Respect for the wife is the basic position of men.

Although it is 2 1 century, equality between men and women has always been a slogan that many people talk about. However, in the hearts of many elderly people, the concept that men are superior to women still exists. Mother-in-law wants her daughter-in-law to be virtuous, take good care of her son at home and try not to go out.

But what is a wife? It is the person who takes care of you every day, the person who you promise to stay with her no matter life or death, and the person who will accompany you through your life. Your relationship is equal, not inferior. It is your basic position to respect her. Only by standing right can the husband and wife be harmonious and the relationship between husband and wife be long-lasting.

But some men are male chauvinists, who like to boss their wives around outside to show their face, for fear that others will say they are afraid of their wives. But in fact, a man's face is earned hard, not in front of his wife.

If a man doesn't know how to respect his wife at home, his mother and family won't respect her either, and they will only step on her after him. A man should choose his position in the family, starting with respecting his wife.

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Wife marries not for work, but for pain.

"You can't even cook and wash clothes. What's the use of my son marrying you? " Hearing this sentence, is there a sense of familiarity? The mother-in-law always takes it for granted that her daughter-in-law takes care of her son.

Many mothers-in-law think that their son marries his wife just to get her back to help him. Sorry, if you think like your mother, you'd better not marry a wife, just find an old lady. The wife is married for pain and love! Instead of helping you do this and that!

If a man can take care of his wife in a family, the family atmosphere will be particularly good. The husband doesn't want his wife to do some heavy work, but she has a feeling of being loved and wants to take care of him more.

My husband must be firm in his heart: to marry a wife is to love her and love her. Instead of taking your mother's side, you will only blame your wife and blame her for not taking care of her family.

If every man has this kind of consciousness, there will be fewer disgruntled wives and fewer family conflicts.

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Honor your parents, but also have your own position.

Marriage is not only about two people, but also about two families. Husband's attitude towards parents and wife will largely determine the harmony of marriage.

Filial piety is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. There is nothing wrong with a man being filial to his parents, but filial piety does not mean ignorance. They should listen to everything, and they should have their own position in filial piety. Old people are sometimes confused and men can't keep up.

Husband's position is very important. If he really wants to solve the problem, there is nothing he can't solve. When there is a conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, smart men will not blindly favor their parents and blame their wives, but should stand on both sides, analyze rationally, communicate well and solve problems.

Many times the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law exists because of her husband's inaction. Habitual hiding behind to avoid problems will only aggravate the problems between families. Filial piety and unfilial are the positions that husbands should grasp. Only in this way can family relations be harmonious.

The husband is the pillar of a family, which not only means that he should shoulder the responsibility of the family, but also have his own position, coordinate family relations and create a harmonious family environment.