1, give each other time and space to calm down.

When we just broke up, both sides were angry. Maybe neither of them wanted to bow to the other, even if they had remorse at that time, they wouldn't show it in front of each other. It's best for both sides not to disturb each other and give each other enough personal space, so as to find out what they want and whether it was right to do that in the first place.

2. Try to improve yourself.

During this time, don't just immerse yourself in the sadness of lovelorn, but believe that as long as you still have each other in your hearts, you will definitely come together again. So what you have to do during this time is to improve yourself, learn what you like, and participate in more social activities so that the other party can see a better you. New things always have a unique attraction to people. When you stand in front of him/her with a brand-new self, he/she will definitely shine at the moment.

3, reflect on their own shortcomings

If you want to get your predecessor back, you must think about what shortcomings your predecessor didn't like. You can recall the shortcomings that the other party said intentionally or unintentionally when you were together before, and then try to correct them and try to let the other party see your determination to change for him/her, such as making friends.

Step 4 take the initiative to contact each other

After the first three steps, I believe that the other person has changed a lot about you, and it is very likely that he/she also regrets breaking up with you. Therefore, at this time, as long as you take the initiative to attack, contact each other more, care more about each other's life, health and so on. At an appropriate time, ask each other out for fun and say that you still have each other in your heart, hoping to continue to walk together. I believe that at this time, as long as the other party can't let you go, then you will be able to continue.