I don't know what others think. My son has been married for more than ten years, and my granddaughter is thirteen. I have always thought that my daughter-in-law should be a member of the family since she stepped into our door, otherwise it will not work.

To tell the truth, I am also a outspoken and heartless person. Although elderly people often say that the shoulder pole is not the daughter-in-law of the grass, nor the dependence of women, as a mother-in-law, I want to relax and try my best to put a bowl of water flat. Especially, I am still a son and a daughter. I have always thought that sons, that is, only-child families, are stronger, because I can't be biased in this direction.

Daughter-in-law has been in our house for so many years and gets along well. She doesn't talk much, and she just smiles when she meets anything. I have been married for more than ten years, and my parents have been shouting. For so many years, our mother and I have never been popular. Maybe it's because we all live separately, separated by a bowl of soup. It may also have something to do with it. I have been there before, and I do know it. Daughter-in-law and daughter are really different things. Daughter is the meat that falls from her body. If there is anything wrong with her, she can say it at any time. Sometimes it doesn't matter if she scolds twice or shouts twice. Two minutes later, she forgot everything, and her daughter-in-law couldn't do it at all, and she couldn't spit anything out.

I'm telling the truth. As the subject said, when my daughter-in-law just got married, she called her parents-in-law, and then she stopped calling them. There must be a reason. As in-laws, she should also think deeply and find out more shortcomings and mistakes from herself, so as to promote her in-laws and make her family harmonious.

I can't shout out. Mom and dad are too precious to shout.

I can't shout out. My parents will not accept it.

Because what they do is so wonderful, their parents won't treat their daughters like this.

As soon as the new daughter-in-law arrives in a new environment, she wants to be integrated with her husband's family, but after a long time, she will understand that his husband's family will not treat you as family, and will not treat them as parents, so she doesn't want to call again.

When I first got married, there was a change fee and a red envelope. So call your parents-in-law Later, I stopped giving money and had to pay the pension fee, so I didn't shout later and stayed away. That is the reality. hahaha ...

I really don't understand calling my in-laws "parents" after marriage. Even in the early days of marriage, I feel uncomfortable calling my parents.

I once saw such a news, work, because the daughter-in-law was dissatisfied with her son's marriage and didn't call her parents, she encouraged her son to divorce and even took her daughter-in-law to court. ...

I think most of these parents only emphasize the obligations of others, selfish, arrogant and stubborn.

It is said that women are pregnant, have children, have confinement and take care of children. If you make her wronged, she will be even more reluctant to shout.

I made bad friends with my husband's family because of some things after marriage. Since then, I haven't even spoken to them, let alone called them "parents".

Although some in-laws come from the old society, some always like to set an example to restrain their daughters-in-law. When I think of the time when I just had a pregnancy check-up, I always like to say, "Where did we have a pregnancy check-up? Now people are particularly delicate. " This is aimed at me. In their eyes, pregnancy is a simple and painless thing, but where did she know that I was a high-risk pregnancy? She only likes talking nonsense. I don't know which daughter-in-law will be willing to shout when she meets such a husband, even if she shouts, she has no sincerity.

I remember when the baby was born, because of premature delivery, the doctor said that there would be many sequelae, so be prepared psychologically. They just thought that since there were sequelae, they came to persuade me to give him up and hand him over to the hospital.

I don't even want to save it. Who doesn't think this husband's family is not hateful? Fortunately, the baby was very lucky and survived after some rescue by the doctor. Survival also makes them hate everything. When they were seven months old, their children ate and vomited at home because of incarcerated hernia, but I couldn't put it down for a moment, so I had to go to the hospital for help. After I came back, a pile of vomit was lying in the hall intact. Looking at that scene, I could only feel really miserable.

Even confinement is almost spent in the hospital. Because of caesarean section, the wound is serious and full of hematoma. I go to the hospital to disinfect and clean the wound every one or two days. My husband always goes with me. Because of work, I can only ask his mother to accompany me, but I was greeted by her unbearable voice: "I think it will be fine after many caesarean sections 10 days." How can it be so painful? "

Perhaps, in their concept, the daughter-in-law is a person who wants to "actively integrate" into this family, not an equal and independent individual.

Whenever I need to call my in-laws, my chest seems to be blocked, but it is difficult to call them out, but I only call them "dad" and "mom" awkwardly for my husband, but the number of times is very few.

I can totally imagine, even understand, why those daughters-in-law who have a bad relationship with their in-laws are reluctant to call them "parents". Who wants to create a happy scene with an elder who has always been condescending and treated himself with a "master mentality"?

To put it bluntly, respect between people is mutual.

Do we have to call others' parents when we get married?

Daughter-in-law and son-in-law are children of other people's families. You didn't give them a sip of milk, but you peed once. What more can you ask for?

Sometimes, I am angry with my parents and don't call them "parents". Now, let me call someone else's parents? The point is, I don't want to. I really don't know who you are if it weren't for your children.

I think it's wrong to call each other's parents after marriage. Even, some couples quarrel to say "your parents" for one party. Is this a happy life or something? This address problem has actually become the main contradiction between husband and wife? I don't quite understand this either. It's other parents, so why can't you call them "your parents"? There is no point in arguing about it.

Fortunately, my husband doesn't think it would be unfriendly not to call my parents "Mom and Dad", and he rarely calls my parents "Mom and Dad". Fortunately, our two families don't mind this very much, but don't shout, everyone will get along more happily.

Now that I think about it, I still can't understand the custom of "calling each other parents after marriage" and then I asked people around me and found that everyone felt the same way.

Besides, when four old people were together and called "parents", several people were embarrassed to respond. This confusing address without temperature might as well not be called ... if everyone gets together, I will also call the grandparents of the children.

In-laws are in-laws, in-laws are in-laws. How can they become "parents"

What's more, modern marriage is a combination of a man and a woman, with one person from each of family of origin forming a new family, instead of the woman being "married" by family of origin and abruptly becoming a "man's family".

The man also calls the woman's parents parents, but in fact they don't need to contribute any benefits to their in-laws after marriage. In most cases, letting married couples call each other's parents "parents" is basically to strengthen the woman's obligations.

Let them call their in-laws "parents", and they will be embarrassed if they are unfilial and disobedient. Now it's been 2 1 century, and the time when marrying in-laws has become "the female worker of in-laws" has passed, and there is no law stipulating that daughters-in-law have the obligation to support in-laws.

Women are not supported by men, but also the treasures of their parents in their own family.

In other words, modern marriage has nothing to do with others. This is a matter for two people, not two families. It doesn't make sense to get a marriage certificate with someone else, so you have a pair of parents.

Marriage should not be "two families become one family", but "two families become three families". These three families can rely on each other and help each other, and don't take everything for granted.

Because I was naive before, I thought my in-laws were my parents, but when I saw the truth, I stopped shouting.

Call mom and dad because she really wants to get married and treat you as a parent, but don't call because you really don't treat her as a child.

Don't call me dad, I don't even want to mention my father-in-law