How to be a good dormitory management teacher 1 and let psychological care enter the dormitory?
Dormitory is the place where college students live and the most relaxing place. In the dormitory, they can talk about any problem at will. Teachers with mental health should take some time to go to the dormitory to listen to their own life and views on all aspects of the school, find out what difficulties they have and listen to their own voices. This will not only help to enhance the emotion between teachers and students, but also learn some mental health information that is difficult to learn through other channels. Of course, don't let the students think you are like their mother. You want to take care of everything, want to know everything, and concentrate on listening, so as to get the information you want. In addition, in addition to chatting with students, we should also chat with the staff on duty in the dormitory. From them, you can learn about a student's recent bad mood and some students' personalities. Provide mental health training for community workers, dormitory aunts, etc. So as to identify and prevent the occurrence of psychological crisis.
2. Take different ways according to the needs of students of all grades.
According to the development and actual needs of students in different grades, different measures are taken: (1) Freshmen pay attention to the cultivation of adaptability and self-reliance. When I enter the university for the first time, I face a new environment, a new life, new learning tasks and methods, and new interpersonal relationships. It all has to start all over again. For the post-80s college students who are independent and self-comparing, they may encounter more problems. Therefore, we should pay attention to adaptive education, including life adaptation, study adaptation, how to establish good interpersonal relationships and how to use our spare time. (2) Sophomore students improve their willpower and teamwork spirit through quality development. Quality development can not only enhance college students' physique, challenge their limits and tap their potential, but also improve their self-confidence, self-reliance and teamwork spirit. This is also a good psychological training method. At present, many colleges and universities are taking quality development activities according to the students' situation, and some colleges and universities have also established their own development bases, and regularly hire specialized personnel to train students, so as to guide students to understand their psychological significance while training. This form is also very popular with students. Quality development activities are more suitable in lower grades, because there is military training in freshmen, and it is best to put it in sophomores. At the same time, we should guide college students to make good academic planning. (3) Junior and senior students focus on employment counseling to help college students better choose whether to find a job or continue their studies, and do a good job in psychological counseling during their further studies or career choices.
3. Build an innovative platform for students to stimulate their creative enthusiasm.
The school builds an innovation platform for college students, such as organizing students to carry out scientific and technological innovation and participating in various competitions relying on various colleges. Give full play to students' creativity, stimulate their creative enthusiasm, make them feel their own value and enhance their self-confidence.
4. Change the passive situation in psychological counseling and take the initiative to care for students.
Psychological counseling and counseling are generally waiting for students to take the initiative to consult, but many students have misunderstandings about psychological counseling or some factors prevent them from receiving counseling, so they are passive. When we know the information of some students, we will take the initiative to learn more information through counselors and psychological Committee members. After doing some basic understanding, should we guide them to receive counseling through counselors and psychological Committee members, or take the initiative to go to the dormitory and classmates? Keep in close contact and learn more. Starting from being friends, gradually gain the trust of students. Students themselves will tell you some things, especially interpersonal relationships and study problems, publicize their psychological awareness in chat and guide them to receive counseling.
5. Conduct mental health education in a way that students can accept.
Because college students born in the 1990s like to use the Internet to get information, learn new knowledge and make new friends, we can also use the online platform for mental health education, for example, we can communicate with students through email, QQ, Fetion, online messages and blogs. Future mental health education will also focus on the Internet.
How to be a dormitory management teacher? First of all, define the work center of life guidance teachers.
The work center of life guidance teachers:? Education, management and service? . The work place is mainly the student apartment. Because students' life at home is different from their life at school, especially for students who can't adapt to the new life, it is particularly important to guide them to learn to live, what methods can help them with their psychological quality, and how to cultivate their self-reliance ability.
Students grow up in different environments between the teaching area and the living area, and it is relatively relaxed to return to the living area after a busy day's study. But as far as the living area itself is concerned, as a part of the whole school, it needs strict organization and discipline, and students are not allowed to wander around at will, which determines the importance of life management. On the one hand, we can understand the weaknesses of students' thoughts and behaviors through living quarters; On the other hand, it can guide students to form good habits in daily life. Therefore, the work of life guidance teachers is not only the management of students' diet and daily life, but also the education work, which is an important part of students' ideological and moral education and school moral education.
Second, the school rules and discipline are regarded as the management standard of quasi-behavior.
Discipline is of great significance for safeguarding collective interests and educating students. First of all, discipline is guiding, guiding students to develop in the right direction; Secondly, discipline has a binding effect, and restraining students' individual behavior cannot go against the collective interests. The establishment of quasi-behavior management norms is essential for students to develop good civilized habits, promote the healthy development of body and mind, and improve moral quality, which is the need of students' socialization. The education of students in living quarters begins with trivial matters, and it is impossible to attract students with subject knowledge like teachers. Even in the process of education, students will encounter contempt or resistance to existing problems, which makes it very difficult to carry out education. In addition, students spend a lot of time in the living area, so they can't concentrate on a certain problem like class. Therefore, as a leader in the management of living quarters, we must strictly implement all disciplines of the school, formulate conventions to restrain students' daily behavior according to school rules and disciplines, organize students to learn relevant requirements, and let them seriously understand and implement them in action, so that there are rules to follow. At the same time, strengthening democratic management can not only give full play to the main role of students, but also give full play to the leading role of teachers, thus avoiding the situation of disorganization, lack of discipline and laxity.
Third, care for and guide students' healthy ideological growth.
Students' thoughts are constantly changing. On the one hand, they try to get rid of their parents and teachers, hoping not to wear them? Chains? Live according to your ideal way; On the other hand, due to their lack of personal knowledge and experience and lack of self-discipline, they treat their daily lives casually and like to emphasize their individuality, which is bound to lead to problems of one kind or another. As a life guidance teacher, the basic duty is to let students complete a process of growth and progress from ignorance to understanding and from junior to senior. In daily life, teachers should carefully observe each of their students and master their thoughts and behaviors. At the same time, we should also understand that it is normal for students to have problems in their daily lives, and there is no need to be overly nervous. The key is what attitude the teacher holds and how to deal with it. A person's thoughts have a direct impact on his behavior. If he does not pay attention to ideological education but only emphasizes behavior, it is impossible to achieve the ideal effect. When students have problems, teachers should analyze the causes of students' problems, prescribe the right medicine, do a good job in students' ideological education patiently and carefully, help them distinguish right from wrong, beauty and ugliness, good from bad, guide them to abandon wrong views and practices, and try to avoid students making repeated mistakes.
Fourth, a good teacher-student relationship creates a harmonious atmosphere of a big family.
The relationship between teachers and students directly affects the educational effect. Establishing a good relationship between teachers and students is both an educational purpose and a means. As a teacher, you should have both? Mentor? I think so, right? Yiyou? Students like fair, understanding and approachable teachers. After establishing a good relationship between teachers and students, they are willing to open their hearts to their teachers and tell them what they think. If you just emphasize it? Teacher dignity? Being too harsh on students can easily lead to students' antipathy and resistance to teachers, resulting in tension between teachers and students. Therefore, first of all, teachers are required to be strict with themselves, set an example, have a good moral demeanor, carefully observe and understand students, and find out their joys and sorrows in order to achieve emotional harmony; Secondly, we should have a correct evaluation of students, and we should not stereotype students too early, thinking that obedience is a good student, and it is necessary to offend ourselves or violate discipline? Punishment? On the contrary, we should treat students equally and respect them without damaging their personality and self-esteem. Listen to what they say, observe what they do, and discuss problems in their study and life with them; Thirdly, we should give full play to students' subjective initiative, so that every student can have a sense of accomplishment, thus creating a relaxed and harmonious living environment, so that students can love teachers and schools.
How to be a dormitory management teacher? 1. Establish the tenet of putting people first and doing everything for students.
Everything is for students, and the needs of students are our work. At the beginning of each school year, we use wall newspapers and blackboard newspapers to publicize a lot of security and anti-theft knowledge, from the identification of fire exits to emergency measures after a fire. From the identification of strangers to dormitories, to the prevention of approaching dormitories. Anything that can be introduced to students will be publicized as much as possible to provide students with a safe and comfortable living environment, so that students can feel at ease and parents can feel at ease.
In the past, some students swept the garbage to the door of the dormitory and were swept away by the cleaning staff. Leakage and flying will inevitably occur during cleaning and transportation, which is not convenient for transportation and pollutes the environment. In order to change this situation, we didn't simply stipulate how to do it, and there was no fine, but we designed it humanized. Garbage bagging? Scheme: The staff send plastic bags to the student dormitory every day and wait by the garbage can on the first floor from 7: 30 to 8: 00. Every time they send a bag of garbage, they will get a copy of Chutian Metropolis Daily. After a period of hard work, all the students have developed it now? Bagged garbage, centralized delivery? Our habits not only bring us a beautiful living environment, but also greatly reduce the workload of our garbage transportation.
We put forward a working slogan:? With my great efforts, I will give you a hundred reassurances. ? We will publicize this slogan at the conference and compare it with major issues. We want this slogan to be the voice of every staff member. We will make this slogan into a banner and hang it in the apartment area.
Second, improve the quality of managers and better serve students.
1. Before and after the start of each semester, please ask the leaders of the logistics group, the education department and the security department to give lectures to the management personnel on security and anti-theft knowledge and management art, so as to fundamentally improve the quality of the management personnel.
2. Strengthen the sense of responsibility of managers through regular intensive learning and information publicity. Let them know that it's not just about? Watch the door? , more Cultivate good people? . They are required to be familiar with their own business, have clear working ideas, be dedicated to their posts and dare to manage them well.
3. Organize the coordinator to inspect the floors frequently, especially when the dormitory is empty, and find out the potential safety hazards in time. We ask the coordinator to check the student dormitory more than twice a day.
4. Apartment is the window of college spiritual civilization, and we ask administrators to provide civilized service and warm reception. Say polite words first. Hello! ? ,? Please show me your student ID card! ? ,? Thank you? Standardize polite language, increase affinity and let students and teachers agree with us.
5. Put an end to salesmen and strangers entering the apartment, register students' valuables in detail, and notify the Student Affairs Office and the Security Office in time when problems are found.
Third, strengthen the study of health knowledge to make the cleaning work more humanized.
In order to enable students to study and live happily every day, we strive to create a beautiful and clean living environment. Our slogan is:? Let the students who have lived here remember us and think of our service and management. ? We think this is also an investment, a service investment and an emotional investment. After hard work, we believe that we will get rich returns. We also often study hygiene standards, organize all cleaning staff to check one by one, improve one by one, learn one by one, and implement one by one, so that they can understand the effect that their work should achieve.
Fourth, strengthen fire prevention education to ensure the safety of dormitory.
The assistant manager, floor manager and dormitory manager in the apartment are all students themselves. Tell them how to use fire-fighting equipment, be familiar with the report and alarm telephone number, report the case to the police in time, and emphasize the method of self-protection, which can be widely publicized among students. Last year, after the fire broke out in Moscow Friendship University, we immediately cut out the newspaper, copied it and posted it on the bulletin board of every apartment. We held three fire safety work conferences specifically for the fires in Moscow Friendship University and Hankou Commercial Hospital, educated the managers on basic safety knowledge, organized students to organize three more than 60 editions of fire safety publicity, and cut and paste the true contents of newspapers for publicity and education.
5. Sacrifice yourself and make rounds? High power? An electrician? Humanization?
Ward rounds? High power? The work of electrical appliances and random connection and pull is an important aspect of our daily work. High power? Electrical appliances and indiscriminate pulling are all working hours, and there is no one in the dormitory at this time. Is the student school confiscated or rectified? High power? Electrical appliances, students do not understand very well, and can not play a role in educating students. In order to change this situation, we ask scouts, administrators and student cadres to make use of the time when there are people in the dormitory at noon and at night to make inspections? High power? The phenomenon of electrical appliances and random connection and pulling requires students to rectify on the spot, which will affect the rest of our staff, but if the above problems are solved, our work will be more? Humanization? At the same time, it also educated students.
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2. Assist the dormitory management department of the Student Union to establish the responsibility system for the building manager, the building manager and the dormitory manager, and cooperate with the administrator to do the daily management of the dormitory, which not only cultivates the students' social practice ability, but also narrows the distance between the administrator and the students, creating conditions for finding and solving problems in time, which can be described as killing two birds with one stone.
3, to carry out civilized dormitory selection activities, by students to participate in the inspection and appraisal, the dormitory with good interior, good environment and good spirit is appraised once a week, and timely praise and reward. Our prizes are also very humanized, such as the last one? Civilized dormitory? We rewarded the flowing red flag and a bag of cleaning products such as washing powder or mop, which was awarded twice in a row? Civilized dormitory? Yes, we will reward you for one month? Chutian Metropolis Daily? Let students receive civilization education every day and think about civilization construction every day.