A marriage without money and love, a good marriage must be rich, not short of money or love. Only when two people in marriage are in the same boat can they sail the boat of marriage to the harbor of love. Let's look at a marriage without money and love.
Marriage and love without money 1 No money is only relative. After all, two people don't even have feelings, so they will naturally visit a family much better than yours. The more they compare, the less they like their families. Ordinary income is not necessarily no money. As long as there is no shortage of daily necessities, food and drink, it is not money.
Not to mention no sex, since there is no feeling, what about sex? Even if you do, it's boring. Men are just shivering, not to mention women. Sex without feelings is like a dish without salt to a woman.
Your present marriage can't continue with the word "maintain". You should start a new relationship. As long as the fire of love is lit, money, sex and love are naturally at your fingertips. Only when spiritual wealth is satisfied, the difficulties in life will naturally be solved. When wealth is available and money is settled, there is no need to be too descriptive. Harmony is enough to sum up your changed marriage.
So what you have to do now is how to make him love you. Only in this way can you change your present marriage and maintain your present life blindly, then you will only ruin your life. Is a plain life what you want? Since it is not what you want, you need to bravely take the step of pursuing love. Of course, you have no choice now, because you have a family and children, and the only thing you can choose now is the one beside you.
Don't always think about making a living. The coming marriage will only make you more and more difficult. It was the hardest time before, and this step is not difficult. The only difficulty is that you dare not hold his hand and say I love you.
Marriage without money and love 2 What kind of marriage can last?
What is 1 marriage?
When a hundred people talk about marriage, there are a hundred explanations.
When we hold each other's hands and walk into the marriage hall, people are paying attention, and gorgeous fireworks are flying all over the sky. The sound of blessing and laughter is accompanied by tears of joy. We swear. When the guests disperse and the fireworks fall, the last thing left is to accompany each other through every corner of life.
Ordinary days, plain life, the same time, but different lives. We came together because of love, but marriage and love are different concepts. Love is more free than marriage, and marriage means more responsibilities.
This is not love, but more responsibility.
In my impression, my father has always been a very warm person, warm to me and gentle to my mother. Although my father didn't make much money, he worked hard for this family. He sends a lot of money to his family every month, leaving only a little life for himself.
Every Spring Festival, my father and I spend the most time together. He always helped my mother and even contracted most of the housework at home during that time.
That night, my mother went on a business trip and said she would be late. We all fell asleep. When I went to bed and toilet at eleven o'clock in the middle of the night, I saw my father sitting on the sofa. I asked him why he didn't sleep. He said, your mother hasn't come back yet, and I'm waiting for her.
I feel warm in my heart I thought they would lack a lot of communication when they were away from home for a long time, and they might not know each other well. I think my father must love his mother very much.
Many years later, when I was about to get married, my father and I talked about him and my mother. I asked him: How do you know your mother? You love your mother very much! Father said: I met on a blind date. When we first got together, I had no feelings for her.
Later, we got married. She is also very kind to me. She is very gentle, takes care of her family and treats my parents well. We're just talking about our lives. Looking back, many teenagers have passed.
"Don't you love your mother?"
"This is a kind of responsibility. Life has long smoothed our water chestnut, and where there will be many passions, it all boils down to rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. "
Love will grind the water chestnut flat, and the responsibility will never change.
Many people say that a marriage without love can't last long, but in many cases, appropriateness is more important than liking. Love is a big part of marriage, and responsibility is also very important. We should assume the responsibility as husbands and fathers, give more care to our side and feel the warmth from the people around us.
In this life, we will be like many people, because of the same face value, the same interest and the same magnetic induction. After watching a TV series, you can change your favorite idol, but marriage is not allowed to be casual and you can't tolerate cheating. Maybe time ruined our love, but you are my wife and I am your husband. This is my responsibility.
The most important thing in marriage is responsibility!
Marriage without money and love 3 Marriage needs "the support of the rich"
It's easier to say love than to raise a family.
Psychologist Li Zhongying once wrote in his book: "A happy marriage is not a gift. Love alone cannot make a marriage successful."
When you are in love, you can only talk about romance, not money. However, there can be no daily necessities in marriage, and life is bound to cost money.
Life is cruel, and no amount of sweet talk is worth three meals a day.
Those marriages that can't be implemented in such a trivial matter as dressing, eating and counting money are fragile.
There is such a couple in gold medal mediation.
At the scene of the program, her husband Xiao Li repeatedly expressed his love for his wife Ma Xiao, but Ma Xiao was unmoved and insisted on divorce.
The host was puzzled, but with the story of Pony, everyone understood her helplessness and bitterness.
It turns out that Pony has never made money to support his family since he got married for five years.
He changed jobs frequently, and none of them lasted for two months. He is either too tired or injured.
In his own words, all the work is too much for him.
So, he simply didn't go to work, playing cards all day, surfing the Internet, and using his wife's savings to stock up.
At the same time, Ma Xiao has been trying to earn money to support his family, even getting sick. She always hoped that her husband could go out to work and share the burden of the family.
Although his wife tried to persuade him, Xiao Li felt that his wife earned enough money to spend without worrying about family chores.
Pony was tired and disappointed with his marriage. No matter how affectionate her husband said, he never looked back.
When I was young, I always felt that talking about money hurt my feelings; As I grow older, I find that marriage without money hurts my bones.
Only when two people in marriage are in the same boat can they sail the boat of marriage to the harbor of love.
If one party selfishly throws the burden of supporting the family to the other party, after a long time, people will be tired, heartbroken and the marriage will come to an end.
I heard a very interesting sentence: "money is the underwear of marriage, which can't be seen by outsiders, but you have to wear it."
It's easy to say love, just say it; It is difficult to support a family, which requires material commitment.
If you can't support your family, getting married is like streaking, and it will be a joke sooner or later.
I love you more than money; No matter how big the slogan is, we must support our families.
It's easier to give money than to take care of the family.
Do you have such people around you?
I think it's hard for me to make money. When I go home and do nothing, I turn a blind eye to housework.
I think my money is in place, so I don't care about the trivial things at home, anyway.
As we all know, it is easier to give money than to take care of the family.
Those marriages that only know how to measure responsibility by money, although not widowed, exist in name only.
One person takes care of the baby, one person goes to the hospital, and one person supports a home. ...
I saw a Korean tear film.
In the play, Anglenala plays a mother who takes care of her baby's daily life alone and cries countless people.
There is only one mother in the empty house. Even when she went to the toilet, the children were crying outside the door, so she had to let them in.
Finally, the child fell asleep and just wanted to have a bite of rice. When the child woke up, he had to hold the baby in one hand and stuff the rice in the other.
Holding the child alone for a long time, my wrist is sore and I have to put on a plaster. Even if the pain was unbearable, she immediately reached out to hold the child when she heard the child crying.
In the middle of the night, the child was ill, but the father was still out socializing. My mother was so anxious that she was at a loss. She kept calling her father, but she couldn't get through. She had to take the children to the hospital alone.
Exhausted, she hoped her father would come back soon, but she received a short message: I won't come back tonight.
At this moment, she couldn't help crying. ...
Is this a portrayal of many mothers in real life? There is no worry about lack of money, only sadness.
No family is calm, and life is full of trivial things.
Eating and drinking Lazar, raising children and taking care of the elderly are all inseparable from time and energy.
No matter how high the salary is, it can't change the sincerity of others to their families; No amount of money can buy a harmonious and happy family.
In fact, a happy marriage needs not only money, but also the participation of both parties.
You can be busy, but you can't be less concerned; You can socialize outside, but you can't be absent at home.
Just give money, don't participate in the marriage between * * * and responsibility, and be a shopkeeper of cutting and everything, which always chills each other's hearts.
Mr. Lu Xun said: "The most tormenting thing in marriage is not conflict, but boredom."
Tired of one person's charge, tired of two people's marriage.
Rich marriage: half money, half love.
On the Zhihu, someone asked: What is the best state of marriage?
One of the great answers is: no lack of money, no lack of love.
Come to think of it, it's true.
If you don't lack money, you can live without worry; If you don't lack love, you can be carefree
When it comes to model couples in the entertainment circle, many people think of Chile and Anita Yuen.
Csillam is a famous crazy person who dotes on his wife.
In a program, there is a link called "What do you want to say to your wife if there are only the last 24 hours?"
He said to Anita Yuen without hesitation:
"I dare not die, I'm afraid to go now, you and your son don't have enough money to spend. But if you say that you and your son have enough money, I won't worry even if I leave now. "
Anita Yuen and the audience were deeply moved by his heartfelt words.
Because his parents divorced when he was a child, Csillam cherished his family. Apart from working to earn money, he spends most of his time with his family.
He also revealed the details of husband and wife getting along in the program. At home, he is responsible for handling electrical appliances, while Anita Yuen is responsible for children's schooling.
They never let one of them handle the trivial matters at home alone, but divide the work between men and women, and each tries his best to do his own thing.
As he himself said: "It is the most romantic thing in marriage to give each other a stable mentality and enough sense of security."
I think this is probably the most beautiful appearance in marriage, not only trying to make money to escort the family, but also accompanying the family through thick and thin.
People often say: "Love is beautiful, but marriage is not easy."
In marriage, rice, oil, salt, bitter chicken feathers and busy chicken are scattered and tasteless.
These difficulties are inseparable from the money and the companionship of love. This is the responsibility of supporting the family and taking care of the family.
Life may be unhappy, but marriage needs nourishment.
A happy marriage is half money and half love.
Nothing, make money well; If you are free, spend more time with your lover.
Two people, three meals and four seasons, are in the same boat, warm and nourish each other.
And a marriage that nourishes each other is enough to work together for a lifetime and resist thousands of difficulties and dangers.