1, do the opposite

The so-called thick black is that you can't let others see your thoughts. What you can see is routine, but what you can't see is kung fu, so you must have reverse thinking. Everyone is drunk and I wake up alone, and the world is white and I am black.

2, be sure to stick a layer of appearance called "benevolence and righteousness" can not be naked, must have a tall name. Cao Cao used it to hold the emperor as a vassal, and Liu Bei used it to crusade against the rebels and help the Han Dynasty. Before you do something, you must have a slogan and a mission. In modern language, you must be literate and valuable. Only in this way can we win people's hearts and make the cause to be done put on the coat of justice.

3, there can be no woman's benevolence.

If Yu Can made a decision at the hongmen banquet, there would be no liu bang behind.

Some people will kill you in the back if you don't merge when you have the advantage.

4. Patience in the light, cruelty in the dark.

Great people are all smiling tigers, smiling on the surface, giving people a particularly good temper. In fact, they have already figured out how to fuck you in their hearts.

5. Understand human nature and satisfy people's desires.

Human behavior is driven by three kinds of dependence: material dependence, spiritual dependence and self-dependence. People who are proficient in human nature are good at using these three dependencies, and the other party actively works for them.