In the past two days, the victory of women's volleyball girls has screened all online platforms, and everyone is cheering and moving. The "women's volleyball spirit" swept the country again, and the slogan of learning from women's volleyball girls was once again mentioned.

This reminds me of Dānlín's failure a few days ago, although it is as sad as the death of a hero. But no one blames him. On the contrary, everyone said, "You will always be our' Super Dan'".

This person is really "good" and finally no longer judges success or failure simply by gold medals.

But I don't think this is the most important reason why people praise athletes.

When explaining the "women's volleyball spirit", Lang Ping mentioned: "The" women's volleyball spirit "means hard work, unyielding and teamwork." But it is not impossible to lose.

I think this is the most important reason why people tolerate Dānlín's failure and are moved by it: we admit the objective facts and our own incompetence, but we will always work hard. Such a spirit is more valuable than a simple victory. This spirit is the most touching.

In this Olympic Games, Dānlín, as well as those athletes who may not even reach the final because of referee problems or mistakes, probably the biggest gain from coming to Rio is their participation.

But no rational person will blame them, because they have done their best and their participation is victory. This is also the real meaning of the word "focus on participation": after hard work, you don't have to care about the result.

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But this is actually very difficult to do. We always care too much about the result, always get depressed because of the bad result, and even give up our efforts.

Although everyone knows that it takes hard work to get rich, because it is too difficult to do it, in the end, many people are used to using "focusing on participation" to comfort their failure and explain their incompetence.

As a result, a group of people who are quiet and good at life have developed: don't fight for it, live peacefully, enjoy life and despise the result. Once things go wrong, you can complain that you want to live a simple life.

That would be great. You seem indifferent to fame and fortune. In fact, you don't want to work hard because you are incapable.

What they want most is probably that someone delivers food to their door every day.

In that case, you don't have to worry about the busy life every day. You just need to look at the sky at 45 degrees in time, copy some philosophical words from it, and send them to your circle of friends with some beautiful still lives of Xiu Xiu, which will attract a group of people's praise, and life will be quite beautiful.

I will never work hard for anything because I am afraid of failure. At most, they send a few photos of participating in activities or studying hard, and we will enjoy life with the focus on participation. Well done!

The goal of "quiet year" has been achieved!

But if you ask me, this is pure self-deception.

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I remember a classmate in my junior high school who was actually quite clever, but he just didn't have to go to school and didn't prepare for the exam. He told me, "I want to improvise."

I was speechless: "Can I only faint on the spot?"

After graduating from junior high school, I studied hard all the way. He went to the auto parts technical secondary school and practiced while learning. But because I was too tired and had too little money, I resigned soon.

After that, I drifted all the way and did odd jobs everywhere. Sometimes I heard that I helped at the construction site, sometimes I watched the door at the factory, and once I came home and met him selling tickets at the Hong Xiao. ...

He smiled and said, "Just feel life and pay attention to participation."

I don't know whether he is sincere or comforting himself. It's just that the boss is not young, he can't support himself, he won't work hard, and he lives on his laurels with his wife. This practice of "feeling life and focusing on participation" will only pity his parents.

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When I first graduated, I was very confused. I wanted to do everything, but I didn't feel that there was anything to do. Later, I decided: anyway, let's take the translation certificate first!

It was only two months before the exam, and I was preparing with a girl. Later, she passed smoothly, and I took two exams, a 57 and a 59. People close to me comforted me and said, "Just a little, next time will be fine." "Participation is very important. It is good to be able to participate."

Only I know: I didn't prepare seriously at all. I just went for a walk in the examination room, that's all. If you don't participate seriously, it's not participation, it's fun.

Later, I started writing again. In half a year, I wrote 300,000 words. Although the articles I put out for investment are all articles that I think I have a high level after several revisions, they are always rejected and rarely passed.

But I think I am happy, satisfied and working hard. This time I am "focusing on participation".

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When people are alive, they always have to do something, and some desires, whether material or spiritual, are endless.

There are indeed many people who forget to enjoy the process of hard work in order to achieve their goals, and blindly discuss success or failure with results, ignoring life itself. This is an extreme.

But more people go to the other extreme: over-enjoying the process, but not paying attention to the result at all.

They said: "this is called' focusing on participation', and' a life that does not take results as a single evaluation criterion is a real life. "

There is nothing wrong with this, but the problem is that their understanding of "participation" is not real participation, and their understanding of "process" is not real process. All they want is a mixed "process" titled "participation".

The root of it is to muddle along without trying.

Just like women volleyball girls and Dānlín, their winning or losing is called "participation", and people are encouraged and moved by it. However, if they walk on the field with a hanging rope and come back with a big loss, claiming that "participation is the most important thing", it is not called "participation" and will not win people's recognition and support.