This TV series was released in June 2007, and it has been 13 years now, but every time I see its fragments, I still have a lingering fear. In Double-sided Adhesive, Li Juan, a Shanghai girl, married Yaping, a Phoenix man who stayed in Shanghai after graduating from college. With the help of his mother-in-law's family, he bought a house in Shanghai and became a family. The young couple are very loving and have a harmonious relationship with their mother-in-law's family. However, after the arrival of her mother-in-law, everything has changed, and the warm little family has undergone qualitative changes, leading to fierce conflicts in life concepts.
In the TV series, the arrival of her mother-in-law made her home a battlefield without smoke. The exquisite dishes used to hold vegetables at home were replaced by stainless steel pot. In my mother-in-law's words, our hometown is used to swigging soup and munching. It's convenient to use this pot! The art painting hanging on the wall was seen by my father-in-law. He blushed and cursed the young people for being shameless. My mother-in-law covered the picture with a calendar.
Mother-in-law turned upside down when she saw her son washing dishes. My mother-in-law still has a serious idea that men are superior to women. She told Li Juan that women should treat men like horses and cattle, and save money instead of eating, drinking and spending all their money on themselves. Li Juan bought new clothes, but her mother-in-law was not satisfied. Li Juan ate a few more mouthfuls of meat, and her mother-in-law immediately became unhappy, criticizing her daughter-in-law for eating too much, and no one was in her eyes. Li Juan worked hard to save breast milk when she gave birth, but her mother-in-law didn't pour it out and put it on milk powder. The first sentence the child said turned out to be "Mom is not good", which made Li Juan unbearable.
The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is increasing day by day, with constant friction. Finally, a happy and warm family fell apart. At the end of this TV series, Yaping's mother was seriously ill, and Li Juan took her children to visit her mother-in-law. My mother-in-law touched her grandson's little hand and died peacefully, leaving an open ending for people. The couple is likely to get back together, but this is just the end of the adaptation. The true story is much more cruel.
The true story of double-sided tape has a cruel ending than expected.
In fact, double-sided tape has a prototype. The prototype of Hu Lijuan is Wu Lijun, a Shanghai girl who graduated from Normal University with excellent results. Once, Wu Lijun met a thief at the gate of the university, and a man helped chase him. This man is the prototype of Yaping.
After two people met, they decided to have sex. Wu Lijun got married as soon as she graduated. The money for the 28 th table of the wedding banquet was paid by the woman's family. People from a village in Phoenix Man's hometown came, and there was a wine fight during the dinner, which made the wedding a farce. After marriage, the two often have fellow villagers who live in their home and refuse to leave, while Phoenix Man also has a younger brother who dropped out of junior high school.
The man's parents made absurd demands, asking the woman's parents to pay for Phoenix's younger brother's wedding room, but Wu Lijun gave birth to a daughter, and her husband's family was very disgusted with son preference, and family conflicts escalated. After an argument, Wu Lijun was beaten to the temple by her husband and then strangled. After learning the bad news, Wu Lijun's father had a myocardial infarction and died soon, while his mother was still in the mental health center under the double blow.
Liu Liu, the author and famous writer of Double-sided Tape, interviewed Wu Lijun's relatives, friends, neighbors and Phoenix Man before writing. Liu Liu recalled that the murderer grinned at us and said that he wanted to find a Shanghai woman to help the whole family get rid of poverty. Shanghai's parents-in-law refused to give money to subsidize his family. What's the use of keeping a Shanghai wife? Liu Liu was scared out in a cold sweat. I hereby advise all women that marriage is the second reincarnation for women. Girls who want to get married should keep their eyes open and refuse some malicious Phoenix men.
What kind of inspiration does double-sided tape leave for people?
I have to say, "Double-sided Adhesive" tells a lot about marriage and how mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along. The most important thing is that love is a matter for two people, but marriage is a collision of the habits and concepts of two families. If a man repeatedly makes his wife compromise for the sake of his family, then the marriage is unequal. Here, I also want to remind all families with daughters to cultivate their daughter's ability to recognize people as well as her independence.
What kind of marriage do you think will make you happy? If you have a daughter, will you worry about her marriage?