2. People who don't love their wives and children have raised a lioness at home and hatched a nest of misfortunes.
3, flawless jade, can be a national instrument; The son of filial piety can be Guoxin.
Family education is the basic education in the process of children's growth, and a good family style is the cornerstone of minors' growth.
5. Family members are just people.
6. Establishing a good family style is an urgent need to purify the party style and drive the social atmosphere to improve.
7. Family style is the spiritual measure of inheriting the Millennium.
8. Creating a happy fireside atmosphere for his wife and children is a truly noble and enthusiastic life.
9. Build a formal family style and stick to the true nature of the national style.
10, a good family style is as indispensable to family members as soil, sunshine and rain.
1 1. A brother must love his brother and a brother must respect his brother. Don't use a little interest to hurt this feeling.
12, calculate, eat and wear warm; Use it to calculate, the sea is dry and the mountains are empty.
13, family style is a family's moral standard, just like food, it is an indispensable part of a family.
14, every family has a difficult experience, and only happiness makes sense.
15, family harmony, preventing bullying by neighbors; Neighbors live in harmony and guard against foreign bullying.
16, Wei Zuzhuo moved, his lineage moved to Tibet, and the provinces were born in other States; If you want to repay kindness, you will be confused.
17, don't be suspicious, don't listen to the language of alienation, don't do things of approval, and don't specialize in public interests.
18. Inherit and carry forward fine traditions and promote the construction of fine family style.
19, the family gives birth to a dutiful son, and the family gives birth to a demon.
20. There is a road to diligence in Shushan, and there is no limit to learning the sea.
2 1, teenagers don't know how to study hard, and old people regret studying late.
22. Do a good job in family style education to promote the healthy growth of children.
23. Happy families are all similar; Every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.
24. Filial piety first, then respect; Devote oneself to hard work in order to do good deeds.
25. accumulate small money to do big things; Save spare money and do urgent things.
26, gave birth to a child, but also how to educate, in order to let this born child become a complete person in the future.
27. Family style is to know the fine virtues of others' families on the basis of good family style.
28, fortune lies in diligence, losers are mostly prostitutes.
29. Independent personality, diligence and thrift, patience in everything, continuous learning, integrity and professionalism.
30. Self-cultivation requires a good family style.
3 1, a good family style is a necessary condition for the prosperity of the nation and the country.
32. Strict family style and harmonious family; Living in the countryside is tolerant, and the countryside is harmonious.
33. Don't look at people for a long time. Although humble, you should do your best.
34. Luxury women are defeated; The arrogant child was defeated; The brother who disagreed was defeated; Insulting teachers and slowing down guests are all failures.
The formation of family style has nothing to do with family wealth, but comes from the influence of parents' moral cultivation.
36. Children need to be taught and problems need to be dealt with.
37. If the family style is correct, the people will be honest; The family style is positive and the political style is clear; If the family style is correct, the party style will be over.
38. The family style is clear, the social style is clear, the family style is turbid, and the social style is turbid.
39. Family style is a kind of silent education, which silently affects children's hearts.
40. A good family style will inevitably form a good social atmosphere.
4 1, the rich children who have accomplished nothing are lost in appeasement; Poor children are easy to become accustomed to strict constraints.
42. Pay attention to family style, pay attention to morality, be diligent in housekeeping, attach importance to family ties, and be strict in teaching children.
43. Awakening parents should be obligatory, altruistic and sacrificial.
44. The formation of a good family style depends on the joint efforts of family members.
45. The family is United and has money to buy gold; Two hearts at home, no money to buy needles.
46. Family style is not only an integral part of folk customs and social customs, but also an important part of the traditional values of the Chinese nation.
47. You will miss the Yuan Dynasty one day, so don't wait to think about it all the time.
48. Only by creating a good family style can children grow up healthily.
49. Wealth is meaningless, but the family is embarrassed.
50. Everyone is rich because of Luf, and I am poor because of officials. The children left behind are innocent ears.
5 1, Yuan Tianxia was loyal in the Han Dynasty, and my heart is still good. You should learn from it and admonish yourself from time to time.
52, things are better, ask people; Rich at home, bright future.
53. Self-cultivation and family planning, family planning and governance, governance and world peace.
54, what kind of family style, what kind of children.
55. Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren. Don't be a scapegoat for children and grandchildren.
56, the tree is clear and upright, and the national style is promoted.
57. Nine times out of ten people who make a fortune for their children and grandchildren will be defeated.
58. Fang's descendants are named, and the class is in the middle and the word is behind, which is not disordered.
59. A good family style is a national treasure and should be handed down from generation to generation.
60, sage, far villain; Pay attention to etiquette and integrity.
6 1, a good family style is an important force in family education, which promotes the healthy and happy growth of children.
62. A good family style benefits people for life. Only by establishing a good family style can we enjoy a better life.
63. Loyalty, filial piety and benevolence show character, and diligence shows family style.
64. If a family is at odds with itself, it is untenable.
65. Ruthlessness is not necessarily a real hero. How can Reiko Kobayakawa not be a husband?
66. It's easy to live in harmony, but it's difficult to disobey for a while.
67. Every adult should master his words and deeds and create a good family style for the growth of children.
68. Supporting parents is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, which has been handed down from generation to generation since I started.
69. Family style will have an important impact on children's values, and family style is also affecting the trend of social fashion.
70. Establish a good family style and promote the healthy growth of children.
7 1, the word "heirloom" means reading and ploughing, and the word "wealth" means thrift.
72. Older people should be mentors and negotiators, not commanders.
73. If a scholar has a shrew, he will not be a good friend, and the state-owned jealous minister will never leave the wise.
74. If you are a father and can't be a father, then there is no son who is filial to his friends; If you can't be a teacher, you won't be an artist.
75. Being stingy, married, arrogant and extravagant is a shame.
As long as the mind is not covered, everyone likes their children to be stronger, healthier, smarter and nobler than themselves.
77. Strict family style will lay a good foundation for children's growth.
78. Father loves son, doctrine.
79. Indifference leads to no ambition, while quietness leads to distance.
80. A word, a sentence, a family story and a family memory are all carriers of family style.
8 1, there are no virtuous fathers and brothers in life, and there are no strict teachers and friends outside, but few can succeed.
82. Inherit the latter with virtue and the latter with wealth.
83. Children are people who create industries, not people who inherit them.
84. Sun's posthumous son, my children and grandchildren are innocent.
85. Advocate thrift, save glory and waste shame.
86. I only insist on studying until today, so don't give up your youth lightly.
87. If you don't teach, your father will pass; What is a teacher? A strict missionary.
88. Inherit Chinese culture and carry forward the excellent traditional family style.
89. Family style is a panoramic view of a family, which is reflected by every family member's words and deeds.
90, married, baked like a treasure, black sheep, money like grass.
9 1, inheriting good family style and promoting traditional culture.
Sima Guang's Family Style and Family Instructions _ Famous Sentences
Sima Guang's Family Style and Family Instructions _ Famous Sentences
The family style of Sima Guang in Song Dynasty and Su Shui furniture.
1. We made Liu Gongchuo in the east of the Tang Dynasty, and the family style among bureaucrats was the best.
Liu Gongchu, our Hedong envoy in the Tang Dynasty, is famous for his best family style among officials and officials.
There is a small study in the east of his house. Every morning, except in court, he goes to the study together. His son Zhong stood neatly in the north of the middle gate and greeted him.
Liu Gongchuo never leaves the study from morning till night, whether dealing with business or private affairs, welcoming guests and having dinner with cousins such as his brother-in-law.
In the evening, light lanterns, let the children read classics in turn in front of the lights, then explain the way of being an official and managing the family, and sometimes talk about articles or listen to the piano until the dead of night.
I began to go back to my room to sleep, and my sons stood in the north of the middle gate to meet him in the night.
This habit has persisted for more than 20 years and has not changed for a day.
In famine years, my son eats coarse grains.
Liu Gongzhuo said: Once upon a time, my brother served my late father. As the secretariat of Danzhou, he refused to eat meat on the pretext of failing his studies. I dare not forget it.
For example, if there are widows among aunts, sisters and nieces, they will choose husbands for them even if they are alienated. They all use wood carvings as dowry and silk with flowers as wedding clothes.
As the saying goes, when you get married, you must wait until the dowry is ready. What's better than not missing the opportunity to get married? After Liu's death, his sons Liu Zhong and Liu Ying inherited his family law.
This is the basic model of ancient family education. You can generally regard it as a typical feudal patriarchal clan system, or as a folk picture of family education in ancient China.
If we put aside all political and cultural prejudices and look at the details objectively, it is not difficult to find out the difference between the ancient family education in China and the modern school management and unit administration. It's just that the ancient families in China transferred the management mode they had to accept in schools and units to their families for training in advance.
In this sense, the ancient family education model plays an important role in educating children and inheriting civilization.
All parents must observe etiquette to protect their children and family.
As parents, we must be careful to observe etiquette, which is used to discipline many children and family members, assign their responsibilities, assign affairs, and urge them to handle things successfully.
Formulate a money-saving system and arrange expenditures on the basis of living within our means; Weigh one's poverty and wealth to decide the food and clothing expenses of the whole family. Everything should show one's own integrity, but it must be unfair and unified.
It is necessary to stop and reduce all unnecessary expenses and prohibit extravagant habits; Always leave some savings, just in case something happens.
To manage a family, it is necessary to highlight words and deeds, that is, to assign responsibilities to family members and blame them for their success.
Of course, this is out of the need to revitalize the family business, but at the same time, it is also based on the family and trains qualified citizens for the society.
This isomorphic civic education model of home and country is the original creation of China traditional culture.
Family Style and Family Instructions of Chen Ming Zheng Long in Family Moments _ Famous Sentences
Family Style and Family Instructions of Chen Ming Zheng Long in Family Moments _ Famous Sentences
Chen Long in Ming Dynasty was a "family moment".
1. Don't delay.
If people are not stingy by nature, it is difficult to achieve great wealth and great wealth.
If you don't leave great wealth to your children and grandchildren, they won't have a luxury mentality. If you don't have luxury, you won't be reduced to too poor. Therefore, if you want to leave the ability to keep your family business for future generations, it is fundamental not to be stingy.
Grandparents and fathers began to accumulate from subtleties, and children and grandchildren spent money like water.
The root of children's stupidity is planted from the stupid nature of ancestors and fathers.
Not stingy and not extravagant, seemingly similar in meaning, have produced two different results.
If you don't want to be too poor, you have to be extravagant; If you don't want luxury, you are just not rich; If you don't want to be rich, you must be honest.
It can be seen that not being stingy is the premise of not being extravagant. The former is to avoid great wealth, and the latter is to avoid great poverty.
Neither thrift nor luxury is emphasized, the purpose is to cultivate future generations with entrepreneurial spirit and business spirit; Cultivating the spirit of starting a business and staying in business for future generations is far more important and far-reaching than leaving them great wealth.
If your plan is successful, you will have the resources to improve your honesty.
In ancient times, all property belonged to the dynasty, and there was no livelihood to govern, and scholars did not care about livelihood.
Rice will be piled there casually in the morning and evening, just like being abandoned outside, let alone storing surplus grain for future generations.
Therefore, when Confucius became an official, his clothes were all ready. After he became an official, he had no food to eat, or even no food to eat.
Future generations, such as Zhuge Wuhou, can also leave mulberry fields for future generations.
In Song Dynasty, officials were paid handsomely, but when Sima Wengong appointed officials, he first asked their ancestral home, thinking that only those who had no worries about food and clothing were honest officials, so he left the industry to future generations.
This situation should also be formed in future generations; However, leaving property should conform to the principles of morality and interests, and future generations should also distinguish between cause and end.
My late father was honest and thrifty, leaving a legacy as worthy as Zhuge Wuhou's saying that he would die without apologizing to future generations.
My generation met a confidant like Sima Wengong, and the strategy of repaying my father was in line with the golden mean, so we had family resources to support honesty.
If children and grandchildren are insatiable in business, they will be rejected by the first one.
If you are diligent, you can accumulate more money every year. After a long time, you will accumulate more and more money. When something big happens, you can spread your money moderately, so that the descendants of ordinary people will not take care of their livelihood in the future.
Zhuge Wuhou can leave mulberry fields for future generations, and officials in the Song Dynasty can also leave a legacy for future generations, which is the necessary capital provided by the court for officials to be fair and honest. Although these capitals or occupations are necessary, they all serve the purpose of maintaining honesty. Only honesty is fundamental.
Some corrupt officials in later generations used their power to collect money crazily, which not only exceeded the boundaries of honesty, but also ran straight to the edge of crime, reversing the correct relationship between honesty and capital that ancient officials have always advocated.
3. Cherish mistakes is violence.
Cherish and dissipate are originally two opposite meanings, and stupid people sometimes combine them into a disease.
If you can't finish it at once, you should give it to the servants while it's delicious.
Rags and old shoes should be distributed to servants or poor families before they are useless.
Every time I see that women are too stingy and cherish things, I hoard the extra food. As a result, I can't stay for one day in summer and ten days in winter, and they are all rotten.
My clothes and shoes are worn out, and I want to hide them in the cupboard, but I can't give them to others, and I can't just leave them at home and let them rot.
In this way, people can't enjoy the function of property and property can't play its role. This is an act of over-cherishing, which is equivalent to destroying and destroying property.
You should always explain this truth and remind your family to understand it, so that you will naturally not make this mistake.
To really cherish something, we must give full play to its nourishing and nurturing effects on people.
Except for some collectibles, if you collect things just for the sake of treasure, the limited functions of items will disappear in the flying time and space, and the cherished love will become fleeting.
The beauty of flowers and the delicacy of delicacies only occupy a one-time short moment!
Only by making the best use of everything and pushing yourself and others is the most practical kindness and care for the life world.
4. study under the same roof. Gentlemen, enjoy yourself.
Studying with excellent friends and important relatives is the happiest thing for a gentleman.
But if you don't talk to each other, there will be no intimate relationship, and without frank communication, it will not last long.
Meet during the day and talk and laugh moderately.
The air is fresh before noon, suitable for reading and thinking.
I am very tired in the afternoon, so I should have a quiet rest.
In the evening and cloudy days, the sun's spirit converges, so we should check and summarize the study and behavior of the day.
Generally speaking, in these three periods, it is not appropriate to talk and laugh too much, so as to avoid too much energy leakage and cause diseases, which is harmful and useless.
Only after lunch, when the food is suspended in the middle and the turbid gas in the stomach rises, you should wave your hands and feet to spread Xu Yasheng's words, so that the stomach gas is smooth and not stagnant.
Isn't it a good thing to be with intimate friends, express your feelings at will and explore the truth, not only to make your blood flow smoothly, but also to reconcile your feelings? Take care of yourself first, then others. The purpose of making friends in an all-round way is to be willing to learn from friends' strengths.
A talented person is often easy to alienate and difficult to get close to; Those who love leisure and hate work will be stopped by the upright.
These problems must be paid attention to.
This article introduces the experience and wisdom of learning library life.
On the one hand, it is necessary to use the Yin-Yang theory of Chinese medicine to adjust the reasonable schedule of work and rest, so as to achieve the realm of harmony between man and nature and health care.
On the other hand, we should master the standards and principles of communication between students.
The purpose of making friends is not to solve the problem of loneliness, but to absorb the advantages of friends and promote learning progress.
People who love ease make people slack off, and people who do evil tempt people to make mistakes, which are not suitable partners; When you associate with talented friends, you should overcome the problem that they are far away from each other.
When friends get along, there will be no intimate relationship without talking, and there will be no long-term relationship without honesty.
The ideal friend is: to build feelings through common study and make people forge ahead through friendship.
5. treat rewards as punishment when traveling.
At home, we should implement the principle of punishing lazy people, so we work together because we are afraid.
When going out, we should implement the principle of rewarding people instead of punishing them, so that everyone will not be lazy because of incentives.
Someone asked: Why is there such a difference? Traveling is hard work between the car and the boat. Even if I am relaxed, I am very tired. Do you have the heart to punish me for staying away from my relatives and following me? Therefore, instead of punishment with reward, no reward is also considered punishment.
The reason why we use punishment instead of reward at home is to use no punishment instead of reward, otherwise we will not be able to reward so much.
Different situations have different ways.
The principle of rewards and punishments are two basic management methods commonly used at home and abroad, but these two methods should be emphasized with the change of environment.
Being in one's own sphere of influence can make subordinates feel awe, which not only makes punishment methods public, but also reduces management costs.
When going out, we should take reward as the main means, and reward without punishment, not only because subordinates are far away from the countryside and work hard, but also because they are away from home, and the master and servant are strangers in essence and equal strangers, which not only cannot be punished, but once the punishment is implemented, the consequences are unimaginable.
Therefore, changing the means of rewards and punishments according to the change of environment is an effective means to reduce management costs and improve management efficiency.
6. Things are fast, but not fast.
There is no time to do good things that can be done; There are mistakes made before, and there is no time to correct them; Some things in a family can't be cleaned up properly. These are all unfulfilled wishes in life and should be done in time.
Probably let yourself lose a point and forgive others a point. There is nothing you can't stop.
If you encounter something difficult to deal with, you are ready to throw all your money at the mercy of others, or you can end it.
This can not only make your heart relaxed and happy, but also avoid leaving future trouble for future generations, which is very cost-effective.
If officials are engaged in their own work, they should try their best to complete the task according to the situation. For things that are bound to be difficult and can be postponed, he can let go first.
For those things that should be done morally but blocked by powerful people, just abandon the official and go; However, we should be far-sighted and be a little lookout. If we take the next step, we will be severely attacked, and even if we resign, we will be hurt.
These problems must be solved quickly.
We should always keep the spirit and life of self-cultivation and improvement.
People must be able to put an end to some things in time, stop and abandon some things in time, so that the layout of life can move forward reasonably and efficiently.
For those good things that you want to do but don't have time to do, for those mistakes that you want to correct but don't have time to correct, and for those housework that you don't tidy up in time, you should hurry up and finish it in time, otherwise it will leave great heartache and disaster in the future.
For those things that are too big to succeed at all, let go early and give up flatly; For those illegal and dangerous things forced by the situation, we must resolutely refuse and strive for safe escape; In this way, you can make everything you do be done by you, with no regrets and no fear.
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