Second, happiness is not for showing off, nor for comparison, but for feeling. Happiness is like drinking water, not a distant goal, but enjoying the present process. As long as you have a grateful heart, grateful life, grateful life, grateful to everyone who cares about you, happiness is everywhere. Remember: we are pursuing our own happiness, not being happier than others!
Thirdly, modern people sum up several elements of success: correct thinking, unremitting action, great personality, skillful skills, godsend opportunities and precious health. It can be seen that if you want to succeed, you must not only suffer hardships, but also have the support of relevant conditions. I'm afraid those who only know how to endure hardships, who eat hardships that are not worth eating, and who regard hardship as a magic weapon to solve all problems can only continue to wander in the strange circle of suffering.
Fourth, I don't contact because your indifference hurts me, and I don't take the initiative because I can't contact you at all.
Five, like a song, many times not because you like it, but because you miss someone in a way.
6. I pretend to be indifferent and tell myself that I am so strong that I can bear anything!
Seven, forget itself is an impossible thing, don't be paranoid.
Eight, Xia shopkeeper in "Going East" said: No one wants to deal with people who are always hypocritical and smooth, but being honest will hurt people. Therefore, businessmen pay attention to great integrity, that is, to say the right words to the right people at the right time. It can be seen that there are actually very few opportunities for everyone to tell the truth. If honesty is a kind of injury, then please choose a witty lie.
Nine, even if it is deleted, everything about you is deeply remembered in your mind and engraved in your heart.
Ten, positive people are like the sun, where they shine. Negative people are like the moon, and the fifteenth day of the first lunar month is different.
The biggest problem in life is to care too much about what others think of you. But does anyone really care about you? There are only three kinds of people in this world, those who love you, those who hate you and those who don't care about you. It is impossible for everyone to be nice to you, but as long as one person is willing to be nice to you, you have to be responsible for the other party. This is the meaning of our life. In order to love the person you love, you must love back, which is a kind of responsibility and luck.
Twelve, anything, there is always an answer. It's better to let nature take its course than to worry about it.
Thirteen, first learn to follow the crowd, and then learn to be different; Learn complexity first, then learn simplicity; Learn to love yourself first, and then learn to love others; Learn to love the people you love first, and then learn to love your friends; Learn how to live first, and then learn to experience life; Learn to be a man first, and then learn to be an official; Ask yourself first, then ask others; Learn to adapt first, then learn to be independent!
If it takes courage to love someone, forget that what a person needs is a heart to live.
If you can't get it, we will always think that he is beautiful, because you know too little about him and have no time to get along with him. One day, when you know it better, you will find that it is not as beautiful as you think.
Sixteen, I try to change myself, just want to stop making you think I'm still that silly myself.
Seventeen, once we had a lot of sweetness, and then our sweetness died quietly.
18. Did you really live for more than 10,000 days, or did you just live for one day and repeat it more than 10,000 times?
19. If you don't want to yield, you must learn to conquer.
One day, I will forget you. I didn't expect much and didn't feel lost. All I know is that one day.
Twenty-one, love needs to be retained, but it does not need to be forced. It is better to be single than to find an unsuitable person.
Remember, friend, it is not necessarily the happiest to laugh with you, but the most sad to cry with you.
23. I am the most unsuccessful woman. I have done everything I can, but I still can't make the person I love love me.
I love you, but I really can't say it. Because this is a promise, not a joke.
I don't want to grow up, but I must face it.
1, I don't want to grow up, but I have to face growing up. One should take care of oneself more. If it's cold, add a coat for yourself. If he is hungry, buy himself a loaf of bread. If he is ill, give yourself strength. Even if you are alone, you should live happily.
For a moment, we all thought we had grown up. But one day, we finally found that the meaning of growth is not only desire, but also courage, responsibility, strength and some necessary sacrifices, including love and being loved. It turns out that none of us have grown up, and we are all stubborn children.
If it is easy to break up because of long-distance love, don't blame distance. You should be glad that you left someone who didn't really love you, because in the face of love, distance is really nothing. Therefore, if your lover is far away, don't feel lonely or wronged, but be glad that you have exchanged loneliness and missing for a true love, which is the love that others can't wait for.
Actually, I'm fine, but I'm not used to it. I'm just in a bad mood occasionally. I just miss someone suddenly at a certain moment. I just feel sad when I hear a familiar sentence …
5, feelings for a long time, it is not love, but dependence. Then when you lose it, it's not pain, but giving up. ...
6, true love, like a meteor, may only be seen once in a lifetime, and missing it is a lifetime.
7. Of all the good and bad emotions, thinking of you without warning is my hidden disease.
8. I refuse the concern of all my friends. I don't know why, I dare not accept even a little concern, because I am afraid that I will become greedy, fragile and cowardly. If one day I lose those worries, I'm afraid I can't stand it.
9. I seldom cry loudly. I remember someone said that when I cry, I will not cry when I look up. I don't know if it's because I drink too much water, so high water will overflow when I lift my head, and then my clothes will get wet.
10, you are angry because of his words and have been sulking for a long time, waiting for him to coax you. Maybe in the end, he didn't even know what he said wrong. So now I understand that communication must be the most important. You are angry, you ignore him, and you cry, which will only make him feel unreasonable. You think he can understand, you think he can understand, but in their eyes, they will only feel ignorant. If you don't say something, they will never know.
1 1, looking at other people's stories, suddenly my nose is sour. Obviously, we are different people, but we feel that what we say is our feelings. We have so many stories, sweet and sad, but I don't have the courage to record them word by word. I'm afraid I will cry.
12, let's play a game, where meeting is the beginning, holding hands is the continuation, kissing is sweet, romance is the melody, laughter is the theme, slapstick is the episode, there is no ending, and it will continue forever. ...
13, perhaps happiness is to accompany you on a road called life, cross a bridge called helplessness and have a sip of soup called Meng Po. Maybe very tired, very tired, but never thought of giving up; Perhaps the scenery along the way is charming and full of temptation, but they maintain their initial feelings for each other; There may be disputes and differences, but they will still listen and acquiesce; Maybe we can't be together every second, but we will always have a place in our hearts.
14, sometimes, I don't even understand what I'm struggling with. It's always meaningless to see people finally numb and at a loss. I really don't know how to get along with people and how to fight with strangers, so I left a cold and arrogant name in front of strangers.
15, it seems that I have lost my language ability. Occasionally I want to talk to someone, but I am at a loss and don't know what I want to express. Then all the emotions disappeared, and the brain went blank, as if there was nothing to say. In the end, everything belongs to silence.
16, the injured person is afraid that his heart will become cold and hard, and then he will be moved by the things around him, unconsciously and without enthusiasm. No matter how strong I become, you will still be my weakness. Love is like this, you hurt others, whether intentionally or unintentionally, someone will always hurt you.
17, maybe one day we will hold hands with others and forget each other.
18, it is meaningless to deliberately change yourself for others, because then you will not be you, and he will not even love the real you, let alone fall in love with you who is different from you.
19, I think, some things can be forgotten, some things can be commemorated, some things can be willingly, and some things are powerless. I love you, this is my only disaster.
20. In a riddled world, there are many things worth crying and few things worth laughing, so cherish everyone who makes you happy.
QQ Space wrote a classic for yourself: You may not succeed, but you must grow up.
1, I love everything about you, your infinite tolerance, your strong backing and hard armor. I have to say, I have a good eye!
I always think there is nothing wrong with being single. I always thought that there was nothing to envy about the story of being very much in love. I always thought that a person could have a wonderful life. But occasionally I saw the independent space he had circled for her on a crowded bus, and suddenly I felt empty and sad. There is nothing to be ashamed of. I have to admit that no matter how strong you are, you still need a gentle hug.
3. The person who secretly loves always becomes strong after a period of secret love, and grows into a person who accepts the love of others or pursues his own love, which seems to have nothing to do with that person. How naive that person is, when he is loved, he knows nothing. It seems that the strength of others after being loved has nothing to do with him, but I have to admit that he inadvertently created a person's transformation and growth, making that person so great.
4. People are not born strong. In this rapidly changing world, we should force ourselves to become strong and make ourselves strong.
I really need to get sick and have a hard time, so I want to be strong and face life with a smile.
Everyone wears a smiling face, and no one knows how painful the scar behind this smiling face is. This is not anodyne, at least in the dead of night, but this reality makes us have to be strong, put on a smiling face and face life. Please cherish every day of your life.
7. I never thought I would have a lonely day before, but then I gradually realized that everyone in life will have lonely moments, only you, so I have to understand myself, but I know that I am weak and I still have to pretend to be strong. I need to bury a lot of things in my heart silently, because I don't understand after all, or I may never understand. Maybe that's it. People can be stupid sometimes. Because I don't understand, only by hitting the wall and reflecting more can I get better. I always like to ask why, but later I found that many things are probably for no reason, so I can only understand them slowly. I am looking forward to the transformed you, the one who has always been very proud.
8. Sometimes, we have to be strong, so in pretending to be strong, we are really getting stronger and stronger. It's true.
9. Life won't give you special treatment just because you are a woman! Career will not give way to you just because you are a woman! There are only two kinds of women in the world: one is happy and the other is strong! Happiness: being held in the palm of your hand, not strong. Strong: I am dissolved in tears and grievances and have to be strong. This is the difference! Just because you are a woman, you can't succeed, but you must grow up.
10, I woke up in a sweat from my dream, and I couldn't stop crying after waking up. I don't know how many grievances I have, but I have to let tears burst in my dreams.
1 1, if possible, who doesn't want to be taken care of, like a child, all strength and independence are not due to self-reliance.
12, life is really hard, let's stop and go. But I can't go out tomorrow and stop yesterday. I have to admit that times have changed a lot. Some things are destined to be hidden in my heart. Many times, you have no choice but to be strong. Life is like this. Life is too short, you can only laugh it off, and you can spend every day strongly. Tell yourself that you must live every day!
13, there are some things that I don't want to happen, but I have to accept; There are some things I don't want to know, but I must learn; Some people can't lose, but let go. No matter how bitter the tears and heartache are, they can only pretend to be strong and really good.
14, something that can attract more attention. So I believe it is still a very important one. Really. Being strong and brave is the most touching! It has long been stolen by his TV series. I have to say, it was really fun. Every character thought it was good-looking, and saw it.
15, I like every image of you, virtuous, elegant, brave and strong. I have to say, I think acting is really great, and people are paying more and more attention.
Quotations from nan huaijin _ Very classic, required reading.
Nan, 19 18, from Dituan Township, Liucheng District, Yueqing, Zhejiang Province (now Qiaotou Village, Dituan Community, Wengyang Street). Young people learn from the imperial court and less from a hundred schools of thought. China is one of the masters of contemporary China studies.
1 People often ask me why I have such good knowledge. I always tell the truth. This is the result of memorizing these ancient books before I was thirteen.
Everyone is truly free if he develops an independent personality and stands out from others. No language can express people's true thoughts and feelings. If there is a way, there will be no misunderstanding between people.
We all often hear about getting carried away, but according to my personal decades of life experience, I have to add a word: getting carried away by setbacks. Some people used to be nice. When he is rich and proud, everything is handled well and people are polite. But once frustrated, even people don't want to see them. A pair of annoying faces, inferiority complex and various troubles followed, and people completely changed.
I don't know what charity is and what reward is. All beings in this world don't know what real charity is, and they don't know what reward is. They think that giving money will bring merit. They think if they help others, they will get something in return. This mentality is not charity, it is business!
It is very problematic to follow everyone who has no sense of identity. There is no ambition to ask for heaven, and it is genius to expose heaven. This is the goal of life.
6 people can't live without learning and knowledge. What's the use of drilling for the sake of study? We don't agree with such knowledge.
Seven conditions for being a general: as strong as an ox; As mean as a dog; As cunning as a fox; As clever as a monkey; Charm like the devil.
The great goal of this world politics is accomplished in twelve words: good weather, peaceful country and people, and living and working in peace and contentment. But if you want to ask, when will the world achieve peace and harmony? I said, humans may never realize it. If mankind really has such a society, it will be the time for the destruction of the universe. Society is very strange, that is, chaos, there are positive and negative, so it has a taste. Peace is good, but peace is not fun!
9 autumn leaves are piled up and swept away thousands of times. Sitting in a leisure place with a smile, let him fall to the ground.
Nan huaijin _ Very classic, must see.
10 the founder of Zen Buddhism said: "Buddha is an ordinary person who does nothing." Therefore, learning Buddhism should be based on serious books, not serious books. Don't cling to all the words in Buddhist scriptures. Once you cling to them, I'm sorry, although it's not a heresy, it's a sideline, that is, religious prejudice. Religious prejudice is the most exclusive and exclusive. But I think every religion is the same, because it basically teaches people kindness, which is not wrong! Needless to say, you are a teacher, so am I. You take a nap and I sleep in. The highest point of religion is different, but you should not look at others with the highest point, but from the equal line.
1 1 Ordinary is Buddha. People who study Buddhism are crazy and refuse to be ordinary. After the Buddha realized the Tao, he lamented that "all living beings have the wisdom and virtue of the Tathagata", all of them are Buddhas, and everyone has all the wisdom and virtue of the Buddha. Why can't they be enlightened? You can't prove it just because you are delusional and persistent. Then you just don't want to insist. Isn't it simple? You said, yes, so I have paranoia every day. Alas, didn't you insist on getting rid of delusion again? So you can't even drink a tank of water, let alone a river.
12 according to my research, the foundation of everyone's knowledge and career is based on adolescence, regardless of ancient and modern times. From this period of adolescence, we can see the achievements of middle-aged and elderly people from the personality of teenagers. A person's life is also the ideal of youth and the cultivation of knowledge. In middle age, the career is to play the ideal of youth and recall the achievements of his youth when he is old.
13 The highest state of life is that Buddhism is the heart, Taoism is the bone, Confucianism is the table, and the world is open. Skills in hand, you can be in it, thinking in your head, and live calmly.
14 What's the difference between the outer road and the inner road? How can you call it heresy? Seek outside the heart, seek outside the Tao. In general, religions use heresy casually. For example, if I believe in Buddhism and you don't, you are a heretic. I believe in Catholicism, but you don't believe in my Catholicism. You are a heretic. I believe in some way, but you don't. You are a heretic. These are all nonsense. This heresy, like secular law, is from my point of view. Those who disagree with me are heretics, belonging to the following five viewpoints; See for yourself, look from the side, see Jaken, see and get seen, avoid and get seen. Seeing is ideas, and ordinary people are bound by these ideas and can't get rid of them, and they can't prove Bodhi.
15 The reason why every Buddha can become a Buddha and achieve Tao is because he has his great wish and his original wish, and he can succeed. Attention! The story ends here. We only want me to be good when we study Buddhism. I am selfish. Because every Buddha has his own special wishes and achieved his own special merits. For example, people who do business in the world, some people like to open department stores, some people like to open rice shops, etc., can make continuous efforts to develop and make achievements in their own expertise. This is the case in the world, especially when you are born to ask for Buddha. You must have his original wish first.
16 according to my research, the foundation of everyone's knowledge and career is based on adolescence, regardless of ancient and modern times. From this period of adolescence, we can see the achievements of middle-aged and elderly people from the personality of teenagers. A person's life is also the ideal of youth and the cultivation of knowledge. In middle age, the career is to play the ideal of youth and recall the achievements of his youth when he is old.
17 A good doctor can never save a patient; The tutor doesn't lead the way. Good food can persuade people to have a full meal; Rare treasures may not impress an honest man's mind. Today's world is dominated by science and technology. Without the cultivation of personality, it is chaos and abrasion. Education is just selling knowledge, which is the fundamental source of confusion and distress. Only when science, technology, philosophy, religion, literature and art, and personality cultivation education return to unity, return to the standard, and develop in a balanced way can there be hope.
18 don't be afraid of loneliness and desolation when studying. Only with this spirit and attitude can we talk about learning.
19 where does learning come from? Learning is neither language nor knowledge. Learning comes from life experience and is realized by doing things. This accomplishment is not only read in books, but also our books and education.
China's culture is like the father-son relationship between teachers and students. Before, one day he became a teacher and a father all his life. Teachers also take lifelong responsibility for their students. We have seen with our own eyes that this trend was still maintained decades ago. Even if a student wins the first prize, the official will do a lot. When I returned to my hometown, I saw my teacher, who had neither fame nor status. Students should bow to him, just as they did when they were teachers. Students are so kind to teachers, and teachers should be responsible for students all their lives.
2 1 A few years ago, on Teacher's Day, the child went home and gave money to the teacher, saying that he would give him 50 yuan. The child definitely said no, and it was for the teacher. 100 yuan. This kind of thing fades in middle school; After high school, there is no such concept at all; When students go to college, they are all irrelevant strangers when they meet their teachers. On the other hand, the teacher does the same to his students. He took out a leather bag, explained it with a book, and then took an hour's fee. Both are commercial activities. After teaching, do you understand? It's your business to take a purse and leave. In my opinion, it is very unusual for students to meet their teachers on the road. Generally speaking, they don't know each other, so they meet face to face. The higher their knowledge, the less they have the spirit of respecting teachers and valuing morality. This is a great irony of China culture today.
When a country's politics and finance develop, if its cultural foundation can't keep up, and its culture can't keep up with the level of financial development, the national society will be very dangerous. If there is only culture, finance and economics will not develop, and the lives of ordinary people will not work.
Now, respecting teachers is just a slogan. The people who truly respect teachers are primary school students. I think you all have this experience. If our children are in primary school, they will keep their mouths shut when they come back.
To truly learn Buddhism, you must have a correct epiphany in addition to making a wish. It is difficult to have a correct view. Only with a correct view can we talk about practice. Only with the correct viewpoint can we talk about the correct method. If your knowledge is not true, then all practitioners will take the road of evil pleasure. Insight is also the reason why the Shurangama Sutra is untrue and the fruit is the heart of the song. Therefore, to learn Buddhism, you must have a positive view before you can practice.
Fear is respect, life is fearless, and it is really dangerous.
Today's world is dominated by science and technology. Without personality cultivation, it is chaotic and tiring. Education only sells knowledge, which is the source of confusion and distress. Only when science, technology, philosophy, religion, literature and art, and personality cultivation education return to unity, return to the standard, and develop in a balanced way can there be hope.
Confucius and Mencius thought was originally separated from Taoism, and this separation occurred after Qin and Han Dynasties. China culture in Tang Dynasty was not discussed by Confucianism, Mohism and Taoism, but by Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism. Now, the only way to study real Buddhism is to come to China. What Europeans and even Japanese say is incorrect.
28 Tao is justice for everyone in the world. The meaning of life lies not in the body, but in the self-brightness. Don't be led by the big four, and don't play with them.
Politeness borders on politeness, but it is far from shame. Respect when you are polite. The so-called ceremony means that you are serious about things, not to salute or respect everyone; Although you don't salute, when a friend is in trouble, you will know that you care infinitely. Therefore, people respect others and disrespect others. Although the superficial attitude is important, what is more important is the inner thing. Therefore, respect is politeness. Why should people be respectful? Stay away from shame, so as not to bring unnecessary shame.
There is nothing to say about real Buddhism, and it is unnecessary for us to talk about pharmacist classics here today; I had a thorough understanding before I talked about the classics of pharmacists. This is the true doctrine. Everything in the 84 thousand law is heresy and everything is right. Therefore, what the six ancestors of Zen Buddhism said to their disciples at that time had his correct reasons. Six ancestors said: the righteous use evil methods, and the evil methods are also positive; The wicked use the right method, and the right method is also evil. So, where is the Dharma? Buddhism lies in knowing what is right, knowing what is right and seeing what is right. However, strictly speaking, is the real knowledge of rights right? Not yet. You still can't get it. Really, there is no righteousness, no evil, no good, no evil, nothing, even nothing. That's almost Buddhism, otherwise everyone's statement is not Buddhism. Like I'm in class now, now I can say that I'm slandering Buddhism, because there's nothing to say.
Before 3 1, the greater the official's work, the greater the learning, and the advanced learning after work. As can be seen from Beijing Opera, officials take their wives home at the door, are invited by their hosts and wives, and then sent to the study. What about now? Some civil servants have two dinners a day, just eating, and then they leave in five or six hours. How can they have time to work? When I come back, I will sing karaoke again. It's totally OK karaoke! The problem is too serious to be completed.
It is not enough to look at the positive history, but also to read novels. The so-called history, often people's names, places and times are true, and the content is not very reliable; In the novel, people's names, place names and time are all false, but that story is often true.
This is an era in which democracy, equality and freedom seem to be the most important. In fact, emperors all over the world are surnamed Qian, and money is the master. Money determines the ranking. Without money, there is no freedom. There is no truly independent and outstanding personality cultivation and knowledge cultivation, only messy so-called personality publicity and money first. Even scientific research, education and academics are under the command of money. Without spiritual support, once they lose their jobs, it's like the sky is falling.
34 Buddha is the heart, Tao is the bone, Confucianism is the table, and the world is generous; Skills in hand, you can be in it, thinking in your head, and live calmly.
The soul spirit of a nation is culture.
I read the four books and five classics in those years and memorized them all. The children are very happy after school. You push me and I push you while singing. If you study like this, you will keep it in mind and never forget it. When I think of it, I meditate in my heart, and the truth is once again pondered.
If consumption is to stimulate production, it is better to fight every day. So you see, the United States has provoked wars everywhere, which is the biggest consumption stimulus to production. Now, the United States advocates adopting the so-called neo-liberal economic thought. You should learn from this neo-liberalism, stand completely in your own country's position, rule the world with economic weapons, control people all over the world with money, and become an international economic warlord. What kind of culture is this? We should think deeply.
The warning of youth is colorful, the warning of youth is in struggle, and the warning of old age is in harvest.
If you want to lose your temper, turn your temper into compassion and boredom into happiness, this is called practicing step by step and correcting your behavior.