Most of the AA systems around me are divorced and broke up. AA marriage is a kind of marriage born under the slogan of economic independence advocated by young people in recent years. Husband and wife maintain a very clear economic relationship in their lives. Household expenditure is based on the economic basis of individual independent accounting and mutual investment. Policies are usually more common in big cities. Marital property has always been the common sense of China people. The sudden appearance of AA marriage broke this pattern. "Economic independence" has become a novel way of marriage. In fact, in AA marriage, we always follow the marriage we want at the beginning. Freedom and economic independence, but in the long-term life, gradually deviated from the original intention, and finally evolved into a failure between two partners.

The AA marriage test for couples is their emotional intimacy. They were born in two different families. After marriage, they performed well and their life scenes were often bleak. In a normal couple, a man can go home for a steaming meal after work, and his clothes have been washed and ironed and put in the closet. They will talk to each other and have a good sleep at night.

On holidays, women can receive gifts carefully prepared by men. Whether the price is expensive or not, the surprise is in it. They will get together for a big meal and then go home happily.

Under the condition of AA marriage, a man came home from work, and the clothes in the closet needed to be handled by himself, which had been piled up for three days. I can only ask the woman: can you help me wash it? As compensation, I will help you make a plan.

On his birthday, a man bought a present for a woman. It is very expensive, and it is a beautiful pendant. But how much is a woman's first reaction when she receives money? The next man's birthday is likely to give him a gift at this price. Is this life like two friends living together? It's just a marriage certificate.

The warmth and surprise in the family are quantified by money. Every penny should be made clear, and the most closely related topic between the two becomes money. If one day I face a choice, I will never choose AA marriage. I want to live with my relatives and share their fate and happiness. We can't be rich, but our money is the same as our heart. The only thing we have to do is to advance and retreat together and laugh together, instead of making money by counting RMB.