Ten years, I like the same person, but I watch others speak ill of her day after day, just to cut these people to pieces one day. When I think about it, I think it smells like Goujian service, which is not something that ordinary people can do. People with a little blx can't stand people saying that the people they like are not good at all. Not to mention the foul language in the post bar.
But it cannot be said that this is the mode of idolization. This is very touching, but it doesn't mean it's worth popularizing. But if this person's heart is not so strong, in this process of repeated struggle, it is very likely that his personality will be distorted. This is also the reason why some undercover eventually suffer from mental illness. True and false, false and true, in the end they can't tell.
I think the role model of idolization is the kind of person who lives in idolization and gets better and better in the process. You should make yourself excellent enough, then meet the person you want to see, go to a concert, watch him realize his dream and realize his dream at the same time, and then wait for the grand end of youth. That's not the meaning of life, it's a process of constantly chasing the light.
If others can't understand and agree, there is no need to criticize. If you just eat and drink Lazar, life will be too boring. We all need gorgeous and illusory fireworks to illuminate ourselves and support ourselves occasionally.
Secondly, I don't think there is anything wrong with idolizing and doing what you can for your idol. As long as it doesn't affect daily life, there is no need to be cold when you love someone. When you repay him, he is also illuminating you.
Our life is short and long, with short happiness and long troubles. But as long as we still have love and people we like, we can overcome our troubles and get unlimited happiness. Sharing happiness is long, and the years are long. There is no need to find all the meaning for the future, because the happiness of this matter itself is the greatest meaning.