Usually in real life, the poor are afraid that others will know that they are poor, and the rich are afraid that others will know that they are rich. Capable people are afraid of being overestimated by others, while incompetent people are afraid of being underestimated by others. In fact, the more truly capable people are, the deeper they hide, such as a mountain that says nothing, such as a still water. As the ancients said, low places make the sea, low people make the king, life needs to be low-key, and people also need to be low-key. The strong in life are often quiet and hidden, and they can clearly know their direction when they are at the bottom of their lives. Capable people are often reluctant to show their skills, not to mention those who are capable and have real skills, and they are experienced and experienced! Capable people know it well, so they have no temper and are modest and low-key. As the saying goes, a full bottle of water doesn't ring. Often in real life, people who don't have many eggs think they are great! People who are truly capable are modest and low-key, seemingly honest, but actually have goods in their stomachs, but they are used to hiding their abilities. The ancients said, "Great hidden in the world makes people lose sight of their own abilities. Even if they are ridiculed, they are too lazy to fight back, because his spiritual cultivation is beyond the reach of those who ridicule him! " Ability but not publicity, ability to keep a low profile. Because they know in their hearts that a strong wind destroys the grass and hits the first bird with one shot, sharp-edged people will always attract everyone's attention, and a slight carelessness between words and deeds will be caught by people, which will make you prostrate. People are emotional animals, and they often do things emotionally! So many times, it is easy to make mistakes and do things that are self-evident. Truly capable people are often more rational than the people around them, know how to analyze problems from an objective perspective and know how to overcome their own weaknesses. In fact, this rationality, which is different from ordinary people, is not only an innate advantage, but also the result of continuous training the day after tomorrow. The difference between the strong and the weak lies in the different ways of thinking. A discerning person must recognize the current situation so as not to be blinded by reality. A person who wants to understand human feelings must be experienced, well-informed and knowledgeable. Looking at the well and seeing the sky, there is only one hole to see. When you climb the mountain and look far, you know that there is still a sky behind you. The more you know, the more you know that there are countless talents, and the more you are awed. Only in this way can you not be conceited, have the spirit of introspection, make continuous progress and improve your skills and abilities! Generally, capable people have these characteristics: success can't rely on temporary luck, keeping a low profile is a virtue, and character is the most important. A truly capable person not only has a strong ability to do things, but also knows how to deal with people and the importance of character. In fact, our life is just four words, "being a man and doing things". When people are done, things will be simple. The four independences necessary for being a man and doing things: human independence, ideological independence, emotional independence and economic independence. The truly capable people are all people who have suffered a lot. When suffering is deep, it is the most difficult time for a person, but as long as you get through it, you will really become stronger. As the saying goes, you have to suffer to be a master. A truly capable person is calmly coping with the trough of his own destiny. When he was a child, he had a unique personality and temper, regardless of major events, and he had an indomitable spirit in his bones. ...