To paraphrase the words of Lao Cha Yu, the founder of Niuxiao.com, "I sell dreams, and old tea sells the truth". Don't get me wrong, this is not an advertisement. You can carefully identify the reasons that persuade you to study abroad. Which one is not a "dream" wrapped in "truth"? ?
Sorry, there is no floating truth in the sky.
I also learned from the local Sin Chew Daily that by March 2065438+2007, the number of mainland students studying in Malaysia had reached 12000, compared with only 2000 five or six years ago, which can be described as skyrocketing. Of course, it is not surprising that the climate of studying abroad is here.
After calculating the accounts for two years, the consumption of four semesters has gradually decreased (40,000, 36,34,365,438+0), and I feel that I have spent a lot. I lived with a student agency for one year, and I was robbed of the deposit twice for renting a house in two years (I fell twice in the same place). I am busy trying to reach CGPA3.5 every semester. Irregular staying up late and being nervous have been oppressing my confidence and growing day by day. I have three friends from China who play very well. One of them is my roommate for two years, and seven MCA students with the same major have a good relationship with me. Now think about it, those difficult design projects in senior one are all thanks to their enthusiastic help. I don't take university rankings seriously either. Ranking is just a comfort to my heart. This year, my ranking in universities is equivalent to Wuhan University and Tongji University. Nice to meet some people. However, I think I should keep my distance from the so-called ranking. Ranking is the honor of the university, and my ability is my own capital. Understanding a university through ranking is inevitably superficial and one-sided.
Some people I come into contact with are scum (not just personalities), spend a lot of money, take photos of the Twin Towers every year, smoke in bars, and muddle along in their studies. Friends always show superiority. Many times, the scenery behind it is inevitably narrow. Of course, it is more silent and sensitive. These people always keep their distance from others, which is harmless, but it is difficult for you to understand their thoughts. Some universities with a large number of international students cheated in the final exam. I remember a friend told me about those compatriots who embarrassed him. Of course, there are certainly capable international students from China. I admire their adaptability to the environment and their requirements and constraints on themselves. "Circle culture" is very common in most countries studying abroad. Understandably, the circle of international students in China is always far away from the local circle, but the reason for this phenomenon is to alienate them with various interfaces instead of trying to communicate. In China, we don't know our own country, and in Malaysia, we don't try to understand what happens in this land every day.
Of course, I was lucky enough to meet several world-class players. Some people are flexible, good at making friends of all ages, dare to contact and try strange fields, and have a good reputation. Some are very kind, but they dare to resist those unfair situations instead of bowing their heads and forbearing.
Now, ask yourself: If you decided to study in Malaysia because your future was bleak, your grades were not enough, you were afraid of the competition in the college entrance examination, and you were lucky, plus some "intermediary" guidance, would you definitely put aside all these defects after studying abroad?
This is all your own business, not the environment or anything. So from this perspective, there is no difference between private and public. In fact, many people have said the same thing to me: "I really don't have any ambitions, so this is not my problem." Now all the expenses are borne by the family, so don't worry about basic food and clothing. But one day, you will no longer be a student, you will bid farewell to your present life, and you will fight for your "survival". You will see a world that is a hundred times more complicated than your hometown and Malaysia. Life is like a flood sweeping through your fragile earth dam. All the young predictions will disappear, but when you wake up, you will be deeply immersed in it.
Back to my previous point of view, most people who choose Malaysia have some kind of defects, some of which are really serious. Not bad after graduation, and some dropped out of school within two years. Big waves wash sand, and there is no escape from competition. This is a natural law, but there are always people who don't know their position.
Tell me about your recent internship. Architecture major plus two people, the internship location is set in Shanghai, Guangzhou and Hangzhou. I invested in 20 companies in the first round. After a week, all of them sank into the sea, voted for 67, and finally returned to 4, but only 4, and finally settled in Shanghai. Students voted for 70 schools, only returned to 4, and finally went to Beijing. Losing is common, but this application is still a great blow to us. At least we need to wake up early and know our competitiveness in China. On the other hand, it is so difficult to apply for the position of intern with the lowest salary. Can you feel a little crisis? I didn't realize that my education was nothing until I went to the firm. Most of them are returnees, including Britain, America, Australia, Germany, Italy and Holland, UCLA, Milan Institute of Technology, Imperial College of Art, Carnegie Mellon, AA, Delft Institute of Technology and Bath. The remaining efforts in China are Tongji, Wuda, Huazhong Science and Technology, Northeastern University, Shandong University and Hunan University. But they are humble, enthusiastic, practical and purposeful, and complete the project plan efficiently. Now think about it, a diploma can be used as a stepping stone, which is a kind of luck, not to say how good a company you entered, but to give you a second chance to see yourself clearly.
My father often throws cold water on me and always says that I will be nothing when I come back with this diploma. Don't take yourself seriously. It's not that I am lowering myself, but that I am not tall at all. Two years ago, I might have been unconvinced by those who graduated from Malaysia and were admitted to the United States and Australia. Looking back now, in this era of overseas returnees, whether Malaysian or China, where will we go?
Off-topic, I have been paying attention to the qq group established by three international students. One of them was transferred from junior year to century. The specific reason can be imagined. However, the business of studying abroad in the group is booming, and new white girls call her "teacher". At first, they admired her reliable attitude and the fees were quite transparent. Later, she seems to have returned to China and started English training.
The other is in the civil engineering department of a public university, and seems to have graduated. He worked in the Academy of Engineering and built a group, which was very appealing and generous in answering questions. However, there are occasional advertisements from intermediaries (in fact, there are also students in the intermediaries, but they are not from our school, and each group has some minions who covet those "newcomers"). However, the group spirit is quite positive and clean.
The last guy seems to have set up n "official groups of a university" Every time he wants to join this group, he has to be talked privately by an administrator for a while. After a few words, he was thrown out. I feel that this guy is a very organized intermediary, registered a company, posted it, and often visited the entries (patrolling information health-those who stand in his way, X). It is also interesting to say, the power struggle within the intermediary group. There is no charge for private applications, and the public application is 8000 (it seems to have dropped to 5000 now). For those customers who are hesitant, this is really wise. It seems that most members of this agency are private enterprises (which private enterprises do you want to know? Baidu searches for "studying in Malaysia" and looks at the manual profiles of relevant institutions on the right, and you will understand PS: They really dare to say anything. Did they do well in high school? Some parents really gave up the initiative too hastily, and now the applicants are too lacking in initiative. They can't wait to catch it to the end and are determined to be a diploma holder.
What I want to say is not the experience of these three people, but a phenomenon-that is, some returnees come back to make a profit by helping you become a "returnee". The same attributes are constantly "inherited". This phenomenon should be pointed out before everyone decides which university to go to, and then think for themselves!
However, young people, don't be pessimistic, life is long, the college entrance examination will not be lingering, and you should dare to examine your cowardly past. If there is still that fire in your chest, you should regain your confidence and believe in the future from now on!
PS: I answered Baidu on 15, and stopped watching it. My idea at that time was still thoughtless. Studying abroad, 90% is enough for papers, but people inside and outside the window rarely think so. They always like to go around in a big circle just to get scarce and effective information. What's the problem? Time is running out, its prosperity is also rich, its death is also sudden, and there is still a period of time before the tide recedes. No one wants to be a pig on the tuyere. I started studying abroad because I read some books by teacher Xue Yong in my sophomore year, which was very enlightening. Now I feel blind, and the words of one family are not credible. Only by trying to contact various sources of information can we have a direction to go. My deepest feeling is that difficulties are not terrible, because there is no way out, no escape, and difficulties are born to be solved. Our greatest enemy is ourselves. We are timid, self-righteous, pretending to close our senses and ignoring luck. I know very well that the critical article has not made any achievements, and the last paragraph of the article is the conclusion. After reading this lengthy article, I send it to you. I hope you can bring new atmosphere to studying in Malaysia!
No slogan, now, now, now!
Finally, I just made an introduction from a personal point of view, and some of it is true, but I believe it is not comprehensive.
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Draw a dividing line and look back at your point of view at the beginning of 19 a year ago. It's so childish! Think about it or not to make any changes. It is also a complete merit to graduate on schedule now. It is not easy to complete 120 credits in six semesters. The professional academic system is three semesters less than that in China, and there are few opportunities to catch my breath. After six months of internship in Shanghai, I returned to Malaysia. /kloc-I left home for the first time in 0/year and worked as an intern in a local construction company in July and August. I participated in two competitions at the end of the term, and finished the competition on June 8 1. I am preparing to go to other countries non-stop.
A lot of things are waiting to be done, and some things must be put aside. I hope that I will walk on the road of knowing myself after all!
Here, I want to explain the architecture major in our school, which is quite special. Two-year professional courses must be practiced for half a year, and then complete the 1 year course. In fact, it is more suitable for people with a three-year diploma foundation. There are a quarter of diploma holders in my class, who are generally 3-4 years older than me. After graduating from undergraduate course, you must complete two years of postgraduate study before you are eligible to take the Malaysian registered architect exam. At present, only UM, USM, UPM, UITM and UKM have PAM and LAM. Those who need to apply for a master's degree in architecture can consider the first five. Most university architecture is a three-year program, and there is no special internship semester.