Since I was about 20 years old, my enthusiasm for birthdays has gradually declined. I remember this point was also written last year. My only wish at that time was to slow down and then slow down. One year has passed, brand-new topics and challenges emerge one after another, and the coordinates of life are changing every day. Now there seems to be no reason to think that time has been lenient with me.

24 years old is coming, of course, I think I am still young, but I also realize that being young does not mean that we can be blessed. Nowadays, many people regard youth as a slogan and a shot in the arm-youth is freedom and a dream, and invincible youth must be equal to day-to-day struggle.

A popular word on the Internet this year is "Lie flat". People have set up their own camps around "youth" and launched fierce debates. There are a lot of dissatisfaction and helplessness, and many critical voices can be heard. I can proudly think that I am not lying flat, but at the same time I realize sadly that the word "young" contains all kinds of beautiful meanings.

It is gradually leaving me, being divided and consumed like the time I have. In fact, being young also has the advantages of being young, such as being able to toss and turn. Once I played with my friends all night and stayed at KTV until five in the morning. The subway didn't open. I walked 20 kilometers home by bike and slept until noon, still full of energy.

Of course, this is tinkering. My father often tells me, "I hope you can experience more different life, whether it's work or love." Being young means there is still room for trial and error. " I remembered the photos of my father in his twenties. At that time, he had long hair and was handsome.

Much like Hong Kong Star in the 1990s. Although there are no various options and opportunities comparable to the present, my father is young and tossing. Where is a big anxiety of young people now? Above your head. Nowadays, the overwhelming advertisements for hair transplant frankly express people's fear that hairline is becoming more and more blurred.

What shall we do? While we are young, we'd better have a good time with our hair before it leaves us. A friend left a deep impression on me. He always wears fancy colors and shapes, and the months are different. Every time we meet, he can surprise my chin. But the other side of youth is recklessness.

Ignorance and self-righteousness have impacted our illusions about life again and again. How to prepare a qualified photographic portfolio? I would never have studied this problem before, and it is only natural that I lost miserably. I recently received an invitation to a friend's wedding banquet-this is the first time in my life.

But then I thought, should I pay with this money? how much is it? How to speak appropriately? It's too difficult. These are all difficult problems. I didn't even have time to be happy when I received the invitation, because that's when I realized that the complicated rules of the adult world had begun to permeate all aspects of my life.

Childishness and naivety are not allowed on many occasions. We are facing unprecedented depression and confusion, and this situation will only intensify in a long time to come. The other day in the company, one thing made me quite angry: I had a disagreement with an elderly master in some ways of working.

I insisted on explaining my method (even if the leader later told me that this method was correct), but I was scolded. Why? You can't have too much say just because you are too young. Your education, contacts, social experience, and even the poor figures in your bank card.

Not enough to support your team, Fang Qiu. How different can people of different ages weigh the same sentence? A 20-year-old person who says that he has a house and a car will probably be questioned, but a 30-year-old person can be regarded as an example. In many cases today.

Old age symbolizes a status and an invisible hegemony. We generally think that a person needs to reach a certain age to have a matching image, which is actually a social stereotype based on age, a stereotype that you can't change but can only get rid of gradually through hard work and long years.

So, at the age of 24, I think you are not young, but you are not mature enough; You have the grandest dreams, but you don't have the strength to rise to the top. At this age, we really can't ask too much, even if we have nothing. Hunger and 24-hour care belong to children.

Not only does it dare not put it at this moment, but it should not. And the true face of life and the word "young" will be taken away from us generously or arrogantly, and one day it will be obvious.