In this impetuous era, many people begin to lose themselves. This also has to make us think, how should we spend our lives to be worthy of this life? The ancients once said: "People live, don't eat rice, don't drink." . Do you know what this means? Every young person should reflect.
There are three things you can't eat.
People should eat every day, so that they can work and live in the best condition. But the ancients thought that not all meals could be eaten, and these three kinds of meals were absolutely inedible.
1, white rice
"White rice" here means free rice. In our life, "free lunch" often appears. It may be a friend's, please eat and drink, but there are also many unfathomable traps.
Either way, we must understand that there is no free food and drink in this world. Please pay it today, but you must pay it back tomorrow. This is what we often call "something for nothing", and the other party is very eager for you and very attentive. In fact, the truth behind it is not as simple as inviting people to dinner.
I don't know if you have received any information about teaching you to draw or giving you something for free on the Internet. In fact, this is to arouse your interest through the word "free", and then they will pull you into a group and let you promote them in your social software.
Finally, I will send you a link called "Courseware" and register an account. It also allows you to download various applications. At this time, your personal information has been firmly in their hands.
Therefore, these seemingly free resources, in fact, you are their "pawn", defrauding your personal information and letting you help deceive more people. That's why the ancients said "free lunch" should never be eaten. It is very likely that someone else set a trap for you, and it is an unfathomable scam.
2. Soft rice
Whether in ancient or modern times, eating soft rice is a despised behavior. Especially in ancient times, women were butlers and men were butlers. Women play the role of a good wife and mother at home, while men earn money to support their families.
To say "soft rice man", Sima Xiangru should be one of the representatives. His family is very ordinary, plus he is taking the road of civil servants. If you are not liked, you will always be a poor man.
As a result, he has been poor, and sometimes he can't even eat. But after meeting Zhuo Wenjun, they eloped and lived a hard life. Self-respecting Sima Xiangru asked Zhuo Wenjun to borrow money from relatives. In this way, with the help of Zhuo Wenjun's family, they can live a normal life.
Sima Xiangru relied on the spirit of "eating soft rice" until he was in his thirties, and finally got a chance to work in the palace. After achieving something great, he soon forgot his ruined wife and ended their relationship with a poem. The last sentence is about "no memory", which means there is no memory between the two.
People who eat soft rice usually have no dignity and gratitude. If they had a better choice, they would immediately abandon their former "benefactor" So girls should keep their eyes open and not be deceived by such a man.
For men who eat soft rice, we often say that "a good man aims at all directions." Men just want to stand tall and shoulder the responsibility of the whole family. Especially in marriage, you can't hide behind yourself and let your wife carry it in front. This is a sign of cowardice.
3. Residue
The "leftover women" here actually refers to people who go with the flow and have no opinions. If a person doesn't have his own opinion about life, it's like losing his soul and the direction of life.
In our real life, there are often such a group of people. When they see that others have made money by investing, they will blindly follow suit and eventually lose a lot. Blindly follow the trend, regardless of their own actual situation, the ultimate injury is themselves.
So, let's not be the one who eats leftovers. Have your own independent personality and be your own inner master. It doesn't matter what others do, what matters is knowing what you are suitable for and what you can do. Find a good field that suits you, and work hard to expand and extend, and you can get what you want.
There are three things you can't drink.
There is a folk proverb: "no wine, no table", which is enough to see how tempting wine is. As long as a few people get together for dinner, there must be wine. But the ancients thought that drinking was also exquisite, and it was best not to drink these kinds of wine.
1, Menjiu
It's the easiest for a person to get drunk when he's drinking. Under normal circumstances, a person drinks because of either love or boredom. The more a person drinks, the more sad and helpless he is, and he can only drown his sorrows in wine. Drinking like this all the time is harmful to both body and mind.
Moreover, it is easy for a person to make some extreme decisions or behaviors when drinking. At this time, there is no one around to stop it, which is likely to cause great disaster. So the ancients would say that drinking is not boring.
2. Express wine
There is a saying in the wine bureau: "Love is deep, and it is boring." As we all know, sulking drinking is very harmful to the central nervous system. Because people consume a lot of alcohol in a short time and quickly integrate into the blood, it will lead to a sharp increase in the alcohol concentration in the blood.
Therefore, drinking is to sip slowly and avoid drinking too much at a time. Take a sip and let your body absorb it slowly. In this way, the body can have enough ethanol in the time-distorted body so as not to get drunk.
Step 3 persuade wine
As the saying goes, "wine field is a small concentrated society". In order to show sincere friendship to friends, many people will persuade them to drink. Such behavior is actually very dangerous.
Especially in today's society, many people who are not good at drinking suffer greatly from the behavior of persuading them to drink, and even lead them to die of alcoholism. The Tort Liability Law clearly stipulates that the whole table is responsible for one person's drunken death. Forced drinking is one of them.
Therefore, drinking at the wine table is just a way to enhance feelings with friends. Just have a drink, you don't have to be drunk. Modern society advocates civilized drinking and healthy drinking. The culture of "persuading wine" is no longer applicable.
Are the words of our ancestors worth learning from?
The phrase "three meals without wine and three drinks" is still worth learning from today. Nowadays, young people may go out to eat three times a day, and it is common to eat and drink with friends.
However, the warnings of our ancestors must be kept in mind, and we must not eat rice or drink alcohol indiscriminately. Small wine is good for your feelings, but big wine is bad for your health. Drink alcohol in moderation, and live a healthy life for yourself and your family and friends around you!