In this world, we want too many things, but we do too little for them. When we do something, we always think of the worst result first, which makes my self-confidence suddenly disappear.
It's really embarrassing that the last time has passed and we haven't finished our own value.
In fact, if you really work hard in a limited time, then the result will definitely not be like this.
When you work hard and find that nothing has been achieved, then your efforts are false efforts.
In our life, the result is the last thing to lie. If the result makes you unhappy, you are not working hard enough.
There are many people around us who verbally say what kind of person I want to be, and then turn around and pick up the phone to brush short videos.
While speaking, I did a lot to become the most successful businessman, but in the process of hard struggle, I did nothing but learn to play games and come to bars to drink.
Incredible, the final result is basically not the "ambitious plan" I promised.
So, don't be a person who only verbally shouts hard slogans. Because in the end, I won't play with you.
02
I believe many people have seen the talk show conference and know that Li Xueqin is a dark horse.
Some people say that Li Xueqin is really lucky. When he started talking about talk shows, he made the top five in China.
Many people think that God is very kind to her, as if she won easily without any effort.
In fact, Li Xueqin worked really hard, but you didn't see it.
Anyone familiar with Li Xueqin knows that she graduated from Peking University and was the top scholar in Liaoning Province at that time.
How can a person become a top scholar in a province and enter Peking University if he doesn't work hard?
The reason why we see others relax is because they keep working hard in the center that we can't see.
In this world, there is no sudden luck, only persistence that never gives up.
Only persistence can bring fruit, and only light clouds and light winds.
I once had a friend who worked hard. Every time we chat, she says she doesn't work hard, but her back is almost crazy.
Because you don't work hard, when you have a result, others will think it is a spectacle, but there are not so many wonders in life.
My friend taught himself to take the law exam, and it was hard all the way, and finally passed the department exam. We seem to think the result is easy for her, but God knows how much she has paid.
It is because of crazy efforts that the result seems to be effortless.
No matter whether you study or work hard, you may have fooled many people, but you can't fool them. When the results are presented, you say that you have worked hard and no one will believe you.
I believe some friends have seen the Japanese TV series "The Spice Girl at the Bottom". Girls are at the bottom at the beginning and have no interest in learning. Finally, she met a teacher. With the encouragement of the teacher and my own efforts, she finally got into an imaginary university.
Many times, only qualitative change can cause qualitative change, but we don't seem to want to do this. We just want to eat a fat man, but it's really sad.
03
If you don't know how to pave the way for my life and don't work hard, then the result can only be to make my life worse.
You may be complacent that I can spend time, but you don't know that time is mixed with you.
A few years ago, one of my classmates said that he would take the postgraduate entrance examination. In this case, he will have more confidence in his future work.
I know my level very well, so I have no great ambition, so I can only give him my best wishes.
At the beginning, after the lecture, this classmate devoted himself to actively preparing for the exam, "studying" in the dark every day, and occasionally basking in his "hard work" in the circle of friends.
As can be seen from his circle of friends, he worked hard every day. In my opinion, people who work so hard will definitely win, let alone take the postgraduate entrance examination. No matter how hard he works, he can get a doctorate.
Then we broke up because of work, until I went back to school to do something last year. Only on the day when the teacher learned that the student who vowed to take the postgraduate entrance examination failed the exam and the results came out, he returned to his hometown in despair.
I was a little surprised at the time. Really, at that time, he forgot to eat and sleep almost every day. I worked late, and when I got home, I could see his new circle of friends. He is still reading a book.
How can a person who works so hard not be blessed by God?
The teacher seemed to see my doubts, so he smiled and said to me:
"Are you cheated by his circle of friends? He didn't study so hard for the exam. Although it is not too difficult to take the postgraduate entrance examination, it is also very difficult to get into the exam if he does not actively prepare for the exam, which he knows well.
I encouraged him when he was preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination. Later, I was infected by his circle of friends, thinking that he studied until midnight every day.
In fact, he didn't really prepare for the exam. He plays games most of the time. He just asked for leave to have a rest, took out a book to dry, and pretended to be trying. "
After listening to the teacher's words, I was a little lost, but only for a moment. After all, it's your own life, and what kind of result you want is up to you.
Even if you don't live what you want, you just perfunctory yourself. In fact, many people in my life, like my classmates, shout hard verbally, but in fact they are silently playing other games, such as games.
I hid, smug, thinking that all my development would arouse the envy and praise of others, but the result was not what he wanted.
Because, if you pretend to work hard, you will basically not get the desired results. You lied to no one else, but to yourself.
When you believe in your acting skills, you have actually lost, because the result will not accompany you in acting.
If all efforts are illusory, then is this effort still meaningful?
The final result must be unbearable for me. I must always know that there are still some things to do between wanting and getting. If you really want to fulfill my fantasy and make me better, then work hard.
I believe that when you work hard, there will be miracles.
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