Make clear the official definitions of close neighbor, distant relative and harmony, and pay special attention to your cooperation. Be sure to be in the same line. Don't screw it up. Grab the one that suits you best.
And pay attention to hitting each other with data.
Jiangnan Metropolis Daily launched a random sampling survey on neighborhood relations. The survey results show that less than 20% of the respondents think they are familiar with all their neighbors; Four adults think that they are only familiar with a few people in their neighbors, and they are only nodding acquaintances with others; More than 10% people think that although they know all their neighbors, they are just nodding acquaintances; Another 20% people think they only know a few neighbors. Excuse me, under such a neighborhood relationship, can the argument that the other debater tried to explain that "distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors" still hold water?
Everyone has a home, and if there is a home, there are neighbors. Once, for many people, neighbors were better than relatives, but through this survey, we found that many people thought that "distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors" has become a thing of the past. The communication between neighbors is becoming more and more superficial and formal, and the neighborhood relationship tends to be cold. Through investigation and integration, the following data are obtained:
First, there are many people who greet and nod when they meet, accounting for about 8 1%.
Second, "I don't know much about my neighbors' family members" is almost the most common phenomenon, accounting for about 93%.
Third, about 30% of people "have an average relationship with their neighbors, which is passable"
4. Only 12% people "turn to their neighbors for help when they are uncertain about major issues", and the remaining 78% people entrust these major issues to their relatives.
According to the questionnaire survey, more than 80% adults feel that the neighborhood relationship is becoming more and more indifferent. I don't want to face up to the indifferent neighborhood in modern society, but I always use my beautiful imagination to build a garden-like neighborhood. Is this a realistic attitude?
The question is:
1. In today's fast-developing information society, distance is no longer an obstacle, but for relatives, even privacy can be made public without scruple because they know the roots. Can you do this in front of your neighbors?
2. In terms of affection, blood is thicker than water, and distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors. When you encounter a problem, do you choose to ask for help from your neighbors who have nothing to do with you, or from your relatives who are of the same ancestry?
3, "Shuo Wen Jie Zi" cloud: "Pro, Zhi Ye", "Neighbor, Five Neighbors"; There are more definitions in Chinese dictionaries: "pro" means "deep affection and close relationship", which is an irresistible approach in the mind, while "neighbor" is "an organizational address of residents", which focuses on geographical proximity. I want to ask another debater, how can geographical proximity replace spiritual proximity? Just because neighbors are closer to you than relatives and see more, can you arbitrarily draw the conclusion that "distant relatives are not as close as neighbors"?
4 In terms of emotional intimacy, close neighbors are not as good as distant relatives; Blood relationship gives people a sense of responsibility. May I ask another debater, does your neighbor have a sense of responsibility to you?
5. China is a society that pays attention to ethical traditions. The inherent social and national cultural structure determines our deep psychological model of attaching importance to family ties, especially in today's highly developed telecommunications industry, where distant relatives are no longer far away.