From the early days of the People's Republic of China to the present, China's economy has made great progress. At every stage of economic development, each generation faces different difficulties. The older generation may face the problem of not having enough to eat, and the basic material life can't be satisfied, but at least everyone is similar, and it is ok to squeeze. However, the post-90s generation is different now. It's 2020, and the post-90s generation is almost 30 years old. If a university or graduate student graduates to find a job, the first-line manufacturers will definitely earn hundreds of thousands of dollars a year, but the cost of living they face will also double. The rent is 3 thousand to 5 thousand a month, or they share it. If you buy a house, it may cost millions, and the daily expenses will be more than 10 thousand a month Of course, this is already a good condition. What is even more rare is that the academic qualifications are not so high. Most of the young people graduated from 265,438+065,438+0,985. Most of them live in basements, suburbs and villages in the city, with a meager monthly salary of 3,000 to 4,000 or even 2,000, and dare not have any entertainment activities. If the family is a little burdened, send money to the family every month, worry about the living conditions, have no savings, and dare not get sick. Not to mention second-and third-tier cities or small counties, civil servants are the best jobs, and they can guarantee their income through drought and flood. Two or three thousand yuan a month is a very good job, and their interpersonal relationship is stable. It is difficult for them to get promotion and progress. People who mix with leaders don't move easily. Everyone is trying to make a living, trying to get rid of the cage, but there is nothing they can do. Think of their elderly parents and young children. Can you take risks? Can the only savings last until the day of success? So no matter how hard it is, you can only live.

The country's economy is developing continuously, but not everyone is developing with it. A few people seize the opportunity to get a better life. However, most people fail to take that step because of various risks, but if they take that step, their lives may get worse rather than improved.

I hope everyone who sees this answer can live a happy life. Although life is hard, we can still have a pair of eyes that are good at discovering beauty, and hope is always ahead ~

Why is it so difficult for the post-90s generation? I think there are several reasons:

First, there are old and young; The largest group after 90 is 30 years old, and 98% are only children. In other words, a couple should take care of at least four elderly people, who are also the main force of the second child. In other words, they have to take care of at least four old people and raise at least one child, which is the most difficult time in their lives.

Second, the cost of living and education is high; With the rapid development of society, the rise of wages can't keep up with prices, and the cost of living has increased. Secondly, the high cost of education makes many parents do their best to attend the so-called prestigious schools, such as not eating or drinking, making up classes, extra-long classes, bilingual classes, one-on-one tutoring, and even buying school districts, which also makes these early thirties afraid to rest, get sick and spend money, and their lives are very tired.

Third, the work pressure is high. Most of these people are in their early 30s, and their careers are on the rise, with fierce competition. Compared with the post-80s generation, they lack experience and connections. Compared with the last batch of post-90s and the earliest post-00s, they lack the passion and ability to accept new things. It is in the dilemma that you dare not fight too hard, afraid of making mistakes, and you can't get on without fighting. For them, it is unrealistic to make mistakes again, so the work pressure is great.

Fourthly, for the younger post-90s generation, they don't have the pressure mentioned above, but what they need to face is high housing prices, expensive bride price and serious imbalance between men and women, to calm the contradiction between high mortgage and high-quality life, to accept the gap between ideal and reality, and to solve the problem of parents urging marriage. Generally speaking, the fatigue of these people is mental fatigue.

Generally speaking, it is difficult for the post-90s generation, but it is not difficult for any generation. Every generation has its own troubles, but now the post-90s generation is the main theme of society, so I think they are more difficult. If you don't like it, don't spray [shy] [shy] [shy] [shy] [shy] [shy]

It's really hard for the post-90s generation. Most of them have not been exposed to college education. Looking back, they had nothing, and their families were not rich since childhood. When they grow up, poor children work early, lose the rebellious period of adolescence and become precocious. Now the post-80s generation is facing the pressure of getting married, and the bride price is a house or a car. I believe many parents will not get it. In today's society, everyone is married after 80, but still young after 00. Most of the public opinion is on the back of the post-90 s. Even though we are children and don't want to grow up, we should pretend to be mature and work outside. We try our best to introduce our products in front of customers. In front of the boss, we said that the post-90s generation was really amazing. Try to choose your position in society, get a foothold, face parents' urging marriage, market assessment, and give up life. In the eyes of the post-00 s, we are the uncles of the post-90 s, and only we can understand that kind of pressure.

The pressure of social competition, the employment pressure of the society is great now, there is no such "iron rice bowl" as before, and people are facing unemployment at any time. You will be eliminated if you don't work hard. "Society forced me to take the civil service exam." A netizen said that he didn't want to have a job as a civil servant before, because that was not the work life he pursued, but now there is no way out. The work pressure is too great, and sometimes I am as busy as an entrepreneur. The pressure of life comes from all aspects, not necessarily from family.

People with high economic pressure can't breathe. After entering the society, social life is quite different from what they imagined. In the past, I thought it was the most common and natural thing to get married and have children, provide for the elderly and commute every day when I grew up. Now I am wrong. With the growth of age, everything becomes extravagant. Seeing that the house price is rising day by day, my salary is kept at two or three thousand yuan. Although I know that love has nothing to do with money, I still have to earn enough money first.

With the improvement of women's status, men and women will always encounter the problem of "being a woman" when they are in love. They always want to pass the constant strange test when they examine the degree to which men love themselves. The post-90s generation is getting higher and higher bride price and higher house prices. For many post-90s generation, marriage is a luxury. Because there used to be a preference for men over women, there are too many men and too few women in society now, which leads to the higher and higher status of women. A woman may have three or more boyfriends and countless ambiguous objects.

But don't worry too much, every generation has its own difficulties, and those who work hard will have good returns. As a post-80s generation, I am quite optimistic about the post-90s generation who are working hard now. It's hard for you. In such a society where things are rapidly declining and it is difficult to innovate, you need to innovate. Every era has some people who are complacent and feel good about themselves. Can't say all. Life is an experience, whether it is good or bad, it is the answer to your life.

In fact, to put it bluntly, it's not just the hard work of the post-90 s, but the post-80 s and post-70 s are the same. It's just that different times, different pursuits and different growth environments have created people's personality and desires.

In the early days, people only wanted to solve the most basic problem of food and clothing, and there were not many other requirements. With the development of the times, people are not only satisfied with food and clothing, but also have certain spiritual pursuits. People will enjoy life more and more. Under the mainstream of material society, we have to follow the pace of social changes to cater to this society. So this requires us to have a certain economic ability to solve these material comforts. This relationship is mutual. If you want to live a good life, you must make more efforts to change the conditions of enjoyment. So, this is another layer of pressure on yourself. Everyone is pursuing height. No one wants to be in a daze in this life. Things have changed, and no one has lived in vain. Don't bear too much pressure in life, learn to solve it.

Solve this problem, let this similar tangled person have a good attitude and find the hope of survival. Now provide wisdom assistance.

First of all, rational understanding from the mentality. First, the country is not only stable, but also strong. As a post-90s generation, people should be very lucky. Think of countries that are currently at war or in extreme poverty. The post-90s generation simply envies the post-90s generation in our country. Because the life safety of people in similar countries is a problem, and the environment in China is so good that it provides a platform for everyone to show their survival skills.

The second is to fully realize that as long as people are still alive, it is "very difficult." It is better to face it frankly than to complain.

The other is the post-80s and post-70s around us. Besides the post-90s generation, is another "post" an emperor? As for the post-90s generation, why is it so difficult? The main thing is that you didn't see the difficulties of the post-70s and post-80s. People who have this idea show that the weakness of human nature is extremely extreme.

The fourth is to think about life correctly. With the above knowledge, your mind will return to normal and rational. You should seriously think about your future life. In particular, what you have to do is to think about the reasons for your current difficulty, understand why it is so difficult, and start to solve it.

As the information provided by the question is limited, we can only help in this matter.

There are difficulties after 60, difficulties after 60, difficulties after 70, difficulties after 70 and difficulties after 80! After 90, there must be troubles after 90!

No matter what age, you will feel the hardships of society! The difficulties of every era are due to economic problems! Then, the cause of economic problems is nothing more than the lack of a considerable way of income! We should think about the problem from another angle, and don't always take the pressure of the times as an excuse, because every era has its own pressure!

Should we start from ourselves and do some reflection?

First, have we gone all out to fight for life? Or just shouting slogans and actually indulging in the mobile phone world? Muddle along?

Second, have we won the ability to match our goals? It is important to keep learning, and it is more important to keep improving yourself. Why can't we do what others can do? Why can't we do it when others live well? In today's society, people do what they can, and it is naturally difficult to decide which is better or worse!

Third, do we insist on doing the same thing? Half-hearted, ambitious, picking up sesame seeds and throwing watermelons, everywhere! It's not that complicated to achieve something. Do the right thing with your heart and persevere, and then you can finally walk in the forefront!

Fourth, is our mentality good? On the way forward, it is inevitable to encounter all kinds of bumps, and the so-called winners are not always smooth sailing. They also went through ups and downs to climb to the top of the mountain! If you don't have a good attitude, it's even harder!

After reflection, adjust yourself and continue to fight! When you climb to the top of the mountain one day and look back at today's question, you will find that it is not that difficult! My humble opinion, I hope you like it!

After 1.90, I have already shouldered the mortgage or rent more or less;

2. The increase in wages will never be as big as the increase in house prices;

3. Why can't beauty cosmetics, cosmetics, lipsticks, bags, shoes, clothes, etc. Full of my cupboard?

I got up earlier than the chicken and went to bed later than the pig in the company. I have to carry the burden for the leaders. Leaders all want horses to run, but they don't want to feed them, thinking that they work voluntarily;

5. Parents are facing retirement, and the economic burden at home suddenly shifts to themselves;

6. The tens of thousands of deposits saved are hard to survive the COVID-19 epidemic and dare not get sick;

Wait, wait, wait

Originally a quiet salted fish, it was asked to put on the skin of a phoenix. Who is it easy to put it on?

"Why is it so difficult after 90 today?" Seeing this question, I can't help asking, "Is it difficult to be born after 60, 70, 80 or other zeros?" In fact, how to understand how to treat it? For example, a young lady can't open the door to receive guests only after feeling, can she? Another example is a writer. Did he start writing because he was inspired? Similarly, it is not difficult to blame the employees of a unit for waiting until they are in the mood to start working. So I want to say that "youth is wonderful because of tossing, and life is brilliant because of hard work". God is fair to all of us. If someone makes you cry, someone will make you laugh.