We often say that it is better to make friends with a gentleman than with a villain, which means that making friends depends on character.
Only by having the right character and doing things honestly can we get real feelings; If you keep your word, you will gain the trust of others.
People with good character often have no artificial rhetoric, insincerity, empty rhetoric, deliberate ostentation, measured speech, assurance of life, no nonsense, no slander and gossip.
This kind of person is not good at words, but he is sincere, practical, not flattering, not flattering, upright, clean and tidy, and does things right all his life.
People with good character are often not good at words, and they don't do things to their faces and behind their backs.
Language is a person's first business card, and the attitude, way and even wording of speaking can reveal a person's personality.
People with good character are sincere, honest, simple and practical, giving people a feeling of affinity and making people willing to be close; A hypocritical person, although eloquent, pretends to be hypocritical in language, but his heart is duplicitous.
Some people, behind their faces, talk nonsense when they see people, wear hypocritical masks, and treat people around them with lip service, with people in front and ghosts behind them. They take good care of you when they use you, and ignore you when they don't. Such people hurt people invisibly, their hearts are more poisonous than scorpions, and their means are more hateful than wolves.
Life is not long. Be a person with character, be more sincere and less routine, don't envy anyone, don't calculate anyone, don't slander anyone, just be yourself.
People who are not good at words will not deliberately please, simple, peaceful and reliable.
A person who is not good at words is not a defect of a person's character, but an innate talent. They are simple in heart and noble in thought. They don't deliberately please others, don't please others, talk less and do more.
In real life, some people, who speak beautifully, seem to be able to chat with anyone. They are friendly, enthusiastic and care about others, but they never talk about their own affairs and never really express themselves. After a long time, they will not be distracted with anyone, just an empty shell with a false mask.
People who are not good at words have their own persistence, will not flatter others, and will not flatter others. Instead, I will use my own strength to do my own thing step by step, improve my ability and be the truest and hardest-working person.
In fact, people who are not good at words are more likely to make friends. People who don't like to talk are not the most likable people, but they are the simplest and most sincere people. They don't deliberately package themselves, they are simple in heart, live a quiet life, are kind and sensitive, so they understand people's hearts. Because they are kind and always have a smile on their faces, which gives people a natural sense of trust. Get along with such people, they will have enough security in their hearts.
People who are not good at words often know more about companionship and cherish every encounter and every bit of life.
People who are not good at words are more independent, better at action and more loyal to themselves.
Most people who are not good at words know their own disadvantages, so they choose to show themselves with actions and speak with strength. They are quiet and low-key and difficult to express, but they have the ability to think independently, have their own determination, and have their own ideas and opinions on things, so people who are not good at words are generally very powerful.
What people are most afraid of is not having their own persistence. They are used to following the crowd, saying what others say and doing what others do. Such people will only follow others and lose their personality and persistence.
People with real taste will not go with the flow, but have unique cognition and strong insight, and are rarely interfered by the outside world. Once they have identified something, it is difficult to be influenced, and they can stick to their own ideas better, have empathy, do not gossip, and always think about themselves regardless of other people's mistakes.
People with good personality are often not good at words, keep their mouths shut in groups, stay alone in their hearts, and don't make public or show off.
Since ancient times: a tree attracts the wind, and if you talk too much, you will lose, and disaster will come from your mouth.
Some people, who like to talk, ignore what to say and what not to say when they talk too much. As soon as they speak, they get confused, forget their duties, and say what is right or wrong without being filtered by their brains. Thereby bringing unnecessary troubles and hidden dangers to yourself.
People who are not good at words will not deliberately use words to prove their ability and show off their strength, but sit still, think about themselves, chat regardless of others' mistakes, respect themselves and others.
In the crowd, gossip does not participate, gossip does not express its position, others do not argue, use time to prove themselves, and use strength to achieve themselves; Know how to listen, win the closeness and trust of others with humility and respect, see through without breaking, hate not to turn your face, and speak without hurting people.
People with good personality are often not good at words, not because they can't speak, but because they don't want to say more, to show it deliberately, to please, not to make public, not to show off, just to be the simplest and truest self.