Sapiose sex with IQ as its love orientation will be attracted by other people's high IQ and even arouse sexual desire. This is a preference for choosing a spouse, which means paying more attention to the IQ and mind of the other person for the conditions of figure, face value and economy. Intellectual lovers will be attracted by each other's knowledge, and then have a good impression and sexual desire. As a professional concept of psychology, intellectual love is closer to an aesthetic preference for "smart people" and its related characteristics in the context of online pop culture. In the hearts of young men and women who advocate "intellectual love", the most attractive love representatives are Sherlock's Sherlock Holmes "Fu Juan" and the chess queen Harmon in Abandoning Soldiers. These young people tend to pay more attention to the IQ level, cultural literacy and ideological depth of their contacts, and their appearance, personality and economic conditions are secondary. But that doesn't mean that so many people really put their lover's IQ first.
Second, why is it popular?
There may be five reasons:
1. Nowadays, people get married later and later. When they were young, they paid more attention to external factors such as face value. With the growth of age and experience, people pay more attention to internal factors such as thoughts.
2. Nowadays, people generally have high academic qualifications and higher spiritual pursuits, so the status of "sexy thoughts" in culture has risen, even higher than that of "face value" in biology.
3. Intellectual lovers consider each other's comprehensive quality more than appearance and money, and care more about the moment of mutual spiritual communication. This way of pursuing inner thoughts is increasingly recognized and pursued in modern society.
With the advent of the Internet age, the speed of information dissemination is accelerating, and people's concepts and values are constantly changing and updating. As a new concept of love and mate selection standard, intellectual love is more easily accepted and spread by the public.
5. The presentation and beautification of intellectual love in film and television works will make more people understand and agree with intellectual love, thus making intellectual love more widely spread and popularized among the public.
The popularity of intellectual love not only reflects the change of people's concept and the improvement of value pursuit, but also is closely related to the development of the times, the change of information dissemination mode and the influence of film and television culture.