Home school education is by no means a slogan! What do parents cooperate with teachers to do well, and what excellent children are there? (1) I've been in contact with many parents for so many years, and they are pushing their children to become the focus from the same angle as teachers. It is puzzling that some parents always like to stand in the opposite direction to their teachers and regard them as enemies. For this matter, what Xi Ma wants to say is that on the way to educate children, teachers and parents have the same goal at all times, so it is no good to fight against children's development.

I especially like this sentence: "The teacher is the only one who is not related to the child, but is happy because of the child's development and worried because of the child's retrogression." Even if the teacher sometimes criticizes your child, it is naturally that the child has done something wrong. The teacher's accusation against the child is not for the child, but often to help the child correct his mistakes and shape his best self. Therefore, Xixima still advises parents that if they really want to do a good job of home-school cooperation, they must trust the teachers.

(2) When encountering difficulties, it is the moral bottom line to talk to the teacher first, and to maintain the rationality that adults should have. These are the standards. Last year, something happened in Class One, Grade One, the primary and secondary school to which my daughter belongs:

The boy's name is three words, one of which is "Zhao" The Chinese subject just teaches pinyin content, so the teacher encourages the children to pinyin their names. The boy marked "shào", and the teacher felt that after all, people often seldom use this pronunciation, thinking that the boy made a mistake and circled the boy for me.

After returning home, the boy told his parents about it. His mother is an explosive temper, directly from the group @ teaching director and Chinese teacher, and then took out a screenshot of the pronunciation of "Zhao" and told the teacher, "Correct it for my child! That's how her name is pronounced! "

In fact, the most commonly used pronunciation of the word "Zhao" is "Zhao", but influenced by Chongqing dialect, everyone subconsciously regards it as "zhāo", so it is really normal for teaching directors to make such mistakes. We can start with the situation that parents keep popping up worse words before the teacher can wait for him to respond. Inside and outside, people are making fun of the teacher because he has no culture. He can't be a Chinese teacher, let alone an instructor. Finally, the relationship between them is particularly stiff.

Say this case, just want to tell you that when you encounter difficulties, trust the teacher privately, and don't always attack the teacher in the group. If a teacher makes a mistake in education, it is very grateful for the teacher to emphasize it, but if you hold an attitude of finding fault or even saying nothing to the teacher, it is definitely not a mentality to deal with things.

(3) How difficult is it to stop being a class teacher one day? Many parents only see the paid annual leave of teachers' holidays, but they can't see the hard work of teachers on weekdays. In addition to teaching, teachers also need to solve various contradictions between students or misunderstandings between students and part-time teachers. In addition, there are some departments for theme activities, competition preparation and teachers' own training and learning.

When you are exhausted, you have to deal with parents' affections for their children all the time.

For example, "teacher, the school food is not to my child's taste." Can you give your opinion to the school? " "Teacher, my own children can't go outside to accept the wind and rain, so it's not convenient to supervise me quickly." "Teacher, my own child said she didn't take part in the sports meeting. She is particularly uncomfortable and wants to participate. Do you think you can bend the rules? " "Teacher, my own child didn't make the final in the reading contest and cried very sadly."

Some things that parents can solve and communicate by themselves must be handed over to the teacher. It's not that you can't ask the teacher for help, but that you should actively study according to books or collect information before asking the teacher for help. If the attempt has no practical effect, the teacher will be too late.