Ge Shuzhen married him when he was poorest, and spent the most difficult time with him, witnessing his gorgeous transformation from a poor boy to a sketch star.

But there has been an unwritten law for thousands of years. When a man becomes famous, he often dislikes his wife.

Not including Zhao Benshan!

199 1 year, Zhao Benshan divorced Ge, 1992, and entered the marriage hall with the eight-year-old junior.

Originally worthy of suffering, now worthy of enjoying happiness!

The old story repeats itself in Zhao Benshan. After many years, he still can't let go of his ex-wife:

"If I wasn't in the countryside before I was 20 years old, I wouldn't divorce even if I became famous later. I am a person who cares about my reputation very much. Divorce has turned me into a "Chen Shimei"! "

Zhao Benshan's feelings are not necessarily because he can't let go of the Gershon needle, but more because he cares about his personal feathers.

The more famous people are, the more they care about their reputation, which is the psychological characteristic of all successful people.

However, he offered to divorce the original couple Ge, and the dispute of "abandoning the dross wife" was doomed to be inevitable.

Husband and wife are United, and their profits are broken.

Zhao Benshan's childhood experience was very bitter!

At the age of six, my mother died of illness, and later my father left home. He has been learning to play, play and sing with my uncle since he was a child, and he has been stumbling. As a semi-orphan, he grew up eating hundreds of meals.

Without mom and dad, people support him. I can't describe Zhao Benshan's poverty surrounded by his family, and at that time he had a nickname of "loafer".

Before he was introduced to GM Shu Zhen at the age of 22, no girl really looked at him.

Ge Shuzhen is only 19 years old. He is also a rural family, but he is the only one who doesn't dislike Zhao Benshan's poverty.

How poor is Zhao Benshan?

At that time, Zhao Benshan didn't even have a house. When she got married with Ge, she rented a north pit, which was surrounded by curtains and became their "wedding room".

Opposite their "wedding room" is another one!

Zhao Benshan was so poor that he had to sleep on the street. Although sharing a room with others, Ge Shuzhen did not have any complaints and dislikes after marriage.

Zhao Benshan went out to earn money, took care of her life at home, and the couple worked hard to run their small family.

Shortly after their marriage, their eldest daughter Zhao Yufang was born, and their son Zhao Tiedan was born in 1982!

Tian Dinggu was supposed to be a great event in the countryside, but Zhao Benshan and Ge looked dignified:

Their son is not only deaf, but also accompanied by rickets, emphysema, heart disease and other diseases.

Having a son brings financial burden to the family, but it's actually nothing serious. As long as the husband and wife are United, there is no hurdle.

Ge Shuzhen is diligent, agile, takes good care of a pair of children, and everything at home is in good order.

With a good wife and a stable home front, Zhao Benshan can devote all her energy to her career.

As the saying goes: husband and wife are United, and their profits are broken!

In the year when his son was born, 25-year-old Zhao Benshan seized the opportunity to change his destiny:

The first rural drama rehearsal was held in Liaoning Province, and Zhao Benshan was famous in Liaoning Province for his wonderful performance in Wrestling Three Strings.

From 65438 to 0987, Zhao Benshan's fame rose again, and Seeing Lights for the Blind, which cooperated with Pan Changjiang, was highly praised: hundreds of performances were performed continuously, with an average of four or five performances a day.

The great success of The Blind Watching Lights made him a household name in Liaoning Province!

Zhao Benshan and Ge's life began to improve. They don't have to live as tight as before, and everything is developing in a good direction.

Go their separate ways after becoming famous.

When a person's luck comes, he is unstoppable.

Zhao Benshan successfully entered the famous Tieling Cultural and Art Troupe in Liaoning during the popularity of The Blind Watching the Lights, where he met Jiang Kun, a veteran figure in phonology.

At that time, Jiang Kun had another important identity. He is one of the persons in charge of the Spring Festival Gala.

Although Zhao Benshan is very popular, it is only in Liaoning!

If he really wants to become a famous sketch star, attending the Spring Festival Gala is the fastest and only way.

After watching the sketch performed by him and Pan Changjiang, Jiang Kun recommended him to the Spring Festival Gala program group as soon as he returned to Beijing.

Although Zhao Benshan failed to attend the Spring Festival Gala as expected, Jiang Kun's recommendation made his name appear in Beijing for the first time.

There is a first time, there is a second time.

1990 Zhao Benshan finally boarded the Spring Festival Evening, and his sketch "Blind Date" with Huang Xiaojuan was well received, which successfully brought him into the national audience's field of vision.

This year is the breakthrough point of Zhao Benshan's fate. He jumped from Liaoning Province to become a household name in the whole country, and his career began to enter a period of rapid progress.

However, with the overnight popularity of Zhao Benshan's Spring Festival Gala, his communication with Ge became less and less.

Ge is a typical traditional rural woman, uneducated and inarticulate: 360 days a year, around pots and pans and kitchens.

The life of her husband and children is her life, and dealing with the daily chores of her family is her whole career.

Without romance and affection, Ge is a housewife who has been turned into a yellow-faced woman by years!

After success, men's horizons are broadened, their abilities are improved, they will feel bored when they come into contact with more new things, and they will gradually become farther and farther away from their wives.

Zhao Benshan and Ge don't have much in common. As early as after a small fire in Watching the Blind Touch the Elephant, the relationship between husband and wife is like the most familiar stranger.

This is actually a sign of boredom, but boredom also has a long process and it is impossible to leave.

Until 1990, Zhao Benshan's fame reached an unprecedented height. He often goes out to participate in various activities in Shang Yan.

Coupled with success, Zhao Benshan gradually lost his old love for Ge, and probably felt that his wife was not good enough for him now.

A rural woman, a sketch star, the huge difference in identity, doomed this marriage to be unsustainable. 199 1 year, Zhao Benshan finally filed a divorce with ge.

When Ge heard that her husband was going to divorce her, she was miserable and wronged, and she kept crying.

Ge Shuzhen is not crying for himself, but more for his young daughter and sick son. She is deeply confused and worried about the children's future.

But Ge didn't get hysterical, nor did she complain about her grievances like ordinary women, nor did she scold her husband crazily.

She kept Zhao Benshan without modesty. After crying, she chose to face the reality very frankly.

199 1 On May 7th, Zhao Benshan ended his marriage with Ge 12 years:

All the children were raised by Ge, and he paid off the living expenses, alimony and medical expenses of the two children at one time, totaling 250,000 yuan.

In addition, I also sent a car and a house with three bedrooms and one living room to Ge to make up for his wife's contribution to herself and her family on 12!

No noise, no noise, everything is calm, and there is no intersection after the couple parted ways!

Powerful General Electric Shu Zhen

In the relationship between two people, the one who proposes to break up is always the easiest to start pursuing a new life.

In the second year after the divorce, Zhao Benshan met Ma Lijuan, a young teacher, and married her.

Ge learned that after Zhao Benshan remarried, she was calm, without resentment or hatred, and only thought about the future.

If you leave, you leave. No matter how tangled it is, it makes no sense.

Although Ge is an authentic rural woman, she is also a very strong woman.

After the divorce, she never looked for her husband, never used Zhao Benshan's ex-wife to make money, and never asked Zhao Benshan for help once even if she had difficulties.

Zhao Benshan gave her 250,000 yuan, but she didn't have any flowers. She kept them for her two children in case of emergency.

Ge Shu Zhen took care of the children while doing odd jobs. He was both a father and a mother, and his life was very difficult.

Although she worked very hard for her children, unfortunately, fate didn't care for her.

Zhao Tiedan, 1994 12-year-old son, finally died of a heart attack!

The death of his son was a great blow to Ge Shu Zhen. Fortunately, her daughter Zhao Yufang became her spiritual pillar.

After the loss of his son, Ge Shu Zhen stood up again and started a new life. With years of work experience, she spent tens of thousands of yuan to open a dumpling restaurant.

This is a turning point in her life. With her efforts, she gradually became a millionaire from the proprietress of a dumpling shop.

She doesn't depend on anyone, let alone Zhao Benshan!

Ge's tenacious struggle may also be to prove to Zhao Benshan with practical actions that she can live well without herself, and she does not depend on anyone to survive.

Zhao Benshan also wanted to help Ge, trying to make up for his wife's guilt to some extent, but all of them were rejected without exception.

Ge's self-improvement made Zhao Benshan feel guilty. He once said that he was most sorry for his ex-wife:

"I'm Chen Shimei, his second brother. In terms of the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation, I am such a' stain' in my life. "