But in the past, young people of Achang were free to fall in love, but marriage was decided by their parents. So Achang was born? Get married? 、? Grab a marriage? Phenomenon. Achang people pay special attention to the custom of not marrying the same surname, and also have the custom of inviting marriage to their homes. The Achang people's concept of marriage and love now is not only freedom of love, but also freedom of marriage. These? Get married? 、? Grab a marriage? This phenomenon no longer exists.
If the relationship between two young Achang people develops smoothly and they think they can book each other for life, the man will give her a silver ornament as a token of love and make an appointment to marry her. When picking up the girl, the bride and groom each have an unmarried bridesmaid and best man to accompany the groom to the bride's house. About an hour after entering the house, everyone estimated that the bride's family were asleep. The groom took the initiative to light two incense sticks from his mother-in-law's house and put them in the family hall, meaning that I picked up the bride. Then, several people went to the groom's house. On the way, when crossing the bridge, the groom will sacrifice at the bridge. The offerings are some tobacco, betel nuts and small silver coins, which are called Shang? Qiao Gang? The picture shows auspiciousness. After coming to the stockade of the groom's house, the bride doesn't come directly to the groom's house, but lives with the bridesmaid in someone else's house.
After the sun came out the next day, the bridesmaid accompanied the bride to the groom's house. The groom pulled out a long knife and cut it? Jinzhu archway? When you appear, you can lightly stroke the bride's head with the tip of a knife to ward off evil spirits. Next, the two came to the first house and tied the knot. This is a formal marriage.
On the second day after marriage, the woman's family treated her. At dinner, the groom comes to each table, bends down and says a polite word? Welcome home cooking! It is tantamount to recognizing relatives. In the afternoon, the matchmaker of the groom's family led ten old people and two girls to send a bride price. During the dinner, everyone began to play tricks on the groom. Finally, the groom was carrying a pile of pig bones on his shoulders and got rid of them when he got out of the stockade. On the third day after marriage, from the bride's family? Big lunch box? Give it to the man, there are glutinous rice and millet in it, and the dowry is also sent to the man's house. On the fourth day after marriage, the young couple went back to their parents' home together, where a complete wedding ended and a new small family began their own life.