There are always some key points in marriage that will reveal the truest emotional situation. The way husband and wife eat, the situation at the dinner table, can best see the marital status of two people. In marriage, the love between husband and wife is deep and shallow, which can be seen from these four "eyes" when eating!
0 1 Do boys help clear the table after meals? According to the understanding of the older generation, cooking and washing dishes is what women should do. But in today's society, although women's full play is not limited to restaurants and kitchens, there are still many male chauvinists who feel that they are the pillars of their families. Clearing the table after a meal is not suitable for them, but the objective fact is long gone. So the relationship between husband and wife depends on whether the boys will help clear the table after dinner.
If the wife cooks, the husband will help choose the dishes, and will continue to help wash the dishes after dinner. The daughter-in-law will help dry the table, and the family will be happy. This is the happy look, not the daughter-in-law cooking alone, or shirking each other. After dinner, no one wants to clean up, nor does he do chores when the other party is cooking, nor does he serve food to the other party. What's the difference between this connection and passers-by who eat together?
Couples who know or don't know what the other person likes to eat say everything every day. Just pay a little attention to the other person's taste, or what kind of food you like to eat. This can only be realized from the daily * * *, when they are together every day. As long as you like, you can know what the other person likes and dislikes.
Everyone has his own living habits, and there are things he doesn't like to eat. If his lover has any taboo areas, then the other person must be the first to master them. Therefore, couples with good feelings can understand what the other person likes to eat without asking, which also symbolizes their concern for their lover. If it's someone you don't care about, why do you care so much about him? It is even more difficult to understand what the other person is jealous of and likes to eat, because such things can only be discovered if the other person cares enough.
What's the atmosphere like when they eat? The older generation said that couples who don't bump into each other are not called lovers. I think the objective facts are the same. It is inevitable that there will be disputes between husband and wife. Because they are two independent individuals, there will always be differences and life will be very tired. There will always be things that upset you. If you feel uncomfortable, you won't vent it on others, only on those closest to you. If both of them don't show weakness, there will be only cold violence between them.
In every home, it is inconvenient for two people to work or only one person to work, but in any case, dining is the precious place for two people all the time in a day, and the rest time is not work but sleep. However, if two people have zero communication while eating and just try to eat, then the atmosphere during this time can only be described as helplessness, even if they are hungry, they will not want to eat very much. This kind of situation is not for couples with good feelings. It is likely that there is something wrong with the relationship between husband and wife. In this case, it is not wrong to suggest that men take the initiative and wives take the initiative, right?
When eating, see if you can help each other with food. Two people have such a good relationship that at any time, there will be each other in their hearts, thinking about each other, and they will habitually help each other with food or food when eating. And if there is no love between you for a long time, of course, you will not take others to heart. So, when you eat, you only know that you are making yourself a sandwich, and you will eat something delicious by yourself. It is not easy to miss each other at all, and it is not easy to leave it to each other.
At the dinner table, if everyone is so "self-centered", it is not easy to consider and value each other. If you look at that, it's obvious that you don't have someone in your heart. At this time, if you are entangled, you are not responsible for yourself.
Feelings originated at the dinner table and disappeared at the dinner table. Without husband and wife, after marriage, don't expect your own happiness. The happiness you really want must be realized by actions, not by shouting slogans.