35 years old is the late stage of youth, and it is the harvest season after 35 years old. If you are not qualified to say this, you will hate yourself. So before the age of 35, in the prime of youth, you'd better do the following ten things:

First, learn all the knowledge needed by the industry and develop it. By the time he was 35, Brudin, the late king of parts, had become a leader in the parts industry and established the Gulf and West Industrial Company, with an annual income of10 million dollars. When you are young, you may stay up late and study hard. It's okay to be 20 or even 30, but at 35, you should stop worrying about learning basic skills. Before the age of 35, a person is engaged in the primitive accumulation stage, and after the age of 35, it should be a vigorous development stage.

Second, develop personal style. Before the age of 35, find out what you like, whether it is clothes or hobbies, even if it is a unique little habit. When you are in your twenties and thirties, you can keep trying and changing, but by the age of 35, you must establish your personal style. A man or a woman who changes her image in the middle of her career will make people feel very unreliable. Do you like to wear a suit? All right! Take the suit as your trademark! Will putting some flowers on your desk make you more efficient? Then put some flowers every day!

Third, the emotional life is peaceful and stable. When climbing the peak of your career, if your private life is unsatisfactory and you fall into an emotional crisis, it will cause great interference to you and even gradually make you lose interest in other things. People who have a quiet and stable private life before the age of 35 are generally more likely to succeed than those who have a turbulent life. So, if you want to end a fruitless relationship, or want to marry your girlfriend, act quickly, so as not to drag the problem to the 35th spring and autumn of your life. After the age of 35, you should concentrate on watching your investment in your career begin to pay off.

Fourth, know your own shortcomings. Admit that there are some things you really can't do well or don't want to do. If you hate numbers and like to create, don't force yourself to do digital work because of high salary or obeying other people's expectations. Before the age of 35, you must devote yourself to the kind of work you love and are good at. Otherwise, after the age of 35, there will inevitably be a gloomy day. Moreover, real success may be lost because of the decline of vitality.

Fifth, know your own strengths. You should know what you are good at and what you like to do, and do it better than others. No matter what role you are playing at present, it is important to know your own advantages in order to succeed.

Sixth, reserve the money to make a living by resigning. In this rapidly changing professional world, you may not always work in one place, or always give full play to yourself in one position. When you feel unable to exert yourself, you are likely to think of quitting your job or starting a second career. If you save enough money in advance, you will have a safe backing.

Seventh, establish a network of interpersonal relationships. If you haven't established a strong interpersonal network by the age of 35, you are in trouble. This network includes your friends and relatives, at least everyone who can help each other. Some of these people are your colleagues, some have benefited from you, some have listened to their questions, and some have the same hobbies as you. Interpersonal network can not be established overnight, it needs several years or even more than ten years of training. A person's success in career and life is actually like the success of a political party. You should have a lot of people scattered in the right places. You can depend on them, and they can depend on you.

Eighth, learn to empower others. Many people are unwilling or unable to do so, so they are always nailed to the position of subordinates. Empowering others is half the battle A person who can't delegate his work to others in every detail is bound to encounter great obstacles. By the age of 35, you'd better have become an expert in this field. In other words, you know how to choose the right people and trust them.

Ninth, learn when to shut up. More people ruin their future because of unintentional words, rather than losing success for any other reason. Learn to remain silent and appear witty. People will naturally think that you know more than you actually know. Don't gossip about others, don't talk about your own plans, and the reputation won by keeping your mouth shut is far more precious than what gossip brings. The more successful you are in your career, the more important this is.

Tenth, be loyal to others. If you can't build a rock-solid reputation of loyalty by the age of 35, this shortcoming will haunt you for life. The notoriety of disloyalty is bound to make you unpopular everywhere in your career. Stab in the back can't climb to the top of your career, relying on the reputation of sincerity, honest and frank and unshakable established in the early days. Before the age of 35, loyalty is only an investment; After the age of 35, you will be rewarded with loyalty as a trustworthy person.