Maybe we will succeed occasionally and even want to give up, but it doesn't matter, because all this will pass eventually. Life is new every day. Today we will live a brand-new life. Let's spend a happy evening together, shall we?
Belief is incorrect, as long as it suits you, it is the best.
There is a middle school student who was admitted to Zhejiang University last year. The reason why this student was admitted to Zhejiang University is that he has the belief of Zhejiang University. In his sophomore year, he went to Zhejiang University and took many photos. He keeps a photo in his pocket every day. As long as he doesn't want to study, he takes out a photo: I came to Zhejiang University. So he worked hard. Why? Because he has the belief of Zhejiang University, someone asked, "Teacher Wang, how can I succeed?" I want to ask all of you here, what do you think is the biggest challenge in life?
A classmate was very upset and said to me: Miss Wang, the problem is that I have many problems that I can't solve now. I said what happened to him. He said: the college entrance examination is approaching, but I find myself feeling inferior. It is easy to be distracted in class and the quality of sleep declines. Can't communicate with the class teacher.
I send you the second sentence:
What exists is reasonable.
A student from Yanzhou Middle School was admitted to China Technology and Business University last year. Before the college entrance examination, she called me: Miss Wang, I think about a question every day. I'm thinking: I will definitely lose sleep on the 7 th and 8 th of the college entrance examination. I asked her: Have you seen anyone who has played mahjong for three days and nights and is in good spirits? He said yes. Why? Because they want to win money. You are very excited about the 7th and 8th National College Entrance Examination, because you have to challenge your life. Two days and two nights without sleep will not affect your performance at all. There are two kinds of people's sleep states: one is shallow sleep and the other is deep sleep. Brain cells rest alternately. Someone asked me: Miss Wang, I am good at dreaming every day. All right. Go back and ask your grandfather if he can dream every day.
After the college entrance examination, the students called me: Teacher Wang did well in the exam, thank you. I asked her: Are No.7 and No.8 asleep? Yes
Ladies and gentlemen, the college entrance examination is coming, and you are getting more and more excited. It's too hot. It doesn't matter if you can't sleep. Just remember two words: lie down, lie down. Many students are very interesting: I must fall asleep, or I will have no spirit in class tomorrow. So I hypnotized in the oldest way: count the lambs, one, two, three, and count to five thousand. Why?
Some students anxiously asked: I got good grades in Grade One and Grade Two, why did Mode One and Mode Two get poor grades? I'm telling you, this is by no means a bad thing. Just a reminder, tell you what knowledge points you need to master to avoid losing the college entrance examination.
Only when we encounter more difficulties now can we become men and women faster.
Some people say: Miss Wang, the key is only eleven days, it's too late. I've been falling for over two years, and I'm still holding a tractor. If you are a tractor, I will give you two words: Help yourself. With the help of other places, you can run faster. Once a boss drove a Mercedes one day and found a distress signal ahead. It was a tractor. The tractor driver said, can you do me a favor? No problem. Mercedes-Benz owner took out a rope, connected its tail with the tractor's production head, and dragged the tractor forward. The tractor driver said modestly, you should slow down, my performance is not very good. No problem, I'll drag it out slowly. Suddenly, there is a red BMW with a girl in red in it. It flies past. Mercedes-Benz owners are angry. So the accelerator stepped down. The police were frightened. There are three cars racing on the road, one is BMW, the other is Mercedes, and the other is tractor. Excuse me, whose Mercedes is yours? That's your teacher.
A student from Lian Bi Middle School came to see me: Miss Wang, my math score is not very good. Can you help me? I said, why do you want me? I want to find your math Mercedes. She said something that made all China people sad: Our math teacher is biased. He only likes students with good grades and lacks love for our students with poor grades.
Ladies and gentlemen, don't forget: there is a rope between the Mercedes and the trailer. What kind of rope is this? Two words: initiative.
No one in the world will come to help you unless you ask for help.
How many students are there in your class? There are 50 students and several math teachers. One. A Mercedes-Benz needs to pull 50 cars. Will that car be in time?
Some students said: the key is that I have a thin face. You have the nerve to say it. According to Carnegie's research, everyone has human weaknesses. As soon as you look for your teacher, 100% of the teachers are thinking about a question: Xiao Zhang, I waited for you in Jinqing Middle School for three years, and you finally realized my value. Sit down.
Do you know what learning is?
Learning is learning to ask questions.
For three days and three nights, I gave more than 1000 speeches to entrepreneurs and government officials. I don't use technical terms, I only use popular language, because the speech is for them to understand, not for that.
I will give a speech at the Cultural Palace tonight. I have no idea where it is. I had to stop the car, roll down the window and ask, Aunt, where is the Cultural Palace? Right there. Thank you. This is real learning.
The college entrance examination is about the total score. If you can pass 120 in Chinese, four words: keep inertia. You can only get 50 points in physics, and it's easy to make up 30 points. As long as you ask the teacher to make it up a few times.
After listening to my speech, many students finally got up the courage to find a teacher and called me: Miss Wang, I just found our physics teacher for the first time and thought he was quite cute.
Some students said: My study efficiency is not too high.
People have five perception systems to perceive the outside world. Which five systems?
How did you find me when I showed up today? Vision. There is a person standing on the stage, feeling very ordinary.
How did you find me when I started talking? Listening comprehension. You heard me, and our understanding has deepened a little.
Ordinary people only rely on vision and hearing to learn, and the efficiency is naturally not high. People also have three perceptual systems.
The third sense of touch.
As an expert, I am fully qualified to sit down and talk to you slowly, and then you fall asleep slowly. But I didn't. I stood up and said, I insist on exercising. Do you think it's more infectious? Yes, I know if you don't talk.
What is the guiding significance of touch to your study?
Isn't it easy to distract you from studying at night? When holding a pen, draw where your eyes move, and your attention will come back immediately. Some people say that I am careless in mathematics and physics, and it is easy to read wrong numbers. 8 is regarded as 18. You take a pen and move it with your eyes.
The fourth taste is to taste knowledge. The fifth sense of smell is the smell of knowledge.
After six years, you have a good impression, but you just need to recover. There is only one way to restore your sense of language. Read two articles a day for eleven consecutive days, and you can read 22 articles, which is enough to restore your sense of language. I want to send you a message today. Do you want it? Yes
The most blind and arrogant places in human society are: overestimating the change of a day; The saddest thing is: I underestimated the change in fifty days.
It is difficult for people to change in one day, but they will change a lot after 50 days. Few people have mastered this principle and persisted for three days: Miss Wang, for three days, nothing has changed, and I quit. How can I see the change in three days? Stick to it for eleven days, and you will certainly create many miracles of life. Give yourself a little applause.
Learning requires imagination.
A liberal arts student said: Miss Wang, my geography is not good. Geography, didn't your geography teacher tell you? Put the map of the whole world in your mind. Let's imagine. Geography is a free world tour. Today, Italy, Venice, tomorrow, you will arrive in Thailand. Don't you study Thai shemale?
Learning with a little imagination becomes interesting.
Some students asked: the college entrance examination is approaching, and my pressure is getting bigger and bigger.
Which of the following students took a sip. Come on up. Excuse me, is this bottle of water heavy in your hand? Very light. It doesn't matter if I let you hug for an hour. A little. Will it be heavy not to let go for ten hours? It is too heavy. Yes, if you don't let go for ten hours, the hospital ambulance will come.
All the pressures and troubles in life, like this bottle of water, are very light in your hand, but the longer you hold it, the heavier it will be, so learn to put it down.
A student said, Mr. Wang, I have a boiling passion after listening to your speech, but I'm afraid I won't feel anything after an hour.
Cars driving on the road need constant refueling.
People should also constantly motivate themselves.
The best way is to find a successful person with similar growth experience as your role model. Buying his books, collecting information about him and keeping it with you will inspire you to get close to him.
Some students said: If I can't find someone to talk to in Jinqing Middle School, how can I relieve the pressure?
The second method: write it down as soon as there is pressure.
Writing it down is a good catharsis.
There is an English writer named Lawrence. You should study this writer when you have a chance. His writing is particularly true and delicate.
Lawrence's success requires us to study his growth history.
Lawrence's father is a miner and belongs to the lower class. His mother is a petty bourgeoisie and belongs to the upper class of society. They met at a dance. Lawrence's father has one characteristic: muscular and likes dancing. Lawrence's mother has a hobby: he likes muscular men who can dance. After a dance, he fell in love at first sight and fell in love deeply. I broke through many obstacles and got married. After getting married, I found that life is not like this. Lawrence's father is very tired when he comes home every day. His face is black and he doesn't want to take a bath. Seeing this, Lawrence's mother felt sick. He can't live. His father simply doesn't go home and drinks outside all day. Lawrence lacked father's love since childhood, and when the pain came, he could only write down and wrote many books, most of which came from his own personal experience. Wrote a book. Sons and Lovers tells a very special and helpless Oedipus plot between you and your mother.
Some students said: Miss Wang, I am under great pressure. My parents have a bad relationship and often quarrel. You can't go to school when you quarrel. Others said: I am a single-parent family. My grandfather has cancer. Please remember:
What exists is reasonable. You can't change it, you can only write it down. If you are not careful, you will become a writer.
Others said: I am under great pressure and don't want to write it down. Is there any way to relieve stress?
The third method: natural venting.
Human society is a utilitarian society. People make unremitting efforts for fame and fortune, and even sell their souls, which is a bit vulgar. People cannot be completely pure. Do you agree? Agreed.
Because our society is a utilitarian society, unless our society enters a natural society, it is estimated that that day is still far away. But one place is pure, and your school is everywhere. You find a tree and ask it: Big tree, are you pure? It will definitely answer you: I am pure except for being polluted by your industry. Nature has no utilitarian heart, so it is pure.
Find an empty corner when you are depressed and do whatever you want. It will be done in two minutes.
A girl asked: Miss Wang, I am good at crying. Tears can kill bacteria. Cry as much as you want.
Some students asked me: the college entrance examination is approaching, and many students are studying nervously. Why don't I feel anything?
Good attitude. What's your score?
You are distressed to say that your grades have dropped.
If your grades haven't changed, it means that this state is suitable for you, and you don't have to worry.
If it drops, there is a way.
There is a 65-year-old entrepreneur in England. The old man has a hobby: racing cars, whether motorcycles or cars. We only drive 120 yards on the expressway at most, and he wants to drive 180 yards. The old man said something that will benefit you for life:
Because I am dangerous, I pay close attention during the game. I have no time to think about my work and life. I'm just racing. Guys, why is he so focused? Because he is nervous, he is dangerous.
When you rest at night, you tell yourself that it will take an hour to finish your homework, and you will immediately enter a state of tension.
Are you distracted in class? It's simple. Before class, you write down what you want to hear in this class. One two three four five. You will immediately enter the state of listening to lectures, because you know that you must concentrate on these five points, and you can not listen to others. The others are for other students. The teacher is sex education, and you are personalized learning.
Many students don't have enough time to check their papers. As long as you do everything ten minutes faster, you will get into the habit of being ten minutes faster. You will definitely get ten more minutes for the college entrance examination. Check the test paper, and you will get a lot of points you deserve.
Many students complain that they usually do a lot of questions, but they make mistakes in the exam.
When you have a rest at night, you usually have no concept of time. You just want to get the topic right, right? Some students chat with their deskmates while doing problems and eat melon seeds. The purpose of the exam is to get the highest score, and it is to get the highest score within the specified time.
Someone asked: can I take the college entrance examination as a normal exam?
Can you do it?
Unless you develop two habits: treat each practice as an exam and each mock exam as a college entrance examination.
Remember three words: unique.
Every exam and every experience in life is unique.
9 1 1, Chechen incident, tsunami, 220,000 people died. I find that people's lives are really fragile, so we should cherish every day of our lives.
Lin Qingxuan, a writer from Taiwan Province Province, said something that impressed me deeply. He said that he finally found out what is the most meaningful thing in life.
Is to wake up every morning and find that my head is still moving, my hands are still moving, and my feet are not disabled. Oh, I'm so happy. It's good to be alive.
Life is so fragile, I ask you to cherish every day as if it were your last, and treat every exam as your last. Only in this way, you will get the best results every time, and you will certainly play to the extreme in the college entrance examination.
Someone asked: will the college entrance examination be nervous and stage fright?
That year, a girl in our college entrance examination was really fragile. She passed out for 20 minutes in the Chinese exam and was beside herself. Many students who passed the college entrance examination told me: Miss Wang, I was really nervous about the college entrance examination, and my ass was pulled out. The next college entrance examination, don't be nervous when your ass is pulled out, let it continue to pull, and then continue to answer questions. No one will check what's under you. You passed the biology exam, it's just the parasympathetic nerve at work.
Why do college entrance examinations have stage fright? Because the college entrance examination is the first time for you. You are strangers. I'll teach you a way to overcome stage fright in the college entrance examination.
Simulated college entrance examination.
On the 7th and 8th, I ask you to simulate the college entrance examination on the 4th, 5th and 6th, and imagine the process of the college entrance examination beautifully for three times in your mind.
Close your beautiful big eyes and let us imagine.
I gave up decisively. After answering the basic questions, I still have time to overcome these too difficult questions.
After answering the paper, I remembered a great poet named Xu Zhimo. He said: disappear into the crowd at once. So I disappeared immediately. When I got home, I reached a high degree of tacit understanding with my family. We don't need language communication, we know what happened at a glance. When dinner came up, I was full and didn't eat anything greasy. After dinner, I went into the study and thought about the basic content of tomorrow's exam. After thinking about it, I entered a sweet mood.
Ladies and gentlemen, as long as it is simulated three times, the process of the college entrance examination is exactly the same as this, because people's brains accept psychological hints and imagination has a great guiding role in people's behavior.
Someone asked: Why do you sometimes have a blank brain during exams?
What is the reason? Stress leads to hypoxia in the brain. Take a deep breath. Take three deep breaths.
Someone asked: Why didn't I give up some questions when I couldn't do them clearly, but I was lucky, which resulted in a waste of time.
You prepare an eraser for the exam. When the first feeling is a problem, you cover it with an eraser and force yourself to jump. If I remember again, what do you say? Do it after you uncover it.
People's thinking will be interrupted and activated at any time. How to activate it requires new topics to activate your thinking.
The exam is divided into three steps. The first step is to answer the basic questions quickly and rely on intuition. The second step is to synthesize the questions and think. The third step is the difficult problem. Everyone should choose to give up reasonably according to their own scores.
Giving up is also a kind of beauty. Give up what doesn't belong to you, and you can get what you deserve.
Disappear from the crowd immediately after passing the exam.
As long as it doesn't disappear, you can't help doing two things. One is to answer questions you are not sure about. The other is to listen to people's answers. In less than ten minutes, the end of the world will come. So you must disappear at once.
When you get home, your parents ask you what to do.
Don't say anything, just smile. The more you talk, the more annoying you get.
Many students said: Why do you feel that you can't do many things in the future?
Knowledge is like a circle. The circle inside indicates the known, and the circle outside indicates the unknown. The bigger the circle, the more unknowns.
Many students just study hard, study hard instead of studying hard. People are subconscious.
I will give you a speech for one and a half hours today, and I don't need any lecture notes at all. I will give the enterprise three days and three nights training. It's all in my subconscious, and I will jump out when I need it. You have been in Grade One, Grade Two, Grade Three, Grade One, Grade Two and Grade Three for six years, and most of your knowledge is already in your subconscious mind. Just play it out when necessary.
How to play it out? This is the development of potential.
Do you believe that people have potential?
I have a 29-year-old student who works as a sales manager in Guanzhong Group. Last year, the turnover of the company was three times that of the year before. The company is going to reward him with a celebration dinner and a drinking party. /kloc-more than 0/00 colleagues invited him to drink, including red wine, white wine and coke. He really drank for three hours. When all his colleagues left, he finally collapsed in a ditch at the door. Kindly sent him to 1 17 hospital. As soon as the doctor saw the stomach bleeding, he was sent to the operating table for examination. As soon as he heard the operation, he woke up and stood up. Doctors know how to stand up. He went outside, and both doors of the operating room were closed. He picked up the palm of his hand and a leader flew out. Three security guards began to surround him. He ran quickly to the wall of the hospital. I jumped out. The next day, I went to the hospital with him to deal with the loss of money. The door can no longer be pushed open and the fence can no longer run out. Why did he develop his potential that night? Because he was drunk that night and his consciousness disappeared, he didn't think much, so he just wanted to try. The next day was different. He is thinking: this is impossible.
The United States, a country that has become the world's number one power for more than 200 years, is worth learning. America's first national concept is:
Nothing is impossible, only unexpected.
This sentence inspired the American people to think, innovate and take risks, so most of the high-tech achievements came from the United States.
This is a very important idea:
Anything is possible.
The college entrance examination is the same. As long as you firmly believe in this concept, you can give full play to your potential. Many students with average grades did well in the college entrance examination because they gave full play to their greatest potential.
How to establish self-confidence in college entrance examination?
Why do people feel inferior? It comes from two aspects: one is self-denial and the other is the blow from the environment.
I studied Buddhism for three years, and there is a case in Buddhism that is very inspiring to you. Do you want to know? Yes
Buddhism migration should always debate Buddhism and Taoism. As long as you win, you can stay for dinner and sleep, and if you lose, you can move on. A Buddhist passed by a temple run by two brothers. My brother is as handsome as you, but he has no eyes. This man went to argue with his brother, and he said, don't argue with me, argue with my brother. Because in his imagination, this brother is a bit silly. The man quarreled with his brother. After quarreling for a while, he came out and said he was leaving. My brother was surprised: my brother couldn't argue anything. He said: Your brother is fine. As soon as I saw your brother, I thought he was very wise, so we began to argue silently. I just held out a finger. I mean, this is our creator: Sakyamuni, who deserves our respect. After a while, I saw your brother sticking out two fingers. He seems to be telling me that this is also related to his understanding of life and Buddhism under the bodhi tree for seven days and seven nights. That makes sense. So I held out three more fingers. I mean, we must have disciples. How can Buddhism spread to the whole world without us? I didn't expect your brother to extend his fist. He told me: everyone is equal and everyone has Buddha nature. Color is empty, and empty is color. Too many. I left. After a while, his brother came out and was very angry: brother, I was insulted by others. Just now that unreasonable guy stretched out a finger and laughed at me as soon as he saw me. I took out two.
The younger brother was born with only one eye, and he denied himself. Then he walked on the road, many people laughed at him as soon as they saw him, and he finally felt completely inferior.
I have received calls from three students.
One said: the second model exam is over and the score has dropped. I know that tragedy is bound to happen to me. self-denial
One said: The second model test is over. Although the score has improved, I know it is accidental and I will still fail in the college entrance examination. self-denial
One said: my deskmate's grades have always been inferior to mine, but this second model exam, somehow, he is one point higher than me. As long as he looks at me, I can't stand it. The environment has hit you.
To build self-confidence, we must first learn self-affirmation.
Everyone has innate talent and instinct. It just takes time to find out.
India's greatest genius became CEO at the age of 12. Bill Gates found himself 19 years old and stopped studying at Microsoft in college. Poor Lincoln became president at the age of 66. Wang found himself an orator at the age of 29.
There is a movie Fanny's Choice. Fanny is a math teacher in a wheelchair. After graduating from college, the Education Bureau will assign her to teach in a school for the disabled, because people in the Education Bureau think she is disabled. But she doesn't think so. She thinks she is a normal person and she will go to a normal school to teach. After three years of teaching, she was very successful. A reporter was moved to interview her and report her story. Fanny is not allowed to interview reporters. The reporter was surprised. I'm not disabled. I sit in a wheelchair just like some people wear glasses, but there are some lovely defects in some parts of my body.
What is this? Self-knowledge determines a person's world outlook and values.
Self-confidence can also be cultivated.
There are two ways.
The first smile training method. Come on, smile. Some students say that I am not smiling. It doesn't matter. Smile first. Just train these two muscles to smile. Open your mouth wide at once.
The second conditional reflex method.
There is a zoologist named Pavlov. The old man can't come today. I brought one of his conditioned reflex experiments. He specializes in training dogs. He kept a group of dogs in cages and made them hungry for three days and nights. These dogs are very hungry. Then he shook a piece of meat outside and rang a bell at the same time Does the dog drool? Yes After repeating it countless times, he let the dog out and fed it.
People's self-confidence can be achieved through conditioned reflex. Let's do an experiment and ask the teacher in white below to come up.
It seems that this teacher has a strong popularity index. Let's clap.
Teacher, I want to do a conditioned reflex experiment with you today. You're just the subject of the experiment. What happened has nothing to do with you. Don't be angry, but get into the role.
Suppose this little boy is 2 1 year old this year. A great event happened in his family this year: his grandfather passed away. What was his mood that day? It's terrible. Many relatives and friends will visit him. China people have a habit of patting him on the shoulder as soon as they meet, saying: I'm sorry for your loss. By the way, forty relatives came that time and all did the same thing. How old is he nine years later? He will celebrate his birthday one day. What was his mood that day? It's good. Many people will celebrate his birthday. But there is a guy who doesn't understand at all. He patted him on the shoulder and said, Happy birthday. Was he happy or sad when his hand touched this shoulder? Sadness. Because after forty slaps nine years ago, a sad conditioned reflex was formed in this place. In neurolinguistics's words, a heart anchor was established. It feels sad when it touches it.
A classmate asked me: Miss Wang, I feel inferior. My parents have given up hope on me. I can take the first batch of exams and fail to do business with them. Our head teacher always squints at me. I feel very inferior. Miss Wang, how can I build up confidence?
Will he become confident like this? No. Because he doesn't know the conditioned reflex of confidence.
Now let's train the conditioned reflex of confidence.
Come on, all of you. Get up and stand for a while, or your brain will be deprived of oxygen.
Now imagine that you are confident. How would you stand?
Hold your head high and smile. Extend your left hand and tilt it up 45 degrees, and extend your right hand and tilt it down 45 degrees. Clap your right hand with your left hand and shout: Yes. Come three times at once. Now, don't worry about your confidence, just stand up and follow my rhythm. The faster my pace, the slower you will be. Come on, how many relatives patted the teacher on the shoulder just now?
There is a singer named Jolin Tsai. He has a song "Signature Action". Signboard action is conditioned reflex, and everyone should design a set of conditions that suit them. Former British Prime Minister Winston Churchill had a trademark gesture: V, he was very confident every time he held out these two fingers. Someone asked me why I didn't feel anything when I held out these two fingers. Because this is not your signature action, you must repeat the signature action to be established. Someone asked: How did people succeed? Some of my classmates study in key middle schools, but I can't compare with him.
I have interviewed more than 200 successful entrepreneurs, and I found that their success does not lie in their academic qualifications. Some have high academic qualifications, and some have never graduated from primary school. Their success lies in:
Just because they are all developing a successful habit.
Successful habits are very important.
There is also a singer named Wu. There is a song "I'm really fine". I made up a signature move. Come with me.
Hold out your two little hands and fists, I'm really good, I'm really good, I'm really good.
You're embarrassed to do this, aren't you? It doesn't matter. You can't do all the signs by yourself.
You can hide in the bathroom and do it naked tonight. You can do it in the toilet and on the playground. Please sit down.
Everyone has a different way to go in life, do you agree? agree
Everyone has different personalities and specialties, which is the need of social division of labor. There is no distinction between high and low jobs, and what suits you is the best.
Is courage innate?
Two acceptances: one is to accept oneself, and the other is to accept reality.
What does it mean to accept yourself?
All men, as long as they are normal men, want to be tall and handsome. After graduating from college, I accepted myself. Anyway, I'm not tall, so I told myself: I'm ok.
What does it mean to accept the reality?
Some students asked: my grades are not good, can I not take the college entrance examination? No, it doesn't matter what school you take the college entrance examination. What is important is that if you give up the college entrance examination, you will form the habit of giving up, and you will easily encounter any difficulties in the future.
Many students began to think before the college entrance examination: what should I do if I fail the college entrance examination? What should I do if I am admitted to the third batch and have no money to study at home?
Ladies and gentlemen, forget it. This will never happen. You just have to face today. You just have to tell yourself:
I must succeed today. Then you will have a bright future. There is an old saying in China: Everything is difficult at the beginning.
A philosopher in the west said: there are two great pains when people are alive. One is not getting what you want, and the other is getting what you want. Do you know what this means?
He tells you: the result is only an instant, the joy of success is over, the pain of failure is over, and everything will pass. The most important thing in life is that wonderful process.
Finally, I end my speech today with a story.
There is a beautiful plant in Israel. The name of this plant is desert rose. At first glance, this rose looks like hay at all. An Israeli friend told you: Don't worry, take it back to Chinese mainland, put it in water and observe it for eight days. You will find it is the most beautiful rose. You don't believe it. You wake up the first morning and find a bud blooming in the hay. A little angry but not beautiful. Second, the innermost petal opens. On the third day, the second petal opens, and on the fourth day, the third petal opens. You think it's a little beautiful. On the eighth day, all the petals open in turn, and you find it really beautiful. If a neighbor comes to your house on the eighth day, you are very excited and say to him: Brothers are beautiful roses. Did he feel it? No? Why? Because he only saw one result.
Friends, in the course of your life struggle, what your parents, teachers, classmates and everyone else see the most is only a result of you, and it is a phased result. So don't care too much about what others think and say about you, because it doesn't matter. Only you are always with yourself, silently enduring all the pressures, pains, troubles and life that belong to you. As long as you have a clear conscience and live up to yourself, you are working hard every day.