There is nothing absolutely fair in the world, and it is inevitable that one side will feel inferior and the other side will take advantage. In the face of similar things, do you choose to lose or take advantage?
The ancients said, "Learn from mistakes". According to this sentence, it is a blessing to suffer. If you lose money on something, you will wonder where you are wrong, so that you can exercise yourself and make progress in the process.
There is an ordinary rural woman, with a low education level, who sets up a stall on the street and earns only a dime for selling a film. She turned a deaf ear to people who said she was stubborn. Later, her business grew bigger and bigger, and she opened a photographic equipment store. She still earns only a dime from a movie. Once, a foreign customer lost her wallet, and she spent a lot of long-distance telephone charges to find the owner. Sometimes, she overcharged others and was anxious to find someone to pay back the money. In doing so, she seems to have suffered, but in fact she has won the trust of others. People love to shop in her shop. Although a dime is small, many a mickle makes a mickle. In this way, she made a lot of money. Isn't suffering a blessing?
There is also an owner of a gravel yard, who has no education and no prominent background, but his business is surprisingly good and has been booming for many years. Everyone who has worked with him once is willing to cooperate with him again, because when distributing profits with each collaborator, he insists on taking it. Spend less and give more to each other. But this little money has won him a lot of customers. Isn't it a loss and a blessing?
These two things sound like a fable. Is it possible that two ordinary people defeated many powerful opponents? Maybe! Because these things often happen to us. These things fully illustrate a truth!
Losing money is a blessing. What I want to do is what others don't want to do-lose money.
This is the fourth grade last semester. I remember the teacher asked me to find some classmates to run a blackboard newspaper and check the information. I carefully collected typesetting and worked until the evening 1 1. I was busy getting up in the morning to review, and then I went to school at a relaxed pace-but things were often not so satisfactory, and they didn't check all the information! I didn't criticize them. I just asked them to pay attention next time and told them to settle down and run the blackboard newspaper now. Hey, who wants me to suffer willingly?
We worked together in Qi Xin, and you drew a picture for me, but at this moment, the bell after school sounded like an alarm, causing waves in our hearts. Some people may think: after school, I have to hurry. Some people will think: after school, who is still so stupid, and still stay here to run a blackboard newspaper! With the other voice: "Jiang Yuxin, I have to go first. I'm going to a training class tonight! " ""Jiang Yuxin, I'm afraid my parents will be anxious to wait outside, so I'll go first. " "Jiang Yuxin, I'm sorry, I also have something to do. "My high heart fell to the bottom-I was the only one left in the classroom. At this time, I feel an unprecedented sense of loneliness, but I am not worried. Who made me suffer?
I pulled myself together and started fighting alone. ...
Finally, I finished this blackboard newspaper. Appreciating my work, I feel indescribable excitement and endless joy, but there is also a little regret that I lost precious time in doing my homework. Hey, who told me to suffer?
At home, my grandmother always said that I was a bit "cheap". I do nothing when others are lazy, just like my grandfather and father.
But I don't think so. I love to suffer losses and serve my classmates. I don't need to be lazy in service.
I do ...
Failure is a kind of happiness. As soon as I entered the door, the smell of potato chips came to my nose. In class, the teacher cheerfully served two plates of potato chips, one is the famous Pan Pan potato chips, and the other is the humble Jiajia potato chips. There is no difference in appearance between these two plates of potato chips, which are similar to ordinary potato chips, but the price and taste are quite different. Pan Pan chips on the right will make me greedy. At this time, the teacher smiled and said to us, "Everybody come up and get a potato chip and a piece of paper." I walked on the stage in high spirits and walked to Pan Pan potato chips. I was about to reach out, but I hesitated. I thought there must be a conspiracy, although people used to say that "cheap goods are not good, and good goods are not cheap." However, this time, this sentence is invalid. So many people get good grades, isn't it a great loss for teachers? Besides, am I the kind of person who covets petty advantages? So, I took the cheap plate without thinking. After I took the note back, I kept my eyes closed and dared not read the words on it. But I opened the note and said, "Congratulations, because of your apology, you got a delicious bag of hawthorn." So I got a bag of sweet and delicious hawthorn slices. At this time, I stood on the stage, chewing hawthorn slices in my mouth, and looked at the students who were talking. How happy I am! Those greedy kittens reached for Pan Pan potato chips, so they just stood there and watched.
Indeed, it is a blessing to lose money, and petty gains are not so easy to get, so we should always be a person who does not covet petty gains.
Failure is a kind of happiness. Writing that losing 4 is a blessing is not a slogan, it is not empty talk, it has practical significance. Everything has its advantages and disadvantages. If you lose something, you must get something from other channels. What you lose is what you gain.
At work, others think it's a loss, so you take the initiative to do it. On the surface, you are a fool. In fact, if you have the opportunity to exercise yourself, you will make rapid progress. Wei Shusheng, a special-grade teacher, was rated as a special-grade teacher after working for less than ten years. Some people are jealous and hate, complaining every day and finding fault. Teacher Wei said that these people's energy is spent on finding faults with others, which delays their opportunities for progress.
Everyone has different ideas. Some people try to work less, gossip less and mind their own business. In the long run, idle people are useless.
I am a teacher, and I have worked in the mountainous area for a long time. The harder the place is, the more it can reflect the value of a person's survival. The more you can exercise people. The conditions of schools in mountainous areas are difficult, and some people entrust relatives and friends to pull relationships and transfer to schools with good conditions through the back door. My family lives in the city 20 miles away from my school. I go to work by bike 40 miles every day. Cover with soil in sunny days and mud in rainy days. Walk out of the Long March once a year. Wind and rain can't stop the progress.
I suffer from severe hypertension and heart disease and need long-term treatment. Tired from work for half a day every day, I bite my teeth and endure the pain. Stick to exercise and fight against diseases. Others say that going to work is far from a disadvantage. I said that I am not giving myself a chance to exercise. Failure is a kind of happiness.
Failure is a kind of happiness. 5. Inadvertently pass by here, familiar stone steps. Like an old man, it awakened my dusty memory.
I couldn't help walking up the stone steps, and the road slowly appeared in my field of vision. What an intimate road! I remember passing by here every day when I was a child and running around playing games with my friends. I still remember that summer night. After dinner, people sit in the chairs in front of the shop, shaking the cattail leaf fan in one hand and chatting with their neighbors. Watch the sunset, birds return to their nests, and have a taste!
There are not many people doing business by the roadside. Many people have moved away, leaving only an empty room and a few familiar plaques. "People in the past have gone, and the scenery here is still there", and birds still adorn the sky like angels; Cicada is still singing tirelessly in the tree.
The tree outside the high wall on the other side is still so tall and straight, with a few dazzling flowers on it. Without advice, I saw a leaf slowly falling and whirling, and finally fell to the ground silently. There are many leaves on the ground. For many years, trees have been doing dense, withered, dense, withered and dense repetitive work. The withering of flowers and trees is not only a shame, but also a new beginning. Next spring, it will still flourish.
Not far away, workers are tearing down houses. Trees wither and regenerate branches and leaves in the second year; This old road, once prosperous, is now deserted. Will it flourish again in the future?
Losing is a blessing. I believe that everyone has suffered losses. Some people find it annoying to suffer losses. But in my opinion, losing is actually a blessing. I think this "a blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise" is the same.
Once, I wore a pair of trousers with a shallow trouser pocket. There was a money saw in my pocket, and there was 29 yuan in it. Unconsciously, I lost my wallet. I was heartbroken and cried for a long time. This is my pocket money for a week, and it's gone in the blink of an eye. Of course, I feel very uncomfortable!
On the surface, I have suffered, but I don't think it is a bad thing. Because since then, my department has been very careful with my wallet, and there are even hundreds of dollars in it, so I haven't lost my luck. Because I lost a little money, I avoided losing more money. This is undoubtedly a "blessing".
I remember once, in the math exam, I checked it several times and found that there was no mistake. At this time, my deskmate touched me and said calmly, "You made a mistake." I panicked as soon as I heard it, so I copied his answer. I was shocked when the paper was handed down. Facts have proved that my original approach to that problem was correct, but I was confused and corrected it. You said I was unfair! At the beginning, my deskmate told me that one of the questions was wrong. On the surface, this is a good thing. In fact, doesn't it contain bad things? Because of this, I became confident. Self-confidence is the cornerstone of success. Since I have never made similar mistakes again, doesn't this also verify the truth that "it is a blessing to suffer"?
Students, please remember this sentence-a loss is a blessing. Failure can make you alert, increase your knowledge and build your confidence ... As long as you keep an open-minded and optimistic attitude, you will find that losing is a valuable teacher.
As the saying goes, "the country is people-oriented, and the people take food as the sky." The word "eat" is not familiar to everyone. I have eaten many things, such as "losing money".
The long road of life is not smooth sailing. How can you see the rainbow without experiencing wind and rain? Losing is a blessing, and losing this time is a lesson for next time.
Once, I went to the shop downstairs to buy soy sauce for my mother. Came to a shop, picked up a bottle of soy sauce and asked the boss, "How much is a bottle of soy sauce?" I don't know if the boss deliberately added a few dollars when he saw that I was still young, or if he misread the brand of soy sauce and said, "Ten dollars." "Oh." I replied, I didn't think about anything, and I don't know if it's the money. I gave him money.
When I got home, I handed the soy sauce and the rest of the money to my mother. My mother looked at it and said, "Hey, where's the remaining two yuan? Did you buy junk food? " "No," I said, "the boss said it was 10 yuan." Mother asked doubtfully, "Isn't this brand of soy sauce I usually buy only 8 yuan?" How did it become 10 yuan? " Later, my mother took me to another store, picked up the same brand of soy sauce and asked the boss, "How much is this bottle of soy sauce?" The boss looked at the soy sauce and said, "A bottle is eight dollars." I thought to myself: How can this soy sauce be cheap? Isn't that ten dollars? My mother took me to a shop outside the community and asked the boss how much the same brand of soy sauce was. "Eight dollars!" Why is it 8 yuan again? Am I really losing money?
When I got home, my mother said to me earnestly, "You have to shop around. You can't just buy it and go home. You can buy good and cheap things by shopping around, remember? "
The loss of food this time warned me not to buy things blindly, but to choose something worthwhile, so it was worth it.
Losing money is a blessing. Many teenagers and middle-aged people think that losing money is not a good thing. After losing money, they always complain that God is unfair to him. Old people are completely different from them. When their children and grandchildren complain, they always say, "It is a blessing to suffer. Who doesn't suffer? This time, people are ashamed of you and will repay you sooner or later! " Losing money is not a bad thing! "I also know the meaning of' a loss is a blessing'.
There was a child whose mother gave his brother's son a very expensive gift, but his mother's brother only gave him a cheap gift. His mother's gift is several times more expensive than the one he received. He accepted, went home and complained loudly, "Why is the world so unfair to me?" ! The gift my mother gave me was so expensive, but she only gave me such a cheap gift! Didn't give me a more expensive gift, okay? It's really cheap to send beggars! Earn as much as my mother! "Mom was very angry. He said to his son, "You child! Why do you talk like that? Your uncle is buying a house, and it's nice that he can take out a gift after borrowing so much money! Do you understand what courtesy is light and affection is heavy? Mom, didn't you give your cousin a present, too? Did I just give you a present? You little white-eyed wolf, you forgot! It doesn't mean that you have to give something back. "
After listening to this story, I understand that losing money is not necessarily a bad thing. Don't always haggle over every ounce, regardless of family ties, just thinking about losing money, just thinking about spending more or less.
Failure is a kind of happiness. One hot summer last year, I went to Qingdao with the summer camp of Children's Palace. I met many mentors and friends there.
We spent six wonderful days, during which we visited all the beautiful scenery in Qingdao. Come to the seaside and enjoy the charm of the sea. It is memorable.
In order to leave, the tour guide asked us to go to the supermarket to buy some local products so as to leave some souvenirs for our trip. I strolled leisurely in the supermarket and scanned the shelves with my eyes. Suddenly I found a delicious food I had never eaten: "Hot mutton kebabs". Unfortunately, there is only one bag left.
I was greedy, so I reached out, but I didn't expect it to be blocked by the other hand. When I saw it, it was Gangjie. Just wanted to argue, I saw his strong muscles flinch again, so I thought I'd forget it. It doesn't matter if you lose once!
Looking at the beautiful plastic bag just taken away by Gjesing in high spirits, I sighed, swallowed and turned away.
Just then, there was a "crash" behind me. Looking back, I saw the salesman dumping piles of "hot mutton kebabs" on the shelf. I felt lucky and took a bag.
On the way home, we ate and drank and had a good time. Suddenly, I heard someone shout. When I saw it was Gang Jie, I saw that he vomited something red, and then shouted, "What kebabs are so terrible!" "
"I see, oh! This is all overdue! " Some students looked at it and said.
"expired! Maybe mine has expired! " I exclaimed. Look at it, it's okay! This was done three days ago. Lucky.
I am tasting mutton kebabs. It feels so good!
Remember! Sometimes a loss is a blessing!
Failure is a kind of happiness. 10 The long road of life has not been smooth sailing. How can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain? But at this time, please remember that losing is a blessing, and people who love to take advantage of small things are often people who suffer big losses.
The story happened between two flowers.
One spring, a chrysanthemum seed was planted under a peach tree. With the touch of spring breeze, peach blossoms and chrysanthemums bloom slowly. In spring and March, it is the season when peach blossoms bloom. Peach blossoms have blossomed and enjoyed spring scenery, but chrysanthemums are so small! Less than half the size of a peach blossom. Proud peach blossom glanced at it with contemptuous eyes and said, "Look at you. You are nobody. You only deserve to make fertilizer for me." Peach blossom greatly humiliated chrysanthemum and thought it was a big bargain. And chrysanthemum is indifferent to its words, overwhelming the loss of food. Spring passed in a blink of an eye. In summer, peach blossoms have lost their former elegance, and their heads are drooping under the scorching sun, while chrysanthemums are still so small and full of vitality. In autumn, when chrysanthemums are in full bloom, the peach blossoms that spring is proud of have already withered, and they are used as fertilizer for chrysanthemums. Chrysanthemums are thin and suddenly bloom in the cool autumn wind. People no longer mention peach blossoms, but praise the tenacity of chrysanthemums in praise language. The chrysanthemums that suffered losses made a strong counterattack against the peach blossoms that took advantage of it.
Many people are as open-minded as chrysanthemums in the process of doing things, and don't care what others say to win the bargain, otherwise they will be crushed by others forever. Second, people like Chrysanthemum will hold him aloof.
What did you gain from the loss? This is a blessing. What is a blessing? It is the recognition of others, the recognition of others, and the friend of others.
It is often said that people can sharpen their will in difficulties and achieve their talents before setbacks. Our achievements and merits are all from adversity, stepping on the road full of challenges and opportunities, paving the way for setbacks and coming step by step. In fact, losing is a blessing.
As the old saying goes, you have to suffer to be a master. Song Lian, a great writer in ancient times, once wrote in the preface to seeing Ma Sheng off to Yang that he was eager to learn when he was young, but because of his poor family, he seemed to borrow books from the library. Study hard in the biting cold. When you encounter problems that you can't, you often follow your elders for thousands of miles and go to the learned gentleman's house to consult with humility. Under such difficult conditions, everyone can stick to a learning heart, work hard and work day and night, and finally make him become knowledgeable and valued. Compared with imperial academy, where teachers teach and books are vast, students can't study hard under the opposite study and living conditions of Song Lian, so they often have a happy but ignorant mentality. Although Song Lian suffered a loss in terms of conditions, he was not worse than others in his grades.
As the saying goes, if you are willing to give up, you will get it. In our study, work and life, we don't seek pleasure first, then try to create. This process does not exist either. When we are faced with an unfavorable situation, why don't we take pleasure in suffering, accept it with strong and firm belief, and think that failure is a kind of happiness?
Failure is a kind of happiness. As the saying goes, a loss is a blessing. People always say this sentence, but they don't understand its true meaning. I think loss refers to "small loss". There is nothing wrong with eating a small loss. We can learn from it and not suffer big losses in the future. Don't dwell on the loss, it may be good for you.
When I was in primary school, I had a problem with a classmate. The reason is that he stepped on my shoes. I asked him to apologize to me, but he still said nothing. Punching me in the temple again made me angry. I gave him a cruel word: "wait for me!" " He replied contemptuously, "I'm waiting!" " "I impulsively gave him a punch. Then there was a fight. I accidentally pushed him into the corner, which made his face hurt. The students went to the class teacher, who took him to see a doctor. I was immature at that time and didn't explain the facts clearly. All the money to see him is from my family. I said to my father, "It's not fair! That was his first hand! " Dad said to me calmly, "Don't be sad, son. Leave the rest to me, and don't get into trouble in the future. "At that time, I felt particularly useless, and I had to let my parents end my troubles. At this moment, I can't help crying, and I have great feelings to release! I am an asshole, the black sheep of my family. Later, I was accused of doing something at the class meeting, and I was very upset. However, one of my classmates said to take a step back and broaden the horizon. I went home to ponder this sentence over and over again, which makes sense. If I ignored him, there would be no similar tragedy. I decided to stop fighting and fighting.
Although I suffer, I will be blessed. From that day to now, I haven't made any trouble or fought once. As the saying goes, losing is a blessing!