People who can't take care of themselves in old age, especially those caused by various diseases, suffer the most from themselves, their relatives and children, especially those who can't go to the toilet by themselves and eat and drink by themselves. It doesn't matter if they stay in bed for three or four years or even seven or eight years or even longer, and it is even more difficult for those who are alive to serve ... So there is a saying: There are no dutiful sons before they grow up! Besides, in this era, everyone has their own work and life, and they all need to work hard, and there is no extra time to serve the sick for a long time. On the one hand, patients have to spend expensive medical expenses, on the other hand, they have to be served by special personnel. Three sick people can't get the minimum healthy dignity before they die. It's ok to meet a virtuous couple and a filial daughter, but it's fate to meet a wicked couple and unfilial offspring: you can't die if you are sick. It's a living hell to treat malaria for waiters ... So I think the country should advocate euthanasia laws and regulations, so that the living dead who have an incurable disease can volunteer. Euthanasia is a dignified death of terminally ill patients, wasting less national medical resources, and patients' families should not bear high medical expenses!
I have many feelings about this problem. My father had a cerebral infarction in his sixties. By the age of seventy, he had lost the ability to take care of himself. He died after lying in bed for three years. My mother-in-law stayed in bed for eight years and died at the age of 87. My friend's father died after being in a coma for seven years in the intensive care unit of the provincial 3A hospital. Wife is often hospitalized due to illness. During this period, I met many elderly people in their 80 s who received chemotherapy in the hospital and died after paying huge medical expenses. These examples have indeed added a lot of burdens to the patients themselves and their families' children, and some families are even heavily in debt and fall into poverty.
My mother is over 80 years old this year and suffers from various chronic diseases. At present, she can't take care of herself completely, but her mind is still clear. This year, my brothers and sisters were called together and arranged after birth. One of them, which is also the most important one she emphasized, is that once she is seriously ill, we are not allowed to save her and simply bury her after her death. My mother is a housewife. She has never worked or received any education. It's amazing that she can look at life and death like this.
It suddenly occurred to me that if it is my turn to make such a decision at my mother's age, I really dare not say. I saw many terminally ill elderly people in the hospital, not to mention the quality of life. Living is pure punishment, and I want to live a few more days. In order to live a few more days, it doesn't matter to pay high medical expenses for children or even borrow money. So not everyone can look down on life and death, which may be the reason why the country does not allow euthanasia. After all, few people can respect life and death. For example, I can agree with my mother now, but can I insist at that time? I dare not say. Because people of every age have different ideas, they are very helpless on this issue, really helpless!
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