You get up at seven o'clock in the morning, wash in a hurry, have breakfast, jump on the subway and start a new day to work hard for your life. You have a lot of people to be responsible for and a basket of dreams to realize.

With your elderly parents, you watch your children grow day by day, with three meals and four seasons.

As the days passed, news of the death of people around me suddenly came, or many people died unexpectedly in social news. You sigh repeatedly, sigh that things are impermanent, and feel the fragility of life. You can't help asking: when you finally earn a lot of money, or become famous, or get married and have children, and finally live a stable life, is this life really meaningful?

Why can't people resist the nothingness of life? Whether they live like ants or live a little decently, everything will be empty in the end?

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Zhou Zeng said that man is the only animal who can ask about his existence, which is the greatness of man and the tragedy of man.

If the meaning of life is only focused on the secular pursuit of eating, drinking, sleeping, more wealth, more beautiful women and more children, people will live in peace.

But that's not the point. It's just living. I just think it's better to live.

After all, people and animals are different. No matter what secular level everyone lives in, there will be some confused moments, and we can't help but ask whether there is a meaning higher than life that supports us to live contentedly.

This question is usually unthinkable, because nothing can escape the fact that we will eventually die, and all stories and efforts about ourselves will be zero, which is enough to erase all the meaning.

Therefore, some people even say that I have become an out-and-out nihilist. There is no slogan to inspire me to strive for the first place, and there is no good ideal to persuade me to cling to the remnants, because I understand that what we value, value and strive for is a kind of nothingness.

Su Shi wrote in "Xijiang Moon": The world is full of dreams, and the autumn is crisp. At night, the sound of wind blowing leaves rings in the gallery. Look at the eyebrows and temples.

Life is like a big dream. When it is over, it disappears in the eternal time and space and leaves forever.

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People are really a little depressed at the thought of this.

This kind of depressing cold emptiness can crush people's spirit, and there is no upward force.

But recently I heard a concept about "Eye of the Nebula", and suddenly I felt suddenly enlightened.

What is the "eye of the nebula"?

From the perspective of the nebula and the Milky Way, human beings are as light as smoke, and there is no need to mention anything at all. The four seasons, sunshine, career, marriage and emotion are meaningless. We and all living things in front of us are insignificant, all struggles are stupid, and the ending and development are full of absurdity.

Seeing the world in this way is to open the "eye of the nebula" and see the nothingness of its own existence.

Bi Shumin put it well in an article, close the eye of the nebula, because it is not your place, it is God's place. It is cold, dark and desolate. Abandon the loneliness of being afraid of cold and return to a world full of vitality and complexity. Water under the bridge, it is our good fortune to be human in this life.

Born in this void, it is our mission to give life to this cold world with vigorous strength, to enrich historical stories with different life experiences, to love, to experience and to live our ideal self.

Asking about meaning is terrible. We should look back to fireworks, enjoy life itself and be grateful for this vast universe. The short time and opportunity in the vast space and time let us stay and feel.

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Fu Seoul once had a very funny and classic saying: don't see through the world of mortals, the world of mortals is broken.

Although it is a joke, it also tells the truth of the world. Actually, the world has always been like this. How do you know? Just look at your perception angle and position.

Since everything comes to one and all roads lead to the same goal, you can only choose a way of living that makes you feel comfortable, steaming, or peaceful and indifferent in the world of mortals.

A few days ago, I saw a promotional video of Weiya, which was particularly touching: How many criticisms does a girl have to go through before she can grow up smoothly?

When I was a child, my mother said that girls should be sweet-mouthed, and uncles and aunts would like you;

/kloc-when I was 0/0 years old, I cut my hair short for the first time. They say girls need long hair to look good.

18 years old, went to Beijing to work hard. They say that girls are more stable as teachers.

At the age of 24, they say that what a girl is busy with, getting married and having children is the big deal;

When I was 30, they told me not to mess around. I feel that my life has just begun.

I've seen 70-year-old foreign women wear lipstick and show her back, and I've seen dark-skinned girls walk far with their bags on their backs. If you ask me, when is the most beautiful girl? I would say, it is not defined at any time!

If life is in nothingness, if everyone's life is just a trip with no return, then who is qualified to judge whether others' lives are right or wrong? Who can define whether another person's life is worth living?

Billions of people on earth, as long as they don't break the law and hurt others, everyone lives their own life in their own way and plans this journey according to their own wishes. This is the best life.

Brilliant or ordinary, married or unmarried, in love or not, are your choices. I hope you can let go of your pessimistic persistence, see through the impermanence of the world and live a prosperous life.

Let go of your confusion about meaning and enjoy life!