In life, there are many examples of cleverness being mistaken by cleverness.
Some people, with their quick thinking, always want to take advantage of others and bully honest people.
Being born a man, cleverness is a gift from God, but if you replace your conscience with cleverness, cleverness will become a trap.
A person may not be smart enough or excellent enough, but he can also be circled by quality. However, if there is no quality, only Excellence and intelligence, then all opportunities will only become a bubble.
It is often those who have a good character and know how to be grateful who laugh at the end. They may not have smart minds, but good quality can attract more people and get more help and support.
Only those who know how to be grateful can get inner happiness.
A grateful person's conscience is his connections.
Once upon a time, a hunter kept a lazy dog.
One day, the hunter took him and other dogs out hunting. He got lost in the forest because he was too lazy to fall behind.
It's getting dark, and the lazy dog is hungry and scared. After running for a long time, he saw a hut. After he entered the room, he drank a basin of water and fell asleep.
This hut is the hermit's residence, and the basin that lazy dogs drink is the hermit's foot washing water.
Later, when the hermit came back, he thought the dog was terrible, so he took it in, gave it food, drink and shelter, lived a comfortable life and forgot about the hunter.
However, the hermit thinks that as a hermit, he keeps dogs all day, and others may think that he is also a hunter.
So he turned the dog into a beautiful Jin Lu by magic. Looking at his beautiful appearance, the lazy dog forgot his original appearance and thought he was really Lu.
One day, Lu Jin was eating grass near the hut again. At this moment, a tiger came and scared Jin Lu to hide from the hermit.
The hermit became kind again. He thought Jin Lu was terrible, so he turned him into a tiger so that he could at least protect himself.
The dog that turned into a tiger, majestic, boldly ran far away from the hermit.
However, every day, there is a tiger behind the tiger. The lazy dog met a strong lion and beat it away.
Seeing it covered with scars, the hermit felt distressed again, so he turned it into the most powerful lion in the forest.
Fortunately, the lazy dog who became a lion fell in love with another beautiful lion and immediately proposed to the lioness.
But the lioness said that her marriage should be decided by her parents, and only with their consent can she be married.
When the lioness's parents learned about this, they did not agree to the lazy dog's request, saying that they had to know the lazy dog's past life and visit his family before they could consider whether to marry their daughter.
At this time, the lazy dog is anxious. He knew that a hermit was an honest man and would never lie about it.
Then, the fact that it is actually a dog will be known to them, and they will definitely not marry their daughter to it.
So, the lazy dog was killed by marriage.
As we all know, hermits have the magic power to turn it into a lion, and naturally they can also turn it into a dog.
The lazy dog who returned the dog was thrown into the forest by the hermit, and was soon found by a group of wolves, tearing it to pieces.
Writer Hugo once said: despicable people are always ungrateful, and ingratitude is a despicable part.
In the real society, some people are like this "lazy dog", enjoying the kindness of others, but forgetting the way when they came.
Anyone who suits his own interests will be ungrateful.
Such a man is like a hungry wolf. No matter how good you are to him, he will never take it to heart, even at the expense of others, you must achieve your goal.
However, not everyone has the magic and vigilance of a hermit to stop losses in time.
Many kind people, after helping others and being hurt, still don't know it, and continue to let their kindness be trampled on.
The injured good people are more and more afraid.
And those who consume the kindness of others are often not rewarded.
The ancients often said: thirty years in Hedong, thirty years in Hexi.
Sometimes, life is like a cycle, good is rewarded with good, and evil with evil.
No matter what you plant, you will get what you want.
Accept a drop of water when necessary, and I will repay your kindness with spring water.
No matter how small the charity is, you should keep it in mind.
When others need help, we should also lend them a helping hand and give them as much care as possible.
In life, everyone owes others, and knowing how to be grateful is also the most important quality of a person.
If a person doesn't know how to be grateful, he will unconsciously send his kindness to the greedy mouth and become a greedy and disgusting person.
You know, people who are insatiable will not be popular wherever they go.
Even if you meet a very kind-hearted person, you will hate you and stay away from you after being hurt several times.
Writer William? Meckbis once said:
"If a person is in debt and then turns against his benefactor, he must take care of his own dignity and be more vicious than an irrelevant stranger. He must prove each other's sins in order to explain his ruthlessness. "
In other words, people should be kind, but kindness also has a bottom line and space, so don't let ungrateful people overuse it.
Everyone should tell themselves that our kindness should be left to those who deserve it.
We will certainly give sincere help to those who know how to be grateful, and those who don't know how to be grateful, stay away as soon as possible and stop loss in time.
Understandably, everyone has desires, and everyone is not for himself, and the devil takes the hindmost. However, the bottom line of being a man cannot be less, and the benefits are not harmful.
You should be kind, but you should also have a sharp edge.
Being a man can be selfish, but there must be a bottom line.
There is such a story:
A Buddha crossed the sea by boat, but he was caught in a strong wind and heavy rain and overturned his boat.
The Buddha tried to climb to the shore.
But the Buddha didn't blame the boatman for not rowing the boat well, which caused him to lose his property and almost lost his life, let alone complain about the bad weather and bad luck.
After he went ashore and sat down, he bowed to Master at a distance. Some people wonder that he is a Buddha and he wants his life, but he worships the master, not the bodhisattva.
Buddha said that he used to hate swimming very much. It was the master who forced him to exercise and urged him to swim that made him learn this skill. If it weren't for master, he would have died in the river today.
Everyone listened and praised again and again.
In Buddha's mind, the greatest Buddha is his gratitude.
He doesn't complain, he is not a freak, he only remembers the people and things that helped him and taught him.
Presumably, his heart must have been full of happiness, gratitude and sunshine.
Knowing how to be grateful is the most precious wealth in a person's life.
You know, there are not many people in this world who can really be good to themselves.
Sometimes, one is missing.
Knowing how to be grateful will make "grace" always there.
Gratitude is not an empty slogan, but a kind and broad heart.
A person who does not know how to be grateful can only show that he is narrow-minded.
It is not difficult to imagine that such people, living in society, can hardly have long-term luck.
No matter how hard life is, it is just ordinary inaction and lonely sadness.
Be a man, you must be grateful.
No matter how hard life is, someone will always lend a helping hand; No matter how hard life is, there is always someone with you.
Only by being grateful can we have all this for a long time.
Let your life be no longer lonely, no longer lonely.
So you won't be alone all the time.