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Table manners for eating with leaders
1, take the initiative to propose a toast, don't be too passive, and basically won't leave a good impression;

2. You can't take the initiative to propose a toast at the beginning. If there are multiple leaders present, you must wait until the leaders toast each other before taking the initiative to propose a toast.

3. Many leaders are present. If there are special leaders, respect the biggest leader first. However, if the difference in leadership positions is not particularly big, start from your own position and propose a toast in turn according to the seating position. Otherwise, running around directly according to your position will offend all leaders.

4. After you start toasting, don't propose a toast to many people. You can only respect them one by one. When you reach the leadership position, you can toast many people with one drink.

5. After preparing the toast, your glass must be full. As the saying goes, "wine is full of respect, tea is full of deceit." Since you decide to drink, don't care about this little bit. Fill the glass, but don't spill more than half of it when you walk.

6, in front of the leader, you need to look at each other at any time, don't look around, but don't be too straightforward and sharp, put pressure on each other;

7. When making a toast, you should say a toast first, generous but not flattering, and you can't fall into the stereotype. If you need to attend a banquet, you can take the initiative to do some accumulation at ordinary times. On the wine table, good toasts and toasts can show a person's eloquence and on-the-spot ability, and also give leaders extra points in their hearts;

8. After the toast, if the leader also has something to say, listen to the teacher with an open mind and the leader should give timely feedback. Don't let the leaders directly touch the glass and embarrass them.

9. When toasting, you should hold a cup in both hands. If you have a wine distributor in one hand and a glass in the other, put down the glass first and add wine to the leader with the wine distributor (I don't quite understand it myself here, it seems symbolic. If the leader's glass is not satisfied, add one or two drops, but some people say that if the leader's glass is not empty or not particularly few, don't add wine), then put down the wine distributor and toast with both hands;

10, when toasting, your cup rim should be lower than the leader's cup rim. If the clink position is low, lean slightly to show respect;

1 1, it is natural to say something like "I'll do it, anything you want" when making a toast, but don't say it directly! Directly saying this sentence will make some leaders empty their cups because of losing face. You have to think about it, it won't be abrupt, and it won't put pressure on the leader. Anyway, you will drink much more than the leader. If the leader takes a sip, you should consider whether it is because the leader doesn't want to drink or that he doesn't want to drink with you. If he doesn't want to drink with you, it proves that he has a bad impression on the leaders and must try to make up for it. If you don't want to drink, then pay more attention to this leader in the future. You can drink for the leader under appropriate circumstances, but not one-on-one. If the leader needs to drink, the wine substitute should drink at least two glasses.

12, on the wine table, don't play with your mobile phone. Even if you don't take part in the toast, you should watch others toast. Never play with your mobile phone. Playing mobile phones will give others a feeling of not participating. If you really need to answer messages or phone calls, don't be on the wine table. You can ask to go to the toilet or other excuses, reply to messages or phone calls after leaving the box or wine table, and don't leave for too long or too often. Sometimes someone will pay the bill first under the pretext of going to the toilet, but I'm not sure about this situation, because as a girl, if I take the initiative to pay the bill, it will embarrass other men at the same table, and men can take the initiative to pay the bill. I'm not sure what to do.

13, add wine to others appropriately, but don't just add it when others are short of wine. Some people don't want to drink, so they leave a little in the cup, which means that if they really don't know what to do, they can only care about themselves and add it to both sides of their hands appropriately.

The table manners are full of twists and turns, and the basic situation may be the same, but the specific situation should be implemented. In addition, men and women have different requirements on the wine table. Many times, men will be very masculine when they do it, and women will embarrass others. If you really don't know how to do it, you can look at what others are doing first and optimize the practice through the feedback from the leaders. You may be shy the first time, but you will be comfortable the second time.