A letter to brother bing 1
Honey. Brother bing? ：
Please allow me, on behalf of all the military wives and prospective military wives who prostrate themselves under your military uniform, to express my true thoughts and shout out all the things that I dare not say or get angry at ordinary times. Anyway, I'm already a little weird, so I'm not afraid to be weird anymore.
Honey. Brother bing? Ladies and gentlemen, this sentence "Brother Bing" is called out in a level tone voice and a coquettish voice. Is it a girl sitting in front of the computer like me, eating cheap oranges and longan, or is it a girl sitting at home watching TV and feeding her children? Silly woman? Express my thoughts about you.
I know that you may have just watched the news at this time, or you are practicing standing at attention and being at ease with the company recruits; Or sit in the study room and study hard? Mass line? Spirit; Or sit in front of a computer with a military network and read a short article and giggle. You may even be watching the new drama "1942" in the group theater, but in either case, you will be surrounded by comrades-in-arms and brothers, that is, you will be punished if you make mistakes. Three laws? Sometimes, there will be comrades teasing and being silly.
By contrast, what about your woman? They may be hesitant to call you and ask for peace; I'm worried about whether the subjects you trained today have been aggravated, and whether the old waist with problems will hurt; When bringing new recruits, did you lose your voice because of shouting slogans and didn't know how to take medicine? Or just after work, a person is walking on the road painted with black paint, thinking about eating rice noodles or glutinous rice balls at night, and eagerly enviing the couples who walk in front to snuggle up and keep warm; Or maybe the child is crying for his father at home. She wants to be a bearded father and a long-haired mother, and she has to restrain her sense of imbalance. In short, it is a kind of worry that I don't know whether I should ask or think.
I know that soldiers are emotional and loyal, which is beyond doubt. However, at the same time, some, not just some, but a large number of soldiers have a heavy male chauvinism, thinking that they are so tall and powerful in that military uniform, and your ya is thin and small. If you dare to make me angry, I will knock you out with a slap.
Don't rush to deny it. Everyone has had this idea to some extent. The feelings you want are particularly simple. You don't need me to love you, you don't need to be coy, you like to talk. Why not just get married and become a daughter-in-law? This girl has made contributions to the country all her life. National defense? Yes
Want to be sweet? Romantic? Yes, wait. A few years later, both of them are half old. Bring back a bunch of roses on Valentine's Day or wedding anniversary. No, one is enough. The women cried with joy and said how happy they were to marry you. The pain of waiting for so many years is completely gone. This is your love.
What about women? Women are made of water, but it doesn't mean that every woman is as gentle as water in her bones. Those innocent girls, those obedient people, don't know how hard they studied and how many times they cried secretly. They learned to be strong for you. They walked alone at night for more than ten years and ate alone for decades. They dare not complain, because their men are soldiers, because they are afraid that men will be sad when they hear this, and that men will not only protect the cause of the country, but also increase their burden.
Now, there are many festivals in a year, such as Valentine's Day, Christmas, Mid-Autumn Festival, birthdays, wedding anniversaries and so on. They never thought what presents Santa Claus would secretly put in the socks at the bedside. Who would accidentally receive a bunch of roses when he woke up in the morning, let alone a big diamond ring and a big house. They will buy you a simple gold ring and be sad for many days. No matter how far or how long, their determination and belief in waiting will not run aground. This is their love.
You have regular work and rest habits, when to eat, run, turn off the lights, sleep, and even think that it is divided into time periods, and rest can't be disturbed. And the reason for bragging is? The army has rules. ?
Yes, this is a powerful reason. A soldier, a reasonable woman, takes obeying the rules as her first duty and won't make a fuss. They can only endure and wait, from a minute to an hour, to a day, a year, decades, and then decades. They dare not complain or violate the rules and regulations, but you have to understand that they are not soldiers and those rules and regulations can't cover them. They are not afraid, they are afraid that you will be punished if you don't follow the rules. Because you are their husband, you are their day.
Your loneliness, loneliness and homesickness are all in their hearts. No matter when and where, they say every word seriously, so as not to worry you. And their feelings can only be hidden in their hearts. They try to be themselves and take good care of their families, just for you to have no burden.
Actually, you are wrong. I remember there was a sentence in a movie that the hero said to the heroine? You are my sweet burden? It's all disgusting love words, but it's a good mood They are yours, even if they are a burden, they are sweet. So when every woman tells you not to worry, take out your usual strength of shouting passwords and tell them. Believe me, this is not shameful at all, it will only make everyone admire and move.
Your annual exercises and training leave behind sweat and slogans, but what about them? All that's left is tears calling your names. Think about it carefully, marrying you has taught them to be strong, but they are women after all, and they are fragile little women after all.
What they want is warmth, practicality and love, and a cup of brown sugar water at a special time every month; A scarf that I helped tie in the cold winter; After a hard day's work, I went downstairs to the place where the light was on in the room. These silly women regard the 20-day delay every year as their wedding honeymoon, counting the time, checking the calendar, waiting and waiting, looking forward to it.
Of course, I say so much just to wait for your women. Take credit? Not to mention how many men there are. Just because they love you, they are willing to use their youth and time to condense this love. They believe that the years are gentle and quiet, and they are willing to turn themselves into? Strong Xiao Qiang? Defend the love in your heart. Because you are really excellent, you have suffered the pain that others can't bear, so they are willing to help you hold up half the sky with weak shoulders.
Be proud again, because you are a real man and a responsible soldier. Because they gamble all their lives and marry these people? Men? Son, can you give the male chauvinism lurking in your head a rest? Think about doing something for them.
Don't worry, it's not an expensive diamond ring, nor an unrealistic rose. It won't make you write a love letter as hard as writing feelings. In short, say good night.
No matter how busy and tired you are, you should spare half a minute and send them a short message to say good night before going to bed. Don't underestimate the lethality of these two words. A little foreign means: I love you very much, and I only think about you at this time. There are really no conditions (expand the number of people who don't use mobile phones to once a week). This should not be difficult for you who are galloping on the battlefield and turning over obstacles flexibly.
Don't be angry when I write here. Don't think that just because I eulogize my female compatriots, I'm taking the risk? Tucao? The danger of drowning, holding this book, * * * has three connotations:
One is to give some hints to those soldiers who can't catch up with girls and have incomplete confessions, so that they can better ponder the psychology of girls; The second is to find a reason to comfort themselves for those soldiers who are lovelorn and can't give up; The third is a little advice and expectation for soldiers who are married in love. The purpose and starting point are very good and powerful, all for? National defense? Have a strong foundation and backing, for those? A bitter love history? Have a better ending for those who are happy? Waiting room? More harmonious, happy and sweet.
Finally, I wish you all? Brother bing? Children can have a beautiful flower. A gentle and delicate lady gains her own beautiful love.
I am here to convey
welcome
xxx
Xx year xx month xx day
Letter to brother bing
In everyone's eyes, this girl is strong and independent, leaving home alone, with a good job and a good income. In everyone's eyes, girls are optimistic and happy. Her eyes are smiling and her mouth is always upturned. In everyone's eyes, this girl's life is full of flavor. In a bedroom full of books and flowers, there is always exquisite food to share with people around you? But no one knew that she would cry alone, when reading Grimm's fairy tales, because she didn't care for her Prince Charming, when she drank soup alone, because no one shared it, when she was sick, because no one knew it, and on holidays, because she could only spend it quietly alone?
Until one day, she met a man like her father. She thinks he is the pillar of her life. He is a soldier. In this proud girl's heart, there are actually many disappointments. He didn't graduate from college. He has no house or car. He is also a vagrant. He smokes? Just because he looks like his father, she was moved after seeing her. His sincerity accepted him and regarded him as the whole of his life.
The world only knows that a girl's heart is hard to guess, but I don't know that a man's heart is harder to guess!
I know what I want. I don't want a car or a house I am not the kind of woman who needs to be attached to a man's life. All I want is a kind of dependence, a kind of dependence that makes me feel safe, but I suddenly find that I can't find it in continuous communication. Beijing is a realistic society, and I am not a realistic girl. My friends always say that my emotional IQ is zero because I am pursuing unrealistic dreams. Today, my father called me and asked me what I was waiting for and looking for. I told my father that what I need alone outside is a solid home, and I won't divorce, so I don't want anything, but I don't want a flashy love. I want to get married.
Male soldiers, you know? I seem to tell you:
If you really want to be with me, please tell me, don't make me feel! I know you can't give me any promises, and you feel guilty when I'm sick, but please tell me that you feel sorry for me and I'm satisfied, okay? But you didn't say anything?
If you don't want to be with me, why should you tell the introducer and your classmates? I really can't understand your heart.
You always let me guess. Do you know it's tiring? I delayed my work because I came to see you not only for marriage, but also for fun. I won't say I like someone easily, and I won't give up easily when I say I like someone. I am looking for someone who can love me. Even if you don't have time to accompany me, let me know, right?
I know you are ambitious, I know you don't want to leave the army, I know you are working hard for the future, but I am not a woman without ambition. No one in the company said I couldn't do it. If I didn't have the ability, I wouldn't be where I am today. If you work, I can do anything as long as you let me know that you are thinking of me.
Sometimes I wonder if my strength makes you flinch, but if you can give me a sense of security, how can I pretend to be so indifferent? My eyes are obviously swollen. Do you really cry? When I saw you yawning on a date, I smiled and breezed and pretended not to notice. When you asked me about my salary, I also gave a conservative overview. Although you are already an officer, I dare not tell you that my salary is about twice as much as yours. I'm always careful not to hurt your man's self-esteem?
We are not children, enjoying love can be a lifelong thing, we are still young, and we should really focus on our career now, but you should let me know, what do you think?
You send me a message to say good night every night. 12 There was no news that night. I sent you a message and then I lost my temper. You still haven't. I have been calling and sending messages to you since I woke up the next day. Nothing? Everyone saw my slouches, and it was the forgiveness of an old friend that prevented me from visiting you, you know? All day, my heart was filled with fear. I know your job is dangerous, and I'm afraid something will happen to you. You didn't call me until evening. You explained that I put away my mobile phone because of the army assessment, and then you blamed me for sending so many messages and making so many calls, you know? Including the company leaders, you are the first person to scold me?
Sometimes I seem to make it clear to your face, but you don't have time. Seeing your hard work, I don't want to give you any trouble, for fear of delaying your work. Just like today, I can only write it down because I don't feel well and I'm fine at work. I can anesthetize myself with work, you know? Others 1 1 month ago didn't have a job, but I arranged to work full-time for 6 days on the 30th. This is the only thing I can do, not to think about you?
Actually, what I want, you know, is not to be with me when I am sick, not to have a house and a car. What I want is to let me know that you are thinking of me. You are my only relative in Beijing?
I signed up for volunteer activities in Hope Primary School because I don't want to live alone in Beijing?
I deleted your phone number today. Although I can recite it now, I think I will forget it after a while.
I once made a bet with myself, but I found that I seemed to lose. I can't hold on. I wavered and gave up.
xxx
Xx year xx month xx day
Letter to Brother Bing 3
It's 2 am 10. You should stand guard. I'm not asleep. The time to say good night to you on WeChat shows 00: 08. I read the chat records over and over again.
? Idiot! ?
? Hmm?
? Haven't you gone to bed yet?
? Can't sleep! ?
? You still have insomnia! ?
? Don't! ?
? I'm sorry! ?
? It's okay. Go to bed early. ?
? Well, I'll call at two o'clock Take care of yourself. ?
? All right, good night. ?
? Good night?
For a year and a half, I have long been used to this life. Unlike others, my first love was you, a military school student. Your special status doomed our love to be extraordinary.
Remember the first time we met? You took me to your school. For fear of picketing, the two of us hid in the corner of the shooting range. After all, we were not boyfriend and girlfriend at that time. After all, we didn't know each other very well then. It should be to break the silence. So you talked about your school, training and classes. Anyway, this is a lot. To be honest, I don't quite understand it, but it has been like this since six o'clock. Time passed happily like this.
I'm afraid I'll be locked out if I'm late for school, so I have to go because both our schools have at least two hours' drive.
? I have to get back. ?
? Okay, I'll walk you out. ?
? All right. ?
? Sorry, I can't get out. It's so late. Be careful. ?
? Hmm. ?
I don't know why, I am a little reluctant and a little lost. Just when I left school, you pulled my sleeve and my heart was shaking.
? Hey! ?
? What happened?
? I don't have a girlfriend. ?
? Oh?
? What about you?
? How can I have a girlfriend?
? Where's the boyfriend?
? Don't! ?
? So now you have it. ?
? Huh?
? Ok, let's go home! ?
? Oh, oh! ?
In this way, I went back. At eleven o'clock in the evening, there is a WeChat. Is it yours? Hey, remember, you have a boyfriend. We will have a class meeting. Why don't you go to bed early?
That night, I lost sleep. I was confessed for the first time in my imagination There should be flowers and candles. If not, at least it should be official. Although it is far from my imagination, I am inexplicably happy.
But the next day you didn't have a phone call or news, and the third day you still didn't have a phone call or news. I called and turned it off. Hehe, I laughed at myself. How could I be stupid enough to believe you? In this way, I lived a life of eating, sleeping, attending classes and going to the library. Nothing has changed, but everything seems to have changed. Yes, I'm starting to worry.
After a month, my classmate gave me a letter, which was yours. You wrote it the day after I found you. You said you were going to the base for training and carrying out tasks, and you were not allowed to bring your mobile phone for 50 days. In this way, I never wrote again and began to communicate with you in the most primitive way. You said military love was hard. If I can't insist on leaving at any time, you say you don't know where you will go after graduation. In the next twenty days, my favorite thing to do is to receive, write and send letters, and enjoy it.
On the fifty-first day, I received your call and cried. That's when I really realized the joy of laughing and crying. In the next year or so, we met four times. Many times, you disappeared, appeared, disappeared and reappeared? And I watched the couple in school lose, envy, and listen to other people's military love stories with sadness and longing. Occasionally, when I see people in military uniforms on the street, I always watch them disappear, or follow him silently for a while. I see you in them.
Half a month ago, I said I was tired, and you were silent for a long time. You said to find your happiness, and I cried. Then, insomnia, anorexia, overeating, hair loss? I don't want you to know that I won't return your messages or answer your calls. The day before yesterday, you said you were at the gate of our school. The moment you saw you, you were very anxious and at a loss. I hate what I said, knowing that you only have six hours to go out and four hours to go back and forth. To reassure you that I'm fine, I'll have dinner with you. That time, I ate a lot.
I am really not a qualified girlfriend. I don't understand your work and your situation. I often complain that you can't accompany me, but I forget that what I really need to know is you. You are a soldier. You belong to the country first, and then you will belong to me. I also understand that we will face more separation in the days to come. I just read an article and fell in love with a soldier. I never know how long it will be next time, so many people.
Now you are standing guard at the school, guarding the peace of the school. In the future, you will stand guard in other places to protect people's safety. However, no matter where you stand, believe me, if you protect others, I will protect you.
I also want to say a word to you, I will always stand on your left, because your saluting right hand belongs to the motherland.
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