1 13. How to coordinate the contradiction between ideal and reality?

When you leave your hometown and start working in a town, there will inevitably be a lot of distress and disappointment. Many things are far from the imagined life in a small town, which easily leads to psychological imbalance and a sense of loss. When I was away from home, I was full of lofty sentiments and expected to make a difference when I came out, but when I arrived in town, I found that everything was not satisfactory, and even the "rice bowl" was hard to find. What should we do in the face of this conflict between ideal and realization?

All kinds of difficulties we face after entering the city are opportunities to test and temper us. In the process of solving problems, gradually understand yourself, adapt to the new environment, and put yourself in a correct position in society. If this process is successful, we will be accepted by the society, cultivate a confident and mature character, and find our proper position in society.

In the process of working in cities and towns, we should learn to adapt to all kinds of changes, whether it is the hardship and loneliness of arriving in a foreign land, the pain of setbacks at work or the suffering of emotional crisis, we should face it bravely and never complain. In the face of some unsolvable psychological puzzles, we can also talk to friends and family to relieve our psychological pressure and help us solve our difficulties.

1 14. Will this town be your final destination?

The so-called destination is to settle down, have a long-term residence of your own and have a stable source of work and life. As a migrant worker, do you live in a town or go back to the countryside?

At present, farmers who work in cities and towns still face many obstacles such as stable work, housing, household registration and children's enrollment. It takes some time to overcome these obstacles. However, we should see that with the deepening of reform and the acceleration of urban-rural integration, various restrictions on farmers working in cities are gradually being lifted. Many farmers who work in cities have worked in cities for more than ten years, got married and became real city dwellers.

The degree to which big cities accept labor is not infinite. When the number of migrant workers exceeds the capacity of urban labor force and the supply of labor exceeds demand, unemployment will occur. Some people may move to small and medium-sized towns, while others will return to their hometown. The society encourages rural surplus labor to seek development in cities and towns, especially small and medium-sized cities and towns, because China's modernization can only be realized if a large number of rural people move to cities and towns steadily. The Society also encourages ambitious young people to return to rural areas to start businesses after learning knowledge and skills in cities and towns, because rural development also needs high-quality workers and leaders.

1 15. How can I become a real city resident?

(1) has a long-term and stable job in this city. This is a prerequisite for farmers to become urban residents. Only when you have a long-term stable job in the city can you have a stable source of income and life, and you can look forward to it for a long time in the city.

(2) Have your own house in the city. Housing is the basic material premise of "home". Housing is your own, you will naturally feel that you have "settled down" in the city and feel at home.

(3) lifestyle changes. This change occurs imperceptibly with the change of occupation and living environment. For example, "work at sunrise and rest at sunset" should be changed to work by the hour; Eating and drinking on holidays has become improving daily meals on weekends; Going to the market for ten and a half days to buy goods has become a preparation for shopping; Playing poker and mahjong in my spare time has become going to parks, cultural centers or cinemas.

(4) the change of ideas. Changes in the external living environment and lifestyle, as well as changes in internal concepts, influence each other. If you want to be a real city resident, you must realize a complete change in your concept, make new changes in life development, beliefs, marriage concepts, ethics and morality, public moral awareness, market awareness, etc., believe in science and rely on the law to safeguard your rights and interests. Only in this way can you become a real city resident.

(5) account change. The change of household registration is only a symbol of urban residents, but it is still very necessary and important under the current household registration system in China. Judging from the current actual situation, there are several ways to obtain urban hukou through personal efforts:

(1) Through personal efforts, I have obtained university or master's degree or above. Now, many cities do not restrict these talents with certain academic qualifications to settle in cities.

Through marriage, you can enjoy the preferential treatment of settling in the city by marrying a city dweller or a city dweller's wife, but not everyone is suitable for this road, and personal marriage must be based on happiness.

(3) Investing or buying a house in a city requires certain financial strength and personal ability.

Some cities are gradually liberalizing household registration restrictions. Judging from the development trend of the household registration system, it will be easier and easier for farmers to become urban residents.

What are the occupations that can earn money with less investment?

If you have some savings on hand and intend to use them as investment to do a small business, here are some occupations that can make money with less investment for your reference.

(1) Second-hand bookstore. Many urban families sell many books and periodicals at home as waste because their houses are crowded or they move to new houses. At this time, you can buy these old books, many of which are rare and precious because they are no longer published. Then open a small shop specializing in selling second-hand books and newspapers, and sell the bought books to customers with special needs. At the same time, you can also operate the book rental business and charge a certain rent.

(2) Open a snack bar. You can go to a certain community, rent a small storefront, decorate it a little, buy some furniture, and your snack bar can be opened. This is a profession with little investment and easy operation.

(3) Open a barber shop. Although there are many beauty salons now, there are still many people who like to go to some small barber shops for haircuts, such as the elderly, children, young people with low incomes, and many migrant workers, who generally choose such small shops. So, you only have this ability, treat people warmly and sincerely. Then, rent a small storefront, add some necessary tools and start a business.

(4) flower shop. In modern towns, many people replace the original gifts with flowers, which has become a communication between people. Birthdays, festivals, weddings, parties, and even visiting patients need to send pleasing flowers, and opening such a store does not require too much investment.

(5) open a grocery store. In some big towns, the distance between residential areas and commercial areas is quite far, and people sometimes have to go to the mall for a little thing, which wastes both time and money. So finding the right location, opening a small grocery store and selling daily necessities is also a career with less investment and good income.

Apart from this meal, setting up a small moving company, an intermediary service company, or running a community nursery and laundry are all employment opportunities with less investment and quick results.

1 17, what should I do when I return to China?

Not everyone who goes to work in a town can find a home in it. Many aspiring rural youths not only learned skills in cities and towns, but also broadened their horizons, gained new ideas and rich social experience, and gained strong perseverance. After returning to your hometown, you are not the person who left home at the beginning. You should be an entrepreneurial leader who discovers and seizes opportunities.

Returning to my hometown, whether I continue to engage in agriculture or invest in setting up factories, is a manifestation of striving for progress and pursuing a better life. Special attention should be paid to abandoning the closed concept of small farmers such as "small wealth means security", "contentment is always happy" and "not striving for progress". Establish a modern consciousness of sustainable development, innovation and opening up, and be brave in opening up a new life. Many educated young people rely on science and technology to develop characteristic agriculture. They not only embarked on the road to a well-off life by themselves, but also led the villagers to become rich and well-off, which should be an example for all of us. Some people earn some money in towns, start to be cocky and idle, and even get into some bad habits of eating, drinking, whoring and gambling. This kind of behavior is not only irresponsible to oneself, but also irresponsible to family and society.

How can I "teach myself"?

The ideal of young people is to become talents, and there are two basic ways to become talents: one is to become talents through school education; Second, by studying hard,

Self-taught. The first way is easier, of course, but not everyone has the opportunity, especially friends who work in towns, because they often miss this opportunity. It takes a lot of courage and perseverance to take the second road to the end, so not many people take the second road, but as long as they resolutely go on this road, their achievements will often be higher.

There are several ways to teach yourself:

(1) study hard in the factory, pay attention to observation and study, and strive to become a technical backbone.

(2) learn technology, accumulate funds, cultivate their own management ability, and start their own businesses.

(3) Give full play to your hobbies and become a professional creative person, such as someone who has achieved something in music, calligraphy, singing and writing.

Some become fashion designers and writers.

To teach yourself, you must also grasp three points:

(1) If you are determined to be a successful person, you should be "far-sighted" and firm in your ambition, not "always determined". Think one idea a day and you will accomplish nothing.

(2) Work hard towards the goal and be prepared before the opportunity comes, because the opportunity only belongs to those who are prepared.

(3) Opportunities can wait or find. As long as you work hard and persist, the road to self-study can also be successful.

1 19, is it useless to go back to your hometown with the skills you have learned?

Working in a town is really a good opportunity to learn technology. When you learn a skill, you will undoubtedly get more job opportunities in the town. So, are these skills learned in the town still useful after returning to China?

With the continuous improvement of China's urbanization level, the radiation from cities and towns to rural areas has gradually expanded, and rural areas have begun to develop various industries. Township enterprises and individual and private enterprises are also booming, and the demand for technical talents is increasing, and the requirements are getting higher and higher. So, you learned the skills in the town, and it is equally useful to go back to your hometown. You can use this technology to get employment in local enterprises and even serve as the technical backbone of the factory. With the technology you have mastered, you can combine local resources to set up private enterprises and develop your own business.

In addition, there are many opportunities to show the skills learned in rural areas. For example, if you work in an auto repair shop in a town and learn the skills of repairing cars, and your hometown has relatively developed traffic and national highways and expressways pass by, then you can completely open an auto repair station or auto parts shop by yourself or jointly with others to serve drivers. If you have worked in a hair salon in the town and learned some hairdressing techniques, you can open a beauty salon in a township or county when you return to your hometown. If you are engaged in the construction industry in the town and are familiar with the construction technology and the management technology of the construction team, you can also organize a construction team to build houses for your hometown. In addition, because most of the technologies in the town are catching up with the trend of the times, such as the trendy haircut technology and various architectural styles, these will become your unique competitive advantages and help you achieve better work results. Therefore, as long as you have the ability, courage and courage, your hometown is also a place where you can display your talents and start a career.

How did they succeed?

Here, we give some successful examples to migrant workers for reference, and see how they succeed, from which we can learn some experiences and get some enlightenment.

(1) Self-taught and constantly struggling. Zhang, who works in Nanjing, found this advertisement for handyman while collecting junk in the cinema. He bravely went to the interview regardless of his lack of qualifications, and finally impressed the manager with his earnest spirit and simple nature and got a job as a handyman. After he started working, he found that there was a huge gap between himself and the city people in knowledge and quality, so he began to teach himself. He can't read much, so he relied on Xinhua Dictionary to help him learn human geography when he was studying. After heavy work, he learned Korean by asking the audience. Later, I went to the local language institute to study Japanese at my own expense. At this time, he resigned because it would affect his study time. What if he has no source of income? When he was in night school, he picked up garbage to pay his tuition and make a living. Many things happen. Zhang finally got a second-class certificate in Japanese and found an enviable job. After working for a period of time, his vision was high again, and he came up with the idea of studying in Japan. Therefore, he quit his job and studied for an advanced certificate in Japanese. After finishing his studies, he finally had the opportunity to study in Japan and became the envy of many college students. This is an example of self-taught. Zhang not only has perseverance, but also has foresight to find a way to succeed on his own.

(2) bury yourself in writing and open your own sky. An Zi, a mountain girl, went to work in Guangzhou after graduating from junior high school. She worked as an assembly line in a factory, a front desk in a hotel and an operator in an office building. In her spare time, she took part in correspondence study in a junior college and finally got a junior college diploma. Because of her love of literary writing, after she got the diploma, she began to create literature, and according to her own work experience, she wrote a blockbuster documentary work-Youth Station. After becoming famous, she worked as a columnist in major newspapers and radio stations in the SAR, and found her own sky in the SAR.

Although An Zi gave up his studies at school to work in the town, he didn't give up his studies or his hobbies and specialties. Therefore, her spare time life is very substantial, which also laid the foundation for her life development. She not only achieved success by herself, but also wrote literary works with her own experience, expressing the voices of many migrant workers' friends and helping them through and solve their psychological crisis.

(3) Unity is strength, and returning home to start a business. According to a survey by the Sociology Department of China Agricultural University in Huaihua City, Hunan Province, there is a man named Wang Shaojian in this area. He used to be a tramp, but in fact, he is engaged in various jobs in many places. Later, I worked in blasting engineering in Guangxi and made some money. On a Mid-Autumn Festival in Guangxi, he bought two pomegranates and spent more than 10. He thought, this thing is so expensive, it must have earned a lot of money. So I began to understand pomegranate market information, as well as varieties, planting techniques and other information. Later, he returned to his hometown, contracted 100 mu (6.67 hectares) of land, bought excellent pomegranate varieties in Shaanxi and came back to start pomegranate planting. On this basis, he also planted gift watermelons, high-quality strawberries and grapes, all of which are characteristic fruits that are not planted locally, so the prices sold in the market are also high. As a result, a "tramp" has become a well-known local rich man and a local scientific and technological leader who promotes agriculture through science and education, leading villagers to get rich together.

Wang Shaojian's success is not only because he chose the right way to get rich, but also because his ten-year experience of wandering abroad broadened his horizons and made him look at problems from different angles, so that he could find useful information from the ever-changing market. If an ordinary farmer sees such expensive fruit in the city, he may only think of "too expensive to buy" or grow it himself, but he may not be as successful as Wang Shaojian. So working in cities and towns is a rare experience, which brings not only economic income, but also intangible wealth.

(4) Learn technology and return to China for development. Wen Shilin is an ordinary farmer in the old revolutionary base area in southern Jiangxi. 10 years ago, he and his fellow villagers went to work in a furniture factory in Guangdong. He worked for 78 years and became the technical backbone of the factory. Three years ago, he decided not to go to Guangdong, but set up a small furniture factory in Jinjiling Development Zone, Nankang, his hometown. Today, Wen Shilin's furniture factory has begun to take shape, and the first phase investment of 6.5438+0.5 million yuan has been completed. He has hired 57 migrant workers, and the home and office furniture produced by the factory has entered Ganzhou, Nanchang, Guangzhou and other large and medium-sized cities. At present, he has begun to prepare the leather sofa production line. Wen Shilin said that he chose to go back to his hometown to start a business for two main reasons: First, he wanted to be unified? Quot boss dream "; Second, I feel that my hometown is very capable and really useful. He said: "Although the boss of that factory in Guangdong has repeatedly retained me and promised to promote and reuse me, I am still a foreigner and a wage earner in the eyes of others. It is obviously unrealistic to set up a factory in Guangdong with only a few hundred thousand yuan I have accumulated, and the rent is expensive. "At this time, I happened to meet the encouragement and support of my hometown government, so I came back.

In recent years, there have been new changes in places where there are many people going out to work; Governments at all levels have changed from encouraging farmers to go out to work to attracting migrant workers to "return to their hometowns to start businesses". To this end, many preferential policies and measures have been formulated, and some places have put forward the slogan of changing "migrant workers' tide" into "entrepreneurial tide" Therefore, migrant workers use the skills they have learned from working in cities and towns to return to their hometowns to start businesses, which not only opens up their own careers, but also contributes to the development of their hometowns.

(5) Dare to accept challenges and grow in overcoming difficulties. He Zongsu, general manager of Xianlin Electronics Co., Ltd., Dongguan City, Guangdong Province, is also a

When a successful person who grew up from a "working girl" was young, she chose an unfortunate marriage for her family. Later, she resolutely left this marriage and joined the ranks of working in the south. She worked as a nanny and a foreman and salesman in a clothing factory. After more than a year, the factory closed down because of poor management. He Zongsu returned to his hometown in Jiangxi with a down-to-earth attitude and pioneering spirit, and partnered with friends to open a decoration company in his hometown. When she first developed, the private decoration company closed down because of policy changes, and she lost all her money. She also cried bitterly because of setbacks, but did not bow to fate, but bravely faced the challenge of bad luck, once again set foot on the train south and entered an electronics subsidiary.

A factory as an assembler.

In the factory, with persistent pursuit, down-to-earth work and hard study, she quickly rose from an employee to a monitor, then to a team leader, and then to a section chief a year later. She shoulders heavy responsibilities, works diligently and meticulously, and humbly asks her colleagues for advice in her spare time. She quickly learned English knowledge of electronics, logistics management, quality inspection and accounting knowledge, and was almost familiar with the company's overall business, winning the appreciation and trust of the boss and the respect of all employees.

A Taiwanese businessman came to the mainland to invest in an electronics factory. He Zongsu, who was introduced, appreciated her very much and invited her to cooperate. She is the general manager of the mainland company and is responsible for all the affairs of the mainland company. This company was almost hit by the Asian financial turmoil, and He Zongsu faced another challenge. She tried all kinds of methods to deal with the crisis, and finally, with the help of friends from all sides, she reopened her own "Xianyu Electronics Co., Ltd.", which operated well and passed the ISO9002 certification in enterprise management. For He Zong Lai Su, after setbacks and challenges, he fell down and got up again. It is also in such hardships that she exercised her courage and courage to achieve today's achievements. And no matter where she is, she works hard and pursues the spirit of progress, which makes her step by step to the final glory.