This elegant heroine often leaves work late at night. She drove into the garage at home, but she was in no hurry to step into the house. Instead, I lolled in the car seat, gave myself some time alone, and then got off and went home.
The heroine is the president of an art consortium, mediating various affairs of the company during the day and taking care of her husband and children when she goes home at night.
On the surface, the heroine is a successful young lady with infinite scenery, but who can understand the pain in her heart? Only she knows that all the glory she enjoys depends on her death.
Song Dandan has a sketch line: "It is difficult to be a woman, and it is even more difficult to be a' celebrity'." And Liu Xiaoqing once had such a statement.
The so-called "celebrities", in addition to the female stars in the eyes of the public, are usually strong women, goddesses, queens and "whites" in the eyes of ordinary people.
They are highly respected by people, and people often define them as cold, powerful, inaccessible and advocating false reputation. You know, after all, they are women, but also have a fragile side, and they need the care, love and respect of others, instead of being entertained like vases.
For women, a little vanity and arrogance in nature can easily lead to princess feelings and queen complex. Willfulness and domineering for no reason are actually very pleasing. However, for a long time, most women still feel feminine. No wonder some people say that spoiled women have the best life.
Unfortunately, the diversification of life has put more and more pressure on contemporary women, who have to be independent and become an efficient "female man".
I believe that as a woman, you can feel the same way. Even if you want to be "independent", you will be slapped by slogans such as "Women are not cruel and unstable", "Women are not strong and God forbid" and "Women should play a cruel role", and eventually you will go into battle.
It is really a good thing for women to become strong, so that they will have more choices and autonomy, and they don't have to be subordinate to secular men. Sadly, some women mistakenly think that strength is strength and ferocity, so they try their best to dress up as aggressive and arrogant. Even if their hearts are fragile and empty, they should try their best to persevere bravely.
Writer Wang Xun said: "A woman who is too strong will filter out gentleness, and a woman who is too independent will lack tolerance. In fact, this is also a double-edged sword, which will hurt yourself again and again. Why must honesty be hidden in sharpness? Why must goodness be hidden under utility? Why do you have to turn softness into thorns on your body? Why do you have to bury sadness in eyes that you can't see without staring for a long time? There is nothing wrong with a woman's strength, but if the helplessness of life and the weakness of men force you to do this, it will become a regret to be a woman. "
Many times, women are really trying to make themselves strong. They think they will feel more secure, be recognized by more people, and be treated gently by the world. However, what's the point if a woman pretends to be strong and doesn't even dare to show her true self, even if she can get the look of the stars holding the moon?
There is a "Golden Star Show", and the guest is Amanda, the all-round hot mom who won the Golden Horse Award. She is a big woman with a strong appearance, so the host Venus specially praised her. However, she said something that touched Venus and all the audience: "I especially don't like to use such an adjective to describe women. In fact, it is very cruel to women. If it can be weak, who needs strength? "
Yes, if a woman can be weak, why use strength? In fact, no woman is born strong, let alone strong. They wear "strong" coats and tell others that "I am doing well", just trying to hide their helplessness and loneliness. There are dangers in the world, fickle years and twists and turns in life. She is not strong. How does she live? If you can be as soft and weak as dandelion, you can still wander between heaven and earth. Who wants to be attached like a thorn ball?
Toughness is an additional attribute given to women in this era, and combining rigidity with softness is a necessary skill for women. I sincerely hope that all women can release their gentle nature, laugh more like flowers and less hysterical; More quiet and elegant, less overbearing; More confidence and calmness, less bitterness. The most important thing is that they don't want to please anyone, and they don't have to please anyone, but return to their original appearance and be their true self.