It is very important for a person to learn self-management if he wants to keep sufficient motivation forever. Self-management is the management of one's own goals, thoughts, psychology and behavior. It is a process of self-organization, self-restraint, self-motivation, self-management and finally self-struggle.
There are no rules, Fiona Fang. Every child is a lovely little angel, and the behavior they show is also a child's nature. Children's self-management ability is not innate, and they need to learn, understand and develop in the rules.
Therefore, to cultivate children's self-management ability, we must first establish rules. Parents should make rules step by step, focus on children's own characteristics and growth laws in a planned way, grasp the center and main contradictions, and conduct regular training for children in a targeted manner, such as "time management", so that the rules can really be introduced, absorbed and absorbed until they become a good habit.
Once the rules are formed, we must persevere, constantly grasp, and calmly face the ups and downs and waves of children.
Good boy likes to brag. Every child has a deep-rooted need in his heart, that is, he longs for recognition and praise from others.
The cultivation of children's self-management ability is not achieved overnight. It needs a process, praise and recognition from parents, and constantly enhance the confidence and motivation of children's self-management. Therefore, to cultivate children's self-management ability, we must read the word "boast".
In the process of praising children, parents should comment on specific people and things, repeat their children's experiences, share their bright spots, and encourage them to show their success on their own initiative. Praise is the best power source, which can constantly enhance children's self-confidence in doing things themselves and push them to struggle, forge ahead and forge ahead.
The child's mind is fragile. We should care for children's hearts like dewdrops on lotus leaves. Teenagers and children are in a period of mental development, and their ability to distinguish right from wrong and self-control is relatively weak, and sometimes they even have rebellious psychology.
From the perspective of parents, we often feel that some behaviors of children are inappropriate, and sometimes even have cognitive conflicts with children. Therefore, it is very important to cultivate children's self-management ability, improve their own ability, learn not to interfere too much, and read the word "harmony" well.
In the process of communicating with children, parents should carefully observe some details of their behavior, respect their opinions, communicate more, understand more, negotiate more, be more tolerant, understand their psychological state, know what their children are thinking and doing, negotiate with their children in time, and make some concessions wisely, so that their children can understand what they should do in a democratic atmosphere.
Summary: The art of education lies in awakening, inspiring and encouraging. Only the education that can inspire children to educate themselves is the real education. Parents should remember to abandon the simple and rude education methods, create a harmonious and enterprising family atmosphere, and spend time and energy to accompany their children to learn the new San Zi Jing with heart, affection and love, so as to help them to generate new growth sparks in generate and gain more happiness and security.