A former classmate and friend joined hands to invest and develop real estate in the mainland. He made a lot of money smoothly, and there was an argument when he divided the money. In a rage, his friend accused him of tax evasion and was found guilty. This classmate became a prisoner and a pair of close friends turned against each other. After two years in prison, my classmates vowed to take revenge, didn't do any business, spent a lot of money running around, and finally sued their enemies for misappropriating company funds in prison. Revenge, but people are not easy. Business has basically stopped in recent years, and almost all the money earned in these years has been spent on lawsuits to find relationships. It is said that old friends spread malicious words in prison, and they will not be spared when they come out! In order to get revenge completely, students are spending money everywhere to find relationships, hoping to give him a heavy sentence. Seeing this classmate that day, he looked tired. I really don't know how to persuade him. Businessmen seek money instead of gasoline. In order to win a sigh of relief, both sides lose, and people and money are empty. I don't know how long this revenge drama will last. It really hurts to think of it.
From Revenge of Classmates, I think of an American movie: a rancher in the western United States, who sold his ranch because his family was shot by bandits, sought revenge all over the world. When it took the rancher more than ten years to find the murderer, he found that the murderer was ill in bed and had no resistance. He asked the rancher to give him a fatal blow. The rancher raised his gun and put it down again. The rancher walked out of the shabby hut in frustration and muttered to himself in the sunset: "I gave up everything and wasted decades of cold and heat." Now I am old. What's the point of revenge? "
Yes, what's the point of revenge? The problem is that repayment is meaningless in our country. Not taking revenge is immoral and despised by the world. If it is not cowardice, incompetence and ignorance, it is a treason to heal the scar and forget the pain.
Revenge is China's traditional "virtue". "When enemies meet, they are particularly jealous." It is only natural that people repay kindness, revenge, pay back debts and kill people for their lives. It has won the understanding, recognition and support of all people in China. You see, Song Jiang killed his daughter-in-law, Song Wu killed his sister-in-law, and Lu Da hit Kansai Town. These are all criminal acts in law, but they are only taken for granted by ordinary people in China. We often hear that "revenge is never too late for a gentleman", "revenge is not a gentleman" and "revenge is not reported, and I dare not say it even if I die". As long as there is revenge, people will fight for revenge when they are alive. In order to achieve the goal of revenge, they can do whatever it takes, regardless of time and cost, and they can sacrifice their lives for justice. If they don't get revenge in this life, they can still leave it to future generations. If the enemy dies, the descendants of the enemy are still the target of revenge. The so-called "father's debt is to be paid" is the truth. What is a feud? Is to continue hatred from generation to generation, without end. Sometimes revenge on a person often becomes revenge on a family or even a group, and revenge will inevitably hurt others and innocent people. Revenge seems to be the most important thing in China's life, and it is the morality and virtue that every gentleman, at least a real man, must shoulder. Since China has always ruled by man over the rule of law, most of us don't believe in the law and prefer to take personal actions to solve hatred. Until today, "everyone is equal before the law" is still difficult to come true, and it is not surprising that self-revenge can prevail.
Revenge is an eternal theme in our classical novels and plays. Without revenge, there would be no martial arts novels. The title of Jin Yong's book The Book of Sword and Revenge is Revenge. People in China like revenge stories. Without revenge, readers are not interested in reading. Revenge has become a major culture in China. Many people are born with the burden of revenge. They got revenge, but they didn't. In that era of "taking class struggle as the key link", revenge became a political need. Those in power shouted the slogan "Don't forget class bitterness, remember blood and tears", inciting people to turn emotional hatred into concrete actions, listen to it and be at their mercy, so as to achieve the expected goal. Revenge is a play by China. Do you think it can be quiet?
In fact, revenge can certainly solve the hatred in my heart, but some revenge doesn't mean you can report it if you want. Three years, five years, ten years, eight years, revenge is likely to be your life's goal. Some people devote their whole lives to their careers, but lose money. Some people take revenge and even lose all their money, which is not worth the loss. Some people will not be able to pay in this life or even be implicated in the next generation, and the future trouble will be endless.
"Zhuangzi" said: "Everything is tolerant and not flattering." Tolerance is not only a mind, a realm, but also a civilization and progress. After the victory of World War II, many British people wanted revenge. Prime Minister Churchill said, "If you want to punish the past with the present, you will lose the future." Britain's post-war strength was attributed to the enlightened Churchill. Nelson mandela, the black leader of South Africa, became the president of South Africa after being persecuted for 27 years. What he thought of was not revenge, but tolerance and peace, which put South Africa on the democratic road of national reconciliation. Mandela has also become a model of world leaders with his tolerant and fraternity political mind.
After living in the world for decades, there are always some grievances and enmities, and there is hatred in my heart. Whether you report it or not, being troubled always makes you anxious every day, thinking about how to retaliate, thinking that you are still restless, restless and weakened. It's been years since your revenge. Even if I get revenge, what can I get? How much happiness and relaxation you should have lost because of a passionate dispute and quick engraving! Deepen hatred of the enemy. You will live in more fear, always afraid that one day you will be calculated by the enemy. Aren't you tired this day? When can I get revenge, revenge, revenge?
You can't fight between people, but you can fight and don't report hatred, but you can't forget that hatred can give you the strength to work hard, inspire you to progress and become your driving force. A lot of hate, resentment, anger and resentment actually lie in their own feelings. The best "revenge" in the world is the "revenge" with achievements. When you are strong and successful, your enemies will be defeated at your feet without fighting. If we can turn the double loss of "when to take revenge" into a win-win situation of "meeting with a smile and forgetting the enmity"? That is the greatest success in life.
Don't you think it's a real gentleman not to take revenge?