How to treat men and rich women?
Nowadays, many men are realistic and value material things. They are incapable and unwilling to work hard. They just want to live a relaxed and expensive life. And their external conditions may be better, or they will be very popular with women. Many of these men want to find a rich woman to support themselves. I think most men raised by rich women are attracted by rich women's money, and their views are distorted and incompetent. But if both parties are single, there is nothing wrong with you. As long as you don't violate morality and hurt others, you can live in your own city. Now some young men think that they are good-looking and can escape the love of women, so they have the idea of finding a rich woman to support themselves. Anyway, they don't have to work hard, and they can work hard for many years with rich women's money. Why not? This kind of man may have a bad family, but he is vain and pursues material enjoyment. But he didn't have the ability to make money, and despised those hard jobs from the bottom of his heart, so he simply took a shortcut and found a rich woman to support himself. In fact, this is also due to the social environment. People are too materialistic, which leads to the distortion of values of many young people. Nowadays, women's status in society is no less than that of men. Women can have a lot of wealth by their own efforts, and women can also choose their own partners freely. As long as men are willing, they can support each other, even if there are great differences in all aspects, and age and social status are not a problem, you can be willing. So men like small fresh meat and small suckling dogs are very popular now. Actually, there's nothing wrong with it. It doesn't matter if you support others as long as you don't hurt others, violate morality and laws. Nowadays, with the rapid development of society, all kinds of people have it, and people's values have also changed a lot. It is understandable for men to rely on rich women to support themselves, but relying on others is better than relying on themselves. Only he is worth it. Money really belongs to you, and it is insecure to rely on others to support it. Only oneself is truly reliable at any time. How to treat a man with a rich woman II? What should I do in the face of the entanglement of the rich woman? In my junior year, my friend asked me to help maintain the computer in an Internet cafe. Because I majored in computer science, I am naturally familiar with this matter. That's how I got to know Sister Wang. At that time, Sister Wang opened many Internet cafes in the city and often invited me to help, so the two became very familiar. She is very cheerful and always invites me to dinner. One night, she met me at the school gate and said that she would go to the Internet cafe together. However, after I took the bus to class, I didn't go to the Internet cafe at all, but went to Sister Wang's house for dinner. Her home is a three-story villa, and the decoration inside also dazzles me. Sister Wang prepared a lot of seafood and opened red wine, saying that she would "talk by candlelight" with me. At first, all we talked about was Internet cafes. After three rounds of drinking, Sister Wang began to tell me how she felt. Although she is rich, she is actually a poor woman. Her husband died in a car accident and she has been single for three years. I have been listening to the story of Sister Wang. Sister Wang also talked about her sadness. The more wine she drank that night, the deeper the night. Seeing her talking about the past so passionately, I was embarrassed to leave. Later, in my eyes, this strong and independent woman was like a lovelorn girl crying in my arms. I was 2 1 year old that year, and Sister Wang has reached the age of no doubt. At that time, I really didn't understand why Sister Wang wanted to find a harbor in the arms of a teenager like me. I didn't know how to comfort her broken heart, and I didn't think much. I just thought it was my brother and sister's company. But what happened later made me deeply uneasy. Since then, she has frequently come to school to find me and kept giving me money. Students have already started to talk about it, and whenever I go to an Internet cafe to help maintain it, those employees in online celebrities will give me a strange look, which makes me realize that our relationship is not as simple as the sister-in-law relationship in others' eyes. I began to deliberately avoid Sister Wang and lied that the school work was full. But after all, "Ginger is still old and spicy", and Sister Wang just used a trick to make me fidget. Sister Wang confessed like me. She said I looked like her ex-husband. She found the feeling of the past from me and wanted to be with me. She can walk hand in hand in the future, and she will accompany me for the rest of my life. That night, I was lying in the dormitory and couldn't sleep. My mind was full of the shadow of Sister Wang, and her words kept ringing in my ears. I am also an ordinary person. I know that Sister Wang's wealth can at least make me struggle less for decades, but I can't accept crossing my age to face this love. I got up early that morning, and my mood was very chaotic. I went for a walk on the school playground without washing my face. It was April, and the cold wind made me upset. I know I'm in a dilemma. I don't want to disappoint Sister Wang's kindness, but I am selfish and greedy. There is a couple jogging on the playground. They talked and laughed, and sometimes they fought. Suddenly, the girl fell down, and the boy rushed to help the girl nervously, but she seemed to be seriously injured, which made the boy squat down beside him and suddenly picked up the girl, as if going to the hospital. At this moment, I heard the girl laughing, and then jumped off Xiangqian Che and ran. The boy knew that the girl was lying to him and ran after him. Seeing this scene, my heart suddenly shocked, as if the rising sun shone a ray of sunshine into my heart. In fact, what I yearn for in my heart is such love, but I have no love for Sister Wang at all, only greed. The happy moment of the couple makes me feel that the happiness I want is not compromise, but two people who love each other hand in hand and have a beautiful marriage. What I need more is caring love, not money.