The concept of "Dink" has always been controversial. Yang li Ping, who has reached the age, has become the focus of public attention. In addition to the frozen face and good figure, it is more often because "she has never given birth to a child." A comment about her "failure in life" has more than 10000 "likes".
The commentary bluntly said: "A woman who has no children for a lifetime is a lifetime failure. You can't enjoy the happiness of your children and grandchildren when you are old. Even if you are beautiful and excellent, you can't escape the ravages of time. "
"Women should not be fertility machines", and these actresses "voiced" strongly.
"Yang li Ping suffocates because she has no children" continues to ferment on the Internet. In addition to many netizens supporting Yang li Ping, many actresses participated in this topic to show their positions.
Stephy, a female artist, directly replied, "The biggest failure of a person is that she still defines' woman' for us today. Take children and grandchildren as a woman's only reproductive tool? ! Haha, we were not long ago! "
Yang li Ping is not the only one who has been repeatedly discussed because of his personal choice of marriage and childbearing. "Little Dragon Girl" Carman Lee bluntly said, "Why do you have to get married? Maybe I didn't meet the right person at the right time. It is better not to get married than to find the wrong job! " She also said that she was deeply disturbed by this: "Comments and private letters receive such questions every day. Why don't you get married? "
Chen Shu, a well-known actress, also expressed her opposition to this incident. She took screenshots of the stills. "Is the value of a woman used to have children?" And firmly declare two words-"no".
Vivian, the heroine of Qiong Yao's opera and the actress of Taiwan Province Province in China, wrote: "As a woman, you should try to love yourself. Don't try to rely on others and let them love you. Only by constantly enriching ourselves can we achieve the greatest value. Your own value doesn't need anyone to define it! "
Choosing "Dink" is personal freedom, but don't give up "Ding Bai" halfway.
Until now, there are still some women in China who have no right to choose whether to have children.
In fact, both children and grandchildren are happy, successful in their careers, and carefree are also happy. Most people can tolerate people with different ideas, which is one of the signs of a social civilization.
However, it should be recognized that although "Dink", including Yang li Ping, emerges in an endless stream, there are also many couples who choose "Dink" at first, and then "give up halfway" in a year without doubt. In recent years, many hospitals have reported that the proportion of elderly women over 35 has increased significantly, including many women who gave up Dink.
Once you become an elderly primipara, it means that the risk of childbirth has increased dramatically.
First of all, the probability of fetal problems is more than that of young pregnant women. Older women are prone to fetal malformations during pregnancy. For example, as we all know, the birth rate of children with congenital stupidity will increase rapidly with the age of pregnant women. At the age of 20, it was11477; At the age of 30, it was1/939; At the age of 35, it rose to1/353; It can reach1/85 at the age of 40; At 44, the risk is as high as 1/39. In order to prevent fetal malformation, elderly women may need to go to the hospital for amniocentesis.
Second, the risk of spontaneous abortion is high. With the increase of age, the incidence of spontaneous abortion will increase. When you are pregnant at the age of 45, the chance of spontaneous abortion is about half.
Third, pregnancy complications may increase. Older pregnant women are more prone to pregnancy complications during the whole pregnancy, and at the same time, they are also prone to complex high-risk situations.
Generally speaking, "super-old" pregnant women are difficult to get pregnant, and the risk of miscarriage is high, and the risk of pregnant mothers is high.
I hope that after reading these, women can make more responsible and wise decisions about their lives while shouting the slogan of "women are free from marriage and infertility". Don't follow the trend when choosing Dink, be firm and fearless after making all preparations.