Some people say, because of showing off wealth?
Others say, because of pretending?
In the eyes of many laymen, the person who plays Wan Wen is gentle, knowing astronomy above and geography below, or some people say: greasy! Men who play Wan Wen are a little rich, like beads, emeralds, teapots, or some people spray: people are stupid and have more money! Men who play Wan Wen are detached from philosophy and like to burn incense and drink tea. Two or three friends get together, or some people spray: Pretend to force!
I once heard a saying that talking about literary play with people who don't understand is like casting pearls before swine. I quite agree. Many people don't understand, what's so interesting about these beaded bracelets? Do you have to spend money and time to play this game? Today, let's take stock of the reasons why men play Wan Wen, and let our friends see if they are right. 1. Men's adult toys In fact, men's obsession with beads bracelets may be the simplest-like, just like playing glass marbles, four-wheel drive and collecting hero cards when they were young, no matter how expensive, just for fun, just for fun.
So is Wan Wen. Men never grow up, but toys become more and more expensive. It's especially hard to brush the abacus, but watching Wan Wen slowly change in his own hands, from the beginning to the patina, step by step, the patina is great, the thief is beautiful, and it's very fulfilling!
Besides, the word "play" is really nice. There are so many interesting things to play with, including patina, singing insects, flowers and birds. You can also make things by hand, create things, make people happy, and put the finished products in front of old friends. N se？ N se is happier!
2. Relieve the pressure from all sides. Men, especially middle-aged men, are already the pillars of the whole family and have the responsibility and responsibility! The double pressures of life and work all fall on their shoulders, with parents to support and children to support, endless work and endless things to do every day.
When I am free, I just want to twist beads, play with walnuts, have a cup of tea quietly, calm my heart, let go of these pressures for a while, enjoy a moment of peace, save your strength and move on!
3. Cultivate self-cultivation and cultivate temperament. A lot of people say that after playing Wan Wen, my temper has calmed down a lot. Indeed, Wan Wen accompanied us through joys and sorrows. Our joys and sorrows have changed our appearance, but also recorded our growth and precipitation.
I have been playing Wan Wen for a long time, and I have made many friends. I am more open-minded, and I begin to understand the appreciation of the years and the traces of appreciation, and I begin to forgive my imperfect self. Be more careful and patient, be kind to yourself and the world.
People always say: playing with things will make you tired, but Mr. Wang said, if you can't even play, can you do it well? It's just that you like playing guitar and piano, and I like playing beaded bracelets. The essence is the same!
We all love life and want to enjoy the beauty that life has given us. So why not? Men, always naive, keep an interesting soul. Although years have passed and people are old, they are not old! The things that accompany us around are the best records!