love and hate in the world are entangled to a certain extent, just to get rid of it and find the biggest lesson in life:
Who am I?
Just to show you the truth of life: I am the root of everything.
You have to go back to the source of your life: my world.
All relationships are between me and me.
All relationships are projections of self-relationships.
All relationships are internal manifestations of self.
My world is my world, and I created everything.
I am here, and the world is here.
Humans have reached the time node of natural awakening.
Humans are no longer stuck in the infinite possession and demand for material.
Humans need to experience a better and purer experience of existence.
There is no dependence, no ownership.
I love eternity just because I exist.
We've been looking for who I am all our lives. We use our words and deeds to prove who I am, the existence of self-worth, and that I am worthy of love.
I walked all my life, swinging between love and non-love. Make peace with yourself, face up to your sense of powerlessness and accept what you can't do.
Growing up is an idle art, letting go and relaxing is a tearful life for love.
Singing in light dance to celebrate joy, laughing in peace, singing in loneliness, everything is just right.
Warm midnight sadness, carnival, unscrupulous dance.
We believe in awakening &; The power of love
From listening and learning communication, I believe:
Love thoughts produce love communication, love communication produces love language, and love language drives love behavior.
Fusion, a new world of love.