I think it's bullshit! Say it's for your own good, but in the final analysis, take care of your own feelings and don't look at the problem from the other side's point of view.
First, parents interfere with their children.
Embarrassed mother is very concerned about everything about her son, whether he eats well or not, and she still has to eat when she is so old; Caring about when his son will have grandchildren has always put pressure on his son and his wife.
No matter what the son said, the mother thought it was right. Because no matter what the son says, the mother thinks that it is good for the son to follow his own ideas. What she does is for your own good!
As a result, my son always stood between his mother and his wife, and finally his son divorced.
Second, the interference between husband and wife
Or the story in "Mother's Embarrassment".
The man has been trying to change the woman, forgetting that the woman is an independent person. The hostess often makes sense with men, but forgets that being reasonable in love is the biggest irrationality.
As a result, their relationship came to an end and finally divorced.
They once loved each other deeply, but under the slogan of "I am good for you", they kept asking each other to change for themselves. Finally, they are exhausted and have no strength to love each other anymore.
In love, we tend to love each other and hope each other to do this and that, as if that is not good. But have we ever thought that the other person is like this? We knew she was like this when we fell in love with her. Why did everything look good then, and now everything looks bad?
Samuel once said: "The success of marriage depends on two people, and one person can make it fail." A good marriage needs to be managed and maintained by both husband and wife. The premise of marriage management and maintenance is that both husband and wife have a clear understanding of each other before marriage and know the way and direction of married life.
The best rule of marriage management: keep your eyes open before marriage, close your eyes after marriage, see shortcomings before marriage, and see advantages after marriage.
It's a pity that most of us are backwards. We often look at the advantages before marriage and the disadvantages after marriage.
Therefore, no matter parents, children, lovers or any relationship, don't ask the other party to change under the banner of "I am good to you", and don't have double standards. Don't be harsh on others, be lenient with yourself, but be strict with others.