To my dear classmates:
Don't like the lovely Wang Bin, you can like Zhou Xiao's eccentric elves, but please don't like Zhou Xiao, eccentric elves. You can like a girl who is as light as a chrysanthemum and passionate, but please don't like a girl who is as light as a chrysanthemum and passionate. You can like all the excellent qualities. In these likes, you can constantly revise and improve your own criteria for finding a wife, but please don't let other people's youth pay for your irrationality. Please cherish the girl who sent you a friend card, because she knows how to respect feelings, herself and you.
It is irrational because love is like a small tree. Its growth needs sunshine, rain and dew, fertile soil and careful care, which you can't afford as a high school student. Because his economic base is not money, but time and energy. If you are a responsible person, I don't need to tell you where you should put your time and energy in high school for three years. Even if you are fully confident of being admitted to your favorite university, can you guarantee that it will not affect your partner's life trajectory? Are you sure you gave her the life she wanted? My understanding of love is that love must promote each other's growth and make them better than expected. If because of your "love", two people can't go all out to do the right thing at the right time and unfortunately miss the height of life, it is blasphemy against love. Please take back this false love.
14 years of teaching career and 10 years of experience as a head teacher have made me see too many regrets. Occasionally falling in love is like a tonic, which will improve two people's grades in a short time, but it is also inevitable that it will be a flash in the pan, because it is difficult to get good grades in school because of emotional instability and immature mind. The most terrible thing is that the emotional will to declare war on the world in those years is basically the reason. Therefore, I basically ignore the so-called "puppy love" students in my class and don't give you the opportunity to create enthusiasm, but I will tell all the teachers that this person, don't worry, because of a little contradiction between them, all our efforts are likely to be zero. There are too many students worthy of attention. Don't waste energy on them. Don't blame the teacher for being cruel. If you choose the sweetness of love, you must bear all the consequences.
A student once told me jokingly that the teacher, the house and the bus ticket were all ready for me, and now I need a daughter-in-law. I told him that what you lack is not a daughter-in-law, but a brain. A truly qualified girl won't go with you because of your parents' generosity, because eating others' mouths is short and holding others' hands is short, which is not the result of two people's struggle, and it is not good to be a kannika nimtragol; If that's what she wants, there's no need to be with you. She can go to your parents directly, let her enjoy success and struggle less for ten or twenty years. In the face of love, species is not a problem, let alone age. Everything is more terrible than nothing. Your parents gave you a higher platform, which actually increased the difficulty of your struggle. You need to make more efforts and make more achievements in order to make things have their own labels. This is much more difficult than starting from scratch. You should have a more sense of crisis than the average person. How dare you make fun of your parents' achievements here? Why don't you shut up and redouble your efforts?
Love, for high school students, is like an expensive luxury, you can't afford it, and you can't afford it. Not because of the "evil" college entrance examination, nor because there are too many people in China and the competition is too fierce. In fact, everyone should thank the college entrance examination and give you a chance to grow and prove yourself. Growing up, many important things were not decided by you, but from the college entrance examination, your life really began to be decided by you. What is a university? In my understanding, the university is to give you a safe place, let you grow up slowly again, and let you know what you really want after four years. What kind of person do you want to be and what kind of road do you want to take? This is really a place to talk about life and ideals, so do you think this place is important? Different universities will take you on different life paths. What you can see is the difficulty of finding a job, but what you can't see is the influence of culture, the guidance of values and the establishment of life trajectory. I really see that many students' lives are completely different from the beginning of college. A brother stumped by the same question in the classroom can make a big difference in the world in a few years. Are you satisfied? Think about your junior high school and primary school classmates. There must be people you find hard to catch up with, and there must be people you can't catch up with no matter how hard you try. Universities will turn this gap into a qualitative difference in life. So, no matter how hard you try. So, are you still willing to reveal your time and energy?
It is the dream of many men to wake up and lie on a beautiful woman's knee, but I want to ask, when her hair grows to the waist, do you have the ability to wake up and lie on a beautiful woman's knee? If you are not ready and have insufficient strength, please stay away from love and keep a bachelor's integrity. Only those who can stand loneliness can be human, thank you!